Wednesdav. Januarv 11. 1995 UNIVERSITY DAILY KANSAN Wife of addict, rapist 'trying to help' Husband raped girl hours after wedding The Associated Press RIVERSIDE, Calif. The 911 caller speaks in a rush, the way children do when they're tattling, jamming every detail into one long, breathless sentence. "My, um, we were going downstairs and my sister, she was, this one guy was drunk, and he, he tried to have sex with my sister, and she's got blood all over ... and she's all crying and." Operator: "How old is your sister?" Caller: "My sister is um, she's 6." Operator: "How old are you?" Operator: Howe Caller:"I'm 10." In the background, a woman — her mother — screams, "Don't! Don't! Don't!" The phone line goes dead. It was January 15, 1994, and a child had just been raped by her brand-new stepfather, a crack addict with full-blown AIDS. No one knew it at that moment, but the assault that stained the girl's polka-dot dress, her cotton underwear and her dress-up white tights with her blood had also infected her with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. The attacker was Frank Cisco Bridges, 44, who had married her mother barely three hours before. So stoned during the ceremony that he picked his teeth with the minister's sermon cards, Bridges urinated in a potted plant at the reception. Just that morning, his new wife had bailed him out of jail on a petty theft charge so they could be married at her home in an upper-middle class, suburban neighborhood. Last month, she was convicted of child endangerment and being an accessory after the fact to her daughter's rape. The woman was to be sentenced yesterday and faces a maximum sentence of six years and eight months in prison. To protect the child's identity and privacy, The Associated Press is not identifying the girl or her mother. "I know of no other case like this anywhere," said Riverside County prosecutor Tim Schaaf. "If she wanted to marry this monster and try to save him, that's fine. But she's not allowed to take her children into this. She is responsible for their safety." Bridges made a partial confession after the attack. On the first day of jury selection, he pleaded guilty to five felony counts of child molestation and rape. He was sentenced in July to 38 years' imprisonment. Child welfare authorities sent the girl and her two brothers to live with an aunt in Michigan. Contrary to her brother's 911 call, the girl was actually 7 the night she was raped. Now 8, the girl is displaying diminished motor skills, an early sign of the fatal illness but has not developed AIDS. The mother is free on bail and remains in Riverside. She is an educated woman, with a master's degree in special education, but said herself that she makes stupid choices in men. Her first husband, the father of her children, is an abusive alcoholic currently incarcerated on drunken driving charges, her attorney said. "I obviously have made poor decisions about the men that I've gotten involved with," she said. "But I'm not a criminal." She was visiting with wedding guests when Bridges lured her daughter upstairs with the promise of a dollar. He locked the master bedroom door, held the girl down by her throat and raped her. The girl screamed. Her brothers, in another upstairs room, ran for their mother. All three banged on the door until the girl unlocked it, covered in blood, clutching her tights in one hand. The boys told police Bridges ran naked from the room. Officers found him later, walking along a nearby road dressed in slacks, children's shoes and his wife's shirt. In a tape-recorded statement, Bridges first blamed a non-existent twin brother. He chuckled at one point, telling police he became sexually aroused watching his "brother" rape the girl. Eventually he admitted some of the committed offenses. "I think he's an incredibly selfish man," said Schaaf, who prosecuted both newlyweds. "You add to that the drugs. You add to it the knowledge that he's going to die." The couple met about two years ago. Both were group counselors for a county probation department. It took six months for the woman to discover Bridges' fondness for crack cocaine. "I should have said goodbye. I should have never got involved with a person who used drugs," she said. "I wanted to help him." Last September, diagnosed with AIDS, homeless and sick, Bridges moved in. She decided to marry him. Vietnam bans firecrackers; residents upset The Associated Press BINH DA, Vietnam — As the Lunar New Year approaches, this village should be bustling with young and old making firecrackers so Vietnam can welcome Tet in properly raucous fashion. Trucks from all over the country should be loading up firecrackers, products of Binh Da's centuries-old cottage industry. Explosions should be shattering the air as customerstest the wares. But this year Binh Da is quiet: Vietnam's ban on firecrackers took effect Jan. 1. One of Vietnam's oldest and best-loved traditions has fallen afoul of safety concerns, and no one is quite sure how they will fill the silence when the clock strikes midnight Jan. 30, beginning the Year of the Pig. For the superstitious, firecrackers scared away evil spirits. For most people, they simply advertised good times To the 10,000 people of Binh Da. 12 miles southwest of Hanoi, firecrackers provided a better living than farming. "Making firecrackers was the only way I could pay for their education," Nguyen Thi Hai said of her three children. She said her tiny rice paddy could not even feed her family. The government argues firecrackers do more harm than good. Last year during Tet celebrations alone, firecrackers killed 71 people, injured 765 and did $3 million damage. $500,000 on firecrackers last year — money that could have paid to build a school or clinic, one newspaper chided. "There is nothing good or useful about firecrackers," said Dr. Le Ngoc Quynh, whose burn unit at St. Paul's Hospital in Hanoi is swamped with burn victims each Tet. Hanoi's 2.1 million residents spent In late 1994, authorities went door-to-door in Binh Da, asking families to pledge compliance with the ban. Officials elsewhere received promises from citizens not to use firecrackers. Peking Restaurant 23rd& Iowa St All You Can Eat Buffet Lunch $4.95 & Dinner $6.75 Kansas Sports Club Best Selection of KU merchandise anywhere!! --dessert HATSTOO!! "Best selection of college and professional merchandise in the area. 837 Mass.Downtown Lawrence. 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