Editor's Note When a man strokes my face, I want him to whisper. "Baby, your skin is so smooth," not "Eww . . . well, I have a great exfoliator you can borrow." Maybe it's selfish, but I want to be the soft one, the pretty one, the one who takes forever to get ready. I don't want to walk in on my boyfriend while he's wearing a face-mask and reading one of my old Cosmos. But our men-folk are changing. They buy specialty shampoo, lotion and after-shave. They wear Diesel jeans and Lacoste polos. They get manicures and haircuts with body and shape. The days of the local barbershop are coming to an end, and they are being replaced by Saturday afternoons at designer stores and expensive salons. Maha Masud explores this phenomenon, nicknamed metrosexuality, in-depth on page 10. Some women embrace this new feminization of their men. They like that they take care of themselves. They like a sharply dressed, cologne-laced man. But to me, the best smell on a man does not come in a bottle of Aqua Di Gio or Very Sexy but from working on a car for a few hours. It's that motor grease/sweat scent of hard work. Dirt covers his clothes and hands, but he comes in the house with that sweet smell, proud that he just fixed your radiator belt. He should have a couple of calluses, stubble and a farmer's tan — not that all-over glow from the bronzer bottle. Liz Beggs, associate editor lbeggs@kansan.com Inside 3 Weekly choice 4 Bite Make your own sushi, but without the raw fish 6 Contact Budgeting time between your BF and your BFF 8 Manual Trimming your bush and other plant how-tos 10 Notice Ever wonder what your professors do in their spare time? 11 Bitch + Moan Too-long nails & foot jobs 12 Feature Metros: the newest sexuality 17 Venue Rags and riches: Bar dress codes 18 Movies, Music, Games Fever Pitch, Queens of the Stone Age, Doom 3 23 Speak Wearing out life and herself EDITOR AKA QUEEN BZE Misty Huber The Jayplayers// ASSOCIATE EDITOR HATES TAGUNES Liz Beggs CLERK GETS AROUND TOWN Meredith Desmond DESIGNERS MAKE PRETTY PAGES Emily Homer Joshua Kendall BITE ALWAYS HUNTS THE MUSCHINES Britta Fliorman Maha Masud Anija Winkila CONTACT WILL HELP YOU WRITE YOUR PROBLEMS Ashley Doyle Samara Nazir Erin Shipps MANUAL IS ACTIVALLY USEFUL Donovan Asson Leigh Ann Foseky Lynn Hamilton NOTICE TAXES NOT BE IT Robert Perkins Paige Worthy Chris Brown Mandy Hendrix Ashley Michaels COPY EDITOR DOS MARGARITAS Laura Francoviglia CREATIVE CONSULTANT KNOWS A LOT Carol Holstead Cover photo illustration: Kit Leffler SPEAK UP JUST SEND ANE-MAIL TO jayplay @kansan.com or individually, the formula is: 1st initial+1 last name@kansan.com) or write to Jayplay The University Daily Kansan 111 Stauffer-Flint Hall 1435 Jayhawk Blvd. Lawrence, KS 66045