INCORPORATED 1860 Home Life Insurance Company of New York | | BRYAN L. BOWERS, MANAGER - S860 FIRST NATIGQNAL BUILDING OKLAHOMA CITY, OKLA. HARRY L. HEINZMAN BRANCH MANAGER 6.29 NATIONAL BANK OF TULSA BLDG. TULSA, OKLAHOMA September 18, 1941 Dr. Forest C. Allen Athletic Department University of Kansas Lawrence, Kansas Dear Friend Phog: I have written you about everything under the sun except girls, and so to make sure the record is complete, that's what I am doing now. Of course, you understand that I know the man who runs a department in the University and coaches the Varsity team has plenty of time to wet nurse all the freshman that might decide to go to the University of Kansas and understanding this full well, here is the story. Mariam Calder, 1215 Oreal Avenue, has entered the University of Kansas as a freshman. Not having a daughter and she being the daughter of aur best friends and knowing her even before she arrived, we couldn't think more of her if she were our own flesh and blood. Her father was a Crewman at Cornell, a fraternity man, captain in the artillery in the last war, is now one of the executives of the Mid-Continent Refinery. Her mother was one of the outstanding students at Vassgr. She has family back of her to who laid the chalk. She went to Holland Hall, a girls school here, and then four years at Abbotts academy a girls school at andover, Massachusetts. She is attractive, healthy, red-headed and is everything that a girl should . be but she doesn't have the right contacts to get a bid from one of the three sorieties that she thought were tops at K.U. She was invited by four but they did not appeal to her as much as the others and the child is very much disappointed. I think the real disappointment is that she never has been situated where she could have boy friends and she has gotten the impression that unless you belong to the right group at the University, you haven't any chance at social life. ie aR iia eet cane ae: