THE UNIVERSITY DAILY KANSAN NT laundry. is look-Numbers. seee. w appl- hosipl see Oct. mississippi. months codates k from 1935. m EASE oommate. urtially fur- ng female 350/mo.+ Smith Hall. Speed Inter- andry facili- 2. Ne Naismith includes meal facilities, and ount this newspa- OPINION MONDAY, OCTOBER 24, 2005 WWW.KANSAN.COM EDITORIAL Riots better than silence PAGE 7A While the riots that followed the Neo-Nazi protest last week in Toledo, Ohio, were unfortunate, they were ultimately a small price to pay for one of the most precious rights that the United States offers its citizens: freedom of speech. By no means does the editorial board think that the Neo-Nazi philosophy should be supported or even condoned, but in order to keep the institution of free speech alive, it must be tolerated. The day that United States officials starts making exceptions on who has the right to protest or congregate will be when all citizens' rights are in jeopardy. If Neo-Nazis can't march, the government might start making other judgment calls based on the personal agendas of the officials in charge. Only groups who shared the same ideals as the government might soon be the only ones allowed to speak their opinions. At that point, the United States government will have lost all that made it different from the oppressive regimes around the world; regimes it has spoken out against and fought throughout its history. (The riots) were a small price to pay for one of the most precious rights that the United States offers its citizens: freedom of speech. The United States would be hypocritical for fighting Nazi Germany, the Communist Soviet Union, and many other regimes because it would be censoring the public as well. They did not release the path of the march so that people who wanted to protest the marcheers could not find them as easily. The city officials of Toledo only did what was right by letting the Neo-Nazis march. angry people to stay calm and let the Neo-Nazis protest. Community leaders urged Although 12 officers were injured and 114 people were arrested, no one was killed. They did this in hope of avoiding a riot, and they prepared for the worst as best as possible. Ultimately, the situation was handled well. Everyone in the United States has the right to protest his or her government as long as it does not infringe on others' rights and safety. The Neo-Nazis did not start the riot, and the Toledo city officials had no way of knowing the capacity in which the riot would occur. City officials could not cancel the march based on the possibility of a riot because there could always be that possibility with every march, so they made the right move. They let the Neo-Nazis proceed and tried to control the damage when things got ugly. Anne Weltmer for the editorial board. ▼ KILLS VAMPIRES DEAD Start beating the cheating Cheating and abuse go hand in hand. When investigating a domestic disturbance, some of the characteristics that police look for are cheating and abuse. But evidence of abuse is hard to find because only physical abuse leaves visible indicators. In most cases, abuse in relationships is mental abuse. This is seen even on the University of Kansas campus, especially in instances of cheating boyfriend who have girlfriends who are too afraid to leave them, or an obsessive, jealous ex who uses fear to try to retain control of a relationship. Ladies and gentlemen, these scenarios are more common than you think. When it comes to cheaters, the truth does come out eventually. Cheaters always get caught. If you cheat, try and find what little respect you have for your girlfriend and stop. Or tell her the truth. She might break up with you, but at least she will know you had the guts to tell her the truth instead of sneaking off to jump in another woman's bed. I knew a guy who had the sweetest girlfriend but still tried to get with other girls. This guy needed to stop thinking with his dick and start thinking about how he's breaking this girlfriend's heart. Another guy, when I asked him about cheating, told me, "It don't matter. Who cares about relationships anyway?" I have to say, no woman wants to deal with a cheater. Ladies, this is a big issue here on campus. Something needs to change among the men, as well as us women. We women need to make it SARA GARLICK opinion@kansan.com clear to men that we aren't going to put up with cheaters. We need to remain strong on this issue. Cheating men only bring trouble. Abuse is often an unmentioned side effect of a relationship gone wrong. This is a major problem. Cheaters always get caught. If you cheat, try and find what little respect you have for your girlfriend and stop. Or tell the truth. When the cops get involved in domestic disturbances, information leaks out to the media. Now, if the man in question was a highly-profiled figure, say a student leader or an athlete, then the leak to the media would be detrimental to his career. I had a friend tell me in confidence that she was scared of her ex-boyfriend because he had already threatened her. I told her that if he ever threatens her again, then she needs to take legal action. Many people might not be aware of the Tracy Thurman story. Her story helped make domestic violence a national issue, especially after the Torrington, Conn., police department failed to protect her from her abusive husband. Tracy called the police to the scene, but the police saw no physical evidence. Afterward, her husband, Buck Thurman, grabbed a butcher's knife and stabbed her more than 37 times, leaving her paralyzed and hanging on to her life. This could have been avoided if emphasis was placed on healthy relationships in children's education. Unfortunately, we live in a world where if we see no evil, then it doesn't exist. Abuse happens every day on campus, which is a disturbing statistic. These instances can involve guys who you would never suspect would go to extremes. And the worst part is that some people praise these men for their behavior. It's time that we end the cheating, lying and the lack of respect for one another. People need to take responsibility for their actions. Men, if you cheat, it is not acceptable. Ladies, don't accept your men cheating on you. You can do so much better than that. There are nice guys out there who won't cheat or threaten you. If you are a nice guy who respects women, then stand up and let yourself be noticed. Stop being too bashful to say anything to an attractive woman in fear she might shut you down. Keep making your presence known, and maybe more guys will follow your example, change their behavior and respect women. - Garlick is a Sanford, Maine, senior in history and international studies. TALK TO US Jonathan Kealing, managing editor 864-4854 or jkealing@kansan.com Austin Caster, editor 844-8543 or acaster@kansan.com Sarah Connelly, business manager 864-4014 or adddirector@kansan.com Matthew Sevick, opinion editor 864-4924 or msevcik@kansan.com Joshua Bickel, managing editor 864-4854 or jbickel@kansan.com John Morgan, sales director 864-4462 or addr@kansan.com SUBMISSIONS Malcim Gibson, general manager, news editor 6867 or mgison@kanan.com Jennifer Weaver, sales and marketing adviser 864-7866 or jweaver@kansan.com General questions should be directed to the editor at editor at kansan.com. 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EDITORIAL BOARD Eliy Ford, Yanting Wang, Joel Simone, Dan Hoyt, Anne Weltmer, Julie Parisi, Nathan McGinnis, Josh Goetting, Sara Gartick, Travis Brown, Julian Portillo, David Archer SUBMIT TO Kansan newroom 111 Stufter-Flint Hall 1435 Jayhawk Blvd. Lawrence, KS 68045 (785) 864-4810 opinion@kansai.com Free All for Matthew C. Sevcik/KANSAN Call 864-0500 Free for All callers will 20 seconds to speak about any topic they wish. Kansan editors reserve the right to edit comments. Slanderous and obscene statements will not be printed. Phone numbers of all incoming calls are recorded. Free for All, uh, my neighbors are upstairs playing Toby Keith really loud, and I'm pretty sure the stomping I hear is square dancing. My head tickles. I'm on the hands team! Jonathon, you still owe us a sandwich! The girl on the bus that always smiles at my friend still hasn't had sex with him. I think she's a tease. doesn't the bronze Jayhawk outside of Strong Hall look just as dull as it did before they started shining it up? To the guy in the camoflauge jacket writing tickets, you have a really cool job. Where do I sign up for that? Dear Free for All, do the guys who pass out parking tickets have a quota? I would just like to say that Berk has no idea what he's talking about. He obviously hasn't watched a game of football in his life. If you were to look up Bill Braskey in the dictionary, your head would probably explode when if tried to process the words and their meanings. Cardinals fans should be thanking the Astros. They saved them the indignity of being swept in the World Series again. What a great final game for the historic Busch stadium with the Astros celebrating their first pennant! I spent $190 to stand outside Snow Hall for 20 minutes when I could have walked to Lewis Hall in half that time. Thanks, KU on Wheels. Not only was Thursday's "Penguins" entirely unfunny, it was also bigoted and racist. The artist, and I use the term loosely, and the editorial board should be ashamed of themselves. I'm in Topeka and the gas here is $2.24. In Lawrence, the gas is $2.69! That's ridiculous! Andrew Soukup, thank you so much for the article, it was the most worthwhile thing I've read in the Kansan all year. Milo and Otis were more than just friends! They were freggin' soulmates. Thank you Army fatigue man for helping me with the traffic jank on 23rd and Naismith. There sure are a lot of haggard soggy tarts on campus today. So, I was riding the bus today and this guy saw a tree and he noted that it was a pretty tree. Does the word bistro have anything to do with beef? Because we just passed Cafe Bistro and we thought that a cafe should have nothing to do with beef. So, I need some advice, what does it mean? I love my roommate, she's easier than a two-piece puzzle. Where can we go to get some free food where we don't have to pretend like God? Hey, Movie Gallery guy, your blue eyes are really pretty. Here's my number: 3-1-4 - wait, I don't want to say it on the Free for All. I heard Eric Jorgensen gives everyone in Rhombus House crabs. To the girl by Anscuz library who overheard us talking about catching a campus squirrel, if you were a campus squirrel, I'd catch you. (Lots of yelling and general ruckus.) Whoa, cancel all of that, Free for All. Has anyone seen my penis pump? Cheeeeeseel! That's c-h-e-e-e-e-e-s-e. I'm calling on one phone and talking to you on the other phone. This is so exciting! Stereotype of the century: White people smell like white puppies. So, Free for All, I'm reading about someone scoring more points than the football team for their soccer team. Well, they should read the rules of soccer, because you score goals, not points. Our founding fathers of this country were philosophers, intellectuals, geniuses. But, it'd be racist to teach them in school today. I would most likely have sex with any member of the Chiefs, no questions asked. My drunk friend is up in a tree right now, chasing a teleporting raccoon. I heart Adam and his sexy bandanna. Free for All, it's 1:40 in the morning. My name is Elizabeth, and I am really excited because I was randomly selected to be in the Jlayplay! Did you know that a knee-slapper from laughing so hard is a natural high? Yeah, it is. You know, fortunes these days really aren't that great. I highly agree with the article about the Spirit Store, in regards to Kyle Billings, owner of Fun and Games store said, it's wrong for a business to come in for one month and steal from the legal licensed vendors. I hope that the college kids understand that it's important to shop with local vendors because they are the ones who pay taxes to help their school. These fly-by-night outfits actually take away from the local economy and the school in the long run. So, if you need a new costume, no local So, if you need a new costume, go local. Go Chiefs! Man, if it weren't for the offensive mascot, I think the Chiefs would be pretty much perfect. ---