Editor's Note There's no way I can start this column about this week's bite department. "Get your Grill On." on page four, without telling you the saddest story you will have heard in the past few weeks. Last fall, after my classes, I returned to my apartment on a sunny, 70-degree weather day. I put the finishing touches on my marinating-sirloins and my husband went outside to start the grill. A few seconds later the sliding glass doors in my kitchen opened and he reappeared looking horrified. "Someone stole our barbecue grill," he gasped. This episode was particularly traumatic for my husband, who endures my cooking during winter in anticipation of the first decent grilling day of the year. He and my father, who even grills during snowy weather, have deep discussions on the best grilling methods, why charcoal is better than gas and if it really hurts you to grill and eat a medium-rare burger. I was not happy because it meant I was to be the lone cook until we could afford a new grill. What made the experience especially upsetting was that our neighbor 20 feet away had a much nicer grill that wasn't much heavier to lift. To make a long story short, we're both feeling a little sentimental with such great grilling weather approaching, and I have chosen to live vicariously through you all. The mesquite-scented air, the grocery store displays and the signs hanging for end-of-the year barbecues all devour a little at my soul. And if you are the one hosting one of these get-togethers, please remember to invite your grill-lacking friends and acquaintances. mhuber@kansan.com Inside 3 Weekly choice 4 Bite Grilling Bobby Flay about the barbecue 6 Manual Get off your duff and volunteer 8 Contact Can you have too close a relationship with a professor? 10 Profile The Princess Bride's Mandy Patinkin 12 Feature Bewitching students on campus 14 Venue How to keep a sober evening in Lawrence anything but 16 Bitch + Moan Threesomes and a "get-laid" plan 18 Movies, Music, Games Sin City, Beck & Iron Phoenix 23 Speak Chewing over life The Jayplayers// EDITOR AKA QUEEN BEE Misty Huber ASSOCIATE EDITOR HATES TAGLINES Liz Beggs CLERK GETS AROUND TOWN Meredith Desmond DESIGNERS MAKE PRETTY PAGES Emily Homer Joshua Kendall BITE ALWAYS MAS THE MUSCLES Brittle Florman Maha Masud Anja Winika CONTACT WILL HELP YOU WITH YOUR PROBLEMS Ashley Doyle Samara Nazir Erin Shipps MANUAL IS ACTIVATELY USEFUL Donovan Atkinson Leigh Ann Foskey Lynn Hamilton NOTICE TAKES NOTE OF FIRM Robert Perkins Paige Worthy VENUE HAS THE BOOZE AND THE BATT Chris Brown Mandy Hendrix Ashley Michaels COPY EDITOR NOT RELATED TO SANTA Megan Claus CREATIVE CONSULTANT KNOWS A LOT Carol Holstead Cover photo illustration: Kit Leffler SPEAK UP JUST SEND AN E-MAIL TO japlay@kansan.com or individually, the formula is (1st label+last name@kansan.com) or write it Jayla The University Daily Kansas 111 Stauffer, Kint Ha 1435 Jayhawk Bvl Lawrence, KS 6604