Cae eS ee TT (COPY) Dr. Forrest C. Allen Athletic Department University of Kansas Lawrence, Kansas Dear Friend Phog, I have written you about everything under the sun except girls, and so to make sure the record is complete, that's what I am doing now. Of course, you understand that I know the man who runs a department in the University and coaches the Varsity team has plenty of time to wet nurse all the freshmen that might decide to go to the University of Kansas and under= standing this full well, here is the story. Mariam Calder, 1215 Oread Ave., has entered the University of Kansas as a freshman. Not having a daughter and she being the daughter of our best friends and knowing her even before she arrived, we couldn't think more of her if she were our own flesh and blood. Her father was a Crewman at Cornell, a frat- ernity man, captain in the artillery in the last war, is now one of the executives of the Mid-Continent Refinery. Her mother was one of the outstanding students at Vassars She has family back of her to who laid the chalk. She went to Holland Hall, a girls school at Andover, Massachusetts. She is attractive, healthy, red-headed and is everything that a girl shoudd be but she doesn't have the right contacts to get a bid from one of the three sororities that she thought were tops at K.U. She was invited by four, but they did not appeal to her as much as the others and the child is very much disappointed. I think the real disappointment is that she never has been situated where she could have boy friends and she has gotten the impression that unless you belong to the right group at the University, you haven't any chance at social life. She may or may not be right. I am sort of old fashioned and feel that a lot of barnacles have attached themselves to our so-called educational system and that there are things in universities quite as big as the social life, but my thinking doesn't help a girl entering the University as a freshman, very much. Now this is what I have in mind, Phog, you might happen to meet this girl or you might be talking with some of your own fraternity men and could tip off the freshmen where they could meet a classy date with the kind of girl you would be proud to have as a daughter. She isn't a necker, but she is a good sport and a thorobred. She made an athletic letter at Abbotts and just a youngster thet enybody can be proud of. Of course, you haven't time to put yourself out any and you are not in a position to do it, but if by accident your paths should cross, this is a good-sized read-heade Osteber 6, 1941. Mr. William Es Hodges, Supte, Scandia, Kansas. Dear Mr. Hodges: I would suggest that you write a personal letter to My. Les Freeburg, of Lowe & Campbell Athletic Goods Co., Kansas City, Missouri, and tell him that I referred you theree if anybody would be able te prescribe or suggest where a shoe could be bought perhaps Les would find that out for you. i am glad to hear from you, and wish you good lucke Sincerely yours, Director of Physical Education and Recreation, FCA:AH Varsity Basketball and Baseball Coach. ERNEST NELSON, Director CARL HAMMER, Clerk MBS. C. E. NELSON, Treasurer Srandia Public Schools WILLIAM E. HODGES, Superintendent Scandia, Kansas Oct. 2, 1941 Dr. F. C. Allen Lawrence, Kansas Dear Dr. Allen: In my school I have a boy who had infantile paralysis a few years ago and as a result, he has one limb which is smaller than the other and about one-half inch shorter. He wants to participate in the gym classes and try and strengthen his weak limb. I told him I thought you might be able +648 where he could secure a basket ball shoe which would help relieve his difficulty. He is a brilliant boy, is anxious to progress and wants to help him- self. Any information concerning such a shoe, its cost, etc. will be much appreciated. Bette. lily 4 William E. Hodges b ‘from Three Generations of a ‘Kansas ‘family A Tribute to My ‘father fom Mysel} and My Son on My Birthday Kichard Allen Hickey Wedication I missed being born on Kansas Day by a matter of an hour or so, thirty-several years ago, on the 28th day of January. Throughout the years on my birthday, first in life, and then in very poignant, very real memory, there has always been the image of my father, Ernest Clyde Hickey (1868-1927). The progenitor of my being was an ever present source of comfort in the troubles of boyhood. He was a rock of strength in the problems of young manhood. And had he lived, I have no doubt but that he would have been an adoring and spoiling grandparent. So — both as a Memorial to my father, and an example to my young son, Allen Mills Hickey, of many things which a man should be—I am printing this little booklet of hitherto un- published verses and writings of Ernest Clyde Hickey. My father was soft-spoken a great portion of the time. He was suave and courteous, calm and dignified most of the time. He had the massive shoulders and chest of an athlete, combined with the gentle understanding of a savant and a philosopher, and with these was as brilliant an intellect as I have ever met. His fifty-nine years of life were not renowned for preserva- tion of earthly goods, nor for success in financial affairs. But in those fifty-nine years he was seldom lacking in the eternal verities. Born as a poor boy of pioneering parents, he came to Kansas in a covered wagon in the early 1870’s, settling at Peabody. He gained an education by his own efforts, graduating from high school and from the University of Kansas, with valedictorian and summa cum laude honors. In adult life as assistant to Francis Huntington Snow, chancellor of his alma mater; superintendent of schools during the halcyon gold-rush days at Cripple Creek, Colo.; as a historian, a professor, an author, a friend, and as a kindly and noble gentleman, he left his mark on many hundreds of young men, with whose guidance and instruction he was entrusted. And in these days, when the world is again involved in a gigantic blood bath, I’know of no more fitting way to regain a sense of proportion than from the simple yet stately verses that flowed from his pen, so easily they seemed almost without effort. RicHarp ALLEN HIcKEY January 28, 1942 Hitherto Unpublished Works of Ernest Clyde Hickey On The Human Face More marvelous than the gifted art : That chisels the carved vase, Is the magic power of the human heart To mold the human face. —1925 On The Death of My Father-in-Law, Rev. A. O. Ebright May 1925 He is not dead. It cannot be. Life’s pulsing passion but stifled lies. And he who walked this earth with me Now lives anew in Paradise— A disembodied spirit—free. To My Sweetheart and Wife (Note: This has been used as a lyric for Ethelbert Nevin’s “‘Canzonetta,’’ more commonly known as ‘‘ Venetian Love Song.’’—R.A.H.) Aye, beauteous petalled rose, Kissed by the morning’s dew; Betake your flight this very night To one more fair than you. The liquid sphere that nestled here Within your chalice sweet, Howe’er so fair cannot compare With her whom you shall greet. Aye, beauteous petalled rose, I wish that I were you, For when you greet my lady sweet, I know what she will do. Unto her breast with tears caressed, She'll press you to her heart, Her nectared kiss will be your bliss When you my love impart. —1899 The Law of Perpetuity True morality in social service lies. Those who live for Self cannot hope To attain Life’s most precious prize. For selfishness is self-pervasive. We live as we get and give. The happiest men are they who serve That others may happier and better live. For this is the Law of Perpetuity. —1925 Critique on Character of The German People (This Critique was written by my father in an analysis of Jon- athan French Scott’s text ‘‘Patriots in the Making,’’ in 1916, be- fore America’s entrance into the First World War, at the instance of D. Appleton and Company, Publishers, New York City—R.A.H.) THE GERMANS are characterized by: (1) Race-Consciousness Exaggerated. (2) A National Glorification. (3) A National Egotism. (4) An excessive pride in what they refer to as Kultur, and the rest of the world as a cold, unreasoning, national brutality, if the end desired can only be attained by brutality. THE GERMANS believe that: (1) Germany is THE CIVILIZED NATION of Europe. (2) All civilization SOMEWHERE ELSE is due to the presence of German blood in those peoples. (3) That all German conquests are justifiable. THE GERMANS inevitably manage to invoke upon other na- tions the guilt for the wars she has waged. Such exaggerated race-consciousness leads to an unwarranted sus- picion of other countries. It is an obsession. The German “kaiser-idea” suggests a Germanic Unity of all peoples. GERMANS emphasize: (1) “The supreme duty of sacrificing all individualism to the state.” (2) Loyalty to the Ruling House and Devotion to the Father- Jand are synonyms. (3) Little tots are taught in their hesebucher to revere the Ruling House. (4) The Ruling House is canonized as a race of heroes. Their sins are condoned. (5) The German schools place the Kaiser, or whatever Ruling House may exist, upon a pedestal, crowning his brow with wreaths of Joyalty and Jove. CONCLUSIONS: Education in Germany develops a_ national egoism, with all due failure to make allowances for shortcomings, disparaging and ignoring all other nations and toying with a vision of a greater national destiny. The Gossip (Dedicated to a nameless acquaintance) There’s a grey old crone Who wanders alone Some scandal to collect; Like the garbage man Who empties our can, She’s instant to inspect Some neighborhood tale With which to regale The ears of decent people. Why should this crone Flit from home to home, In search of scandals there, Is more than I know, But this Pll trow She’s always sure to declare, The neighborhood news E’en to the folks in the pews When at church she happens to go. But as this garrulous crone Goes wandering alone Her scandals to collect, I'll wager a dime There’s never a time Her own she stops to inspect. Avaunt then this danger, This neighborhood ranger, More ruthless than maverick. Beware of this crone Who wanders alone She’s a character assassin addict! —1925 Wellington and Waterloo When the blare of the trumpets was silenced, And the beat of the rolling drum, When the din of the battles was over And peace, at last, had come— "Twas then the Iron Duke of England Went his college days to renew And rest him among his honors He had won at Waterloo. Then on the green sward of the campus, Where in college days he had play’d He stood in calm meditation, Thinking of his progress made. Deep absorbed in retrospection, Dwelling on the deeds he had done, He remarked unto his fellows: “Here’s where Waterloo was won.” —1924 Fossils and Footprints I have scouted wide prairies Where once stood an inland sea; I have searched with eager scanning For whatever there might be Hidden among hillside chalk cliffs, Or beneath the arroyo mold, Where dinosaurs and reptiles Cavorted in days of old. I have seen fossil megatherii, That browsed high among the trees; And I’ve digged the monstrous skeletons Of the saurians of inland seas; I have seen the bat-like Pterodactyl With his bird-bill full of teeth, And I’ve seen his winged fingers With which he hung to the trees beneath. But to me far more mysterious Than all this paleontologic array, Is the imprint of a human foot, Preserved in granite slab of grey. Who was he? Perhaps some cave-man, Who gazed far out at sea, And felt there a silent yearning For God and Eternity. —1923 The Coyote of The Plains I have heard them on the hillocks, "Mid the tall prairie grass; I have heard them weirdly howling To the breezes as they pass; And for weird, uncanny yelping The Coyote of the Plains Can make more hideous noises Than all of his kindred strains. I have seen them on the prairies, Chasing jack rabbits by relays; I have seen them slyly slipping Upon their feathered preys; But for downright cunning thieving, The Coyote of the Plains Can bag more wily victims Than all his kindred strains. I have seen these imps of Satan Chasing shepherd dogs at night; I have seen them boldly bluffing Just as though they'd really fight; But for all the art of cunning The Coyote of the Plains Has gotten all other canines Beat a mile for cunning brains. —1921 In Love With Life? In love with life? No, not I— Although I do not care to die; For life has held in store for me More than my share of misery. What is life But a struggle severe? A struggle that goes on year by year, Rending sore the heart o’erpowered in the strife For mere bread and butter just to sustain life. Then struggle on, tired heart, and fight, Though the toil extend through day and night; And joy shall supplant your misery, For the best of life is yet to be— Mayhap reserved for Eternity. —1927 To a Silhouette of a Savage A savage on a hillside, A shoreline and a sea, A sense of primitive beauty, And the world’s immensity; The starlit dome of the heavens, And the moonlight on the lea, Made poetic the soul of the savage, As he gazed far out at sea. A soothing sense of pleasure, And the pain of a wild desire, Made his pulse beat faster And set his soul on fire For a certain subtle something— A something that would not quell Until it found its answer In religion’s mystic spell. —1921 Musings of a Little Boy When I was a boy, a little boy, Lying awake at night, I used to wonder Why right could not be wrong And wrong could not be right. For the things I most wished to do Were usually wrong, you see, And that which was right, you know, Was res non grata to me. —1925 To An Atheist Friend Tell me, Atheist, Dissenter, Tell me, if you can, What has Atheism ever done For the betterment of man? Tell me, Atheist, Dissenter, Did you ever know A disbelieving Da Vinci Or an atheist Angelo? Tell me, garrulous Sycophant, I defy you to tell Of a blasphemous Boticello, Or a reviling Raphael? —1923 Matter Is Indestructible Matter is indestructible. Whatever is, has always been. What’s always been, will ever be. Forms do but change. Just so with Men Who borrow from earth this mortal clay And give it back to earth again. Forms do but change. If the component atoms forever are, Mayhap the soul within this borrowed clay Hath had its beginnings in fields afar, And thence again someday may stray To live anew forever more. —1927 To a Friend in Trouble Souls are sweetest Which have saddest been. The best of Souls belong to oft-troubled men, Who, surcharged with sorrows, above them rise, And plot their course toward Paradise. Spurn not, then, the Hand that smites you For otherwise you will not accrue Those virtues that bless and make you glad. Better saddened be than joyful-mad With the frivolities of earth, Which bring in their train a dearth Of inconsequential joys, malign, For the mission of sorrow is sublime. —1925 To a Brain Preserved in Alcohol My Brain is not I— I am a spiritual part, That is not meant to die. Nor will I die When my brain dies; This Life is a consciousness Between two Eternities: Birth and Death. My Life is more than Flesh and blood and breath. Nor am I a mass of animated flesh; I am a Spiritual Essence, An Identity, a Consciousness Which someday, breaking leash, Will rise in majesty That makes Men The climax of the Creator’s plan. —1925 To My Indian Friend, Pokagon I saw him often, standing, A stoic on the spot— Gazing into the setting sun _ Absorbed in deepest thought. With his blanket drawn about him He stood silent and alone, While his motionless form majestic Seemed a statue carved in stone. He was dreaming of the future Of his fellow aborigines; He was thinking of their past Beset with tragedies. And while he stood in silence, Majestically alone, His motionless form impressive, Seemed a statue carved in stone. —1924 Napoleon in Reflection The salt, sharp tang of the sea breeze, Swept athwart of his haggard face, As he stood there beside the sea Gazing far out into space. The memories of battles And campaigns waged in war, Brought him rueful recollections Of what he had been before. Then turning to his attendant, In measured speech and low, He bespoke his heart’s reflections On the events of long ago: “Alexander, myself and Caesar Have lands and kingdoms won; But Jesus, the Christ, by the power of Love Has all of us outdone. “Without armament or battleship, Without battery or gun, This lonely peasant Prince of Peace Has greater glories won | _ Than all earth’s greatest soldiers Within range of human ken, For the power of Love more potent is Than ten million armed men.” 1925 The Rights of Man Socrates drinking the hemlock, Savonarola on a funeral pyre, Saint Paul in a Mamartine dungeon, And Huss consigned to the fire, All heeding the call of Conscience, Selfless, sacrificial and brave, Inspired by some Hope Immortal, Their lives for humanity gave. Few know the soul of a martyr Branded by Ignominy; Few knew the hearts of the heroes Who died to make men free. But the greatest heroes of a nation Are not they who march in the van Of battling, surging armies— They've died for the Rights of Man. —1921 A Way of Life (Note: This was my father’s last writing, penned just efore his fatal seizure.—R.A.H.) My Son, stand up and take your part Against all manner and kinds of men; In your veins flow the blood of men Who claimed this gracious country from a wilder- ness, Who fought and bled to establish it a nation, Who died to keep that nation from being rent asunder— Who fought anew that autocracy might not prevail. My Son, I held you in my arms, a little lad; And dreamed you would succeed where I had failed. I saw in you the fulfillment of all those aims, Which, under other fates, I might have known. Fears you will know as you pursue life’s pathway; But only in yielding to Fears will you do wrong. Fight the good fight and keep the faith. Determine in your mind what is right, And having so determined, take your stand Though all your friends and all the so-called wise men May hold otherwise. Thus, in so living, you may frequently know failure; But you need never fear disgrace. And rest assured, that if this talk of immortality Be not mere balderdash, Your loving father will be with you in spirit, Always.. —December 1927 Lawes hg 89> SO sean att November 12, 1941 Mr. He We. (8411) hivehes Robinson Gymnasium Campus Dear 5ill, When David L. MacFarlane, governor of our Rotary district, was here three weeks ago, he asked me to convey his very best wishes to your I saw Scotty at Olathe in August and he asked about you and again when he was in Lawrence he asked me to extend to you his best wishes. When I saw you in Weidemanns the other day, the matter slipped my mind. I am now doing tne job that I promised Scotty I would do. He wishes you well. Sincerely, Director of Physical Education and Recreation FCA/pg Varsity Basketball and Baseball Coach ‘Wovember 19, 1941 Miss Betty Jean Hess Kappa Kappa Gamma lawrence, Kansas Deer Betty Jean, I was sorry that I missed you yesterday when you stopped at the effice to see me. I hope that we can arrange for a visit some- time in the near future. Congratulations on being a member of as fine a group as the Modern Choir, Mrs, Allen and I enjoyed your singing so much at the Jayhawk Round-Up in the Union Building. Mrs. Allen remarked how cute she thought you looked. 7 Please drop by again, Betty Jean, I certainly would enjoy talking with you. With all good wishes I an Sincerely yours, Director of Physicel Education and Recreation FCA/pg Varsity Basketball and Baseball Coach December 4, 1941 Prof. V.P. Hessler Marvin Hall Campus Dear Professor Hessler, I have tried several times to reach you by telephone, but have been unsuccessful in my attempts. Thank you very much for calling me regarding the motors for the score boards. Since I heard nothing more regarding the possibility of our receiving them, I assumed that we were defeated in our attempts to procure them. Thank you very much for your efforts. We will just carry on until such time as we are able to get some. Sincerely yours, iS Director of Physical Education and Recreation PCA/pg ~ Varsity Basketball and Baseball Coach ir. Fred Harvis Senior Supervisor Federal Security Agenoy National Youth Administration for Kansas New England Building \ Topeka, Kansas | Dear Prod, I have been waiting expectently for a check which is long past dues toe Finda’ areatt that a man can have is made by prompt pay- nent. Sincerely, Director of Physical Bducation and Reercation Varsity Basketball and Baseball Coach Ooteber 15, 1941 Mr. Fred Harris Mationgy Fouts Aa Federal Security Agency Dear Freddie, Thank you very much for your good letter of the llth instant enclosing check for $50 to apply on your note. I'm very glad that your job is highly satisfactory. Give Miss Laughlin my regards and tell her I was happy te recommend a young man who is making good. I an happy for you, Freddie, that you arg@able to see the green light. 1°11 also tell Milton Allen that, Jou extend your best wishes for success to him. He really is @ing a fine job end he is maturing in a manner pleasing to us. He is studying hard and seems happier than he ever has in his life. I predict for him a successful future. ; With kindest regards to you and Mrs. Harris I am Sincerely yours, PCA/pg | , Varbity Basketball Cos December 11, 1942. "1 em in receipt of a mimeographed of Mamel For Basketball oetiotating, 1S? | , Compiled by yoursel®, Ti: » Soumrt Baller, Stuelke, ‘ened Ab Hinghews : a We find that e few copies of this mamel would _ be very useful to us in connection with our intremurals, and if you could send us say, five eopies, we would apprece tate it greatly. We shall be gled to reimburse you for postage or any other expense in comection with mil~ the copies. ES Very sincerely yours, -“ Pireeter of Physical Edueation and Reoroation, FGAsAH Varsity Basketball and Baseball ee _ 2 am in receipt of your commumication of the 4th instant addressed to the Board Meubers of the Tansas Congress of Parents and Toachers asking for suggestions of candidates for certain offices to be elected for the next terme > inasmuch as i am not acquainted with possible candidates to be considered by your nomimeting committee, I would be happy to have you submit a list from which I could Very sincerely yours, | 3 Pirestor of Physical Education and Recreation, FCA sAu Varsity Basketball and Baseball Coache ™ OFFICERS A President Mrs. E. W. Emery Mt. Vernon Road Atchison, Kansas. First Vice President Mrs. W. R. Loder 723 E. 7th St. Hutchinson, Kans. Second Vice President Mrs. E. E. Miller 812 North 81st St. Parsons, Kans. Third Vice President W. M. Richards Supt .Of Schools Emporia, Kans. Fourth Vice President Mrs. George W. Winters 622 N. Topeka Wichita, Kans. Fifth Vice President Mr. C. M. Miller Board of Vocational Education State House Topeka, Kans. Sixth Vice President Mrs. Norah Luther Spearville, Kans. Seventh Vice President Mrs. D. D. Harbaugh 705 West Fifth St. Coffeyville, Kans. Secretary Mrs. Ben McCamant, 1054 N. Topeka, Wichita, Kans. Treasurer Rev. Fred Smith R. R. No. 4 Kansas City, Kans. A Official Publication The Kansas Parent Teacher Editor—Mrs. J. W. Oursler 425 N. Walnut Wichita, Kans. ES 1 KANSAS CONGRESS OF PARENTS AND: TEACHERS, Inc. Branch of the National Congress Suite 9, Blair Building ATCHISON, KANSAS December 4, 1941 Dear Board Member: The Post-Convention meeting of the Board of Managers of the Kansas Congress of Parents and Teachers, held in Independence, April 18, 1941, elected the following to serve as the Nominating Committee for 1942. Mrse Ae Ee Hastings, Coffeyville, Chairman Mrse He Ee Miller, Parsons Mrse George Winters, Wichita Mrse Norah Luther, Spearville Mre Harry Dawdy, Topeka According to Article V, Section I, of the By=Laws of the Kansas Congress of Parents and Teachers, Group Three, consisting of the Third Vice President, Fifth Vice Pres- ident, Seventh Vice President, amd Treasurer are the group to be elected. These officers shall be elected for a term of three yearss Those holding these offices at present are not eligible for re-election with the excep+* tion of the Third Vice President, who was elected in April, 1941, to fill a vacancy occuring in that office. Please return this questionnaire, with: any suggestions, not later than January 4, 1942. Your opinions will be greatly appreciated by the Nominating Committee, as we do want to nominate to the state offices the best quali- fied persons available, Thanking you, I am Respectfully, f \-, ee / fp Wyo. Ud. Go. Net —q State Chairman of Mrs», A» E. Hastings ~,,- Nominating Committee 605 Hast Seventh RSY/ Coffeyville, Kansas Q@UBSETIONNAILIERS Please name your choice for the following officers:- Third Vice President Remarks Fifth Vice President Remarks Seventh Vice President Remarks Treasurer Remarks Signed - January 2, 1942. rs de Pred Harris, State & Twiss St., Topeka, Kansas. Dear Freddie: I am enclosing the letter I just received from the Bureau of Navigation, acknowledging receipt of my letter _ in your behalf. I thought you would be interested in this. I am also enclosing your note, which I have endorsed, indiceting that it has been paid in full. With kindest personel regards, and best wishes for a happy and prosperous New Year, I eam Very sincerely yours, Direotor of Physical Education and Recreation, Varsity Basketball and Baseball Coache Bob and Jimmy Hirsch, Cape Girardeau, Missouri. Dear Bob and Jimny: I was extremely happy to receive your two letters of December 30, and to know that you have been enjoying “Better Basketball”. At the end of your basketball season I wish you would write me again - I will be interested in knowing how you come out. Remember me kindly to your mother and crand- mother, and my other friends in Cape Girardeau. With best wishes to you both, I am - Director of Physical Education and Recreation, Varsity Basketball and Baseball Coach. 7 December 30, 1941 Cape Girardeau Mo. Dear. Dr, Allen I enjoyed your book very much. I've read all tut the chapters on emergencies and medical treatment for the injured players. I found "Tales of Yesteryears" very interest- ing and Mother and Grandmother were both in- terested in the stories about Warrensburg. I made a book report to my school class. It proved to be very interesting. Our school has a basketball team on which I am now playing forward. We were greatly handicapped this year for our coach, Joe Mc Donald of Gape's MIAA championship team, was made assistant at Central High School. In our city junior high league, we have three schools, Wasington, May Green, and our school Franklin. Our first game we lost to May Green 20 to 7. May Green defeated Washington 10 to 7. Our next game with Washington was on our own court and we took it 12 to 6. Two days later we played May Green on our own court. Against Washington we had used a sinking man to man defence and thinking that we were a little green they didn't expect that-we might try a zone against them. It was hard for us hav- ing very little practice time. But we had an advantage, they were cocky after that 20 to 7 win. Our zone ckicked fairly well on our narrow coffts and we took a hard fought de- cision 13 to 10. We have one more game with Washington, there. Your book has given me much needed help as we missed our good coach. I was very much interested in the section on screening. We us- ed several screen plays this year and scored some points, but on our small courts they some- times got tied up. Thanks again for. such an interesting and instructive Christmas present. Yours truly, December 30, 1941 Cape Girardeau, Mo. Dear Dr. Allien, I want to thank you for your letter and the autographed book, "Better Basketball" which ail of us are enjoying very much. Mother, grandmother and I too appreciate very much the nice things you said about their family. I am proud to know Suse a famous coach as you are and amihappy to.own the fine book you wrote. Mother and grandmother ask ‘t be remembered to you and Mrs. Allene. Bobby and I are typing these letters as we are taking typing lessons. Sincerely. yours