Editor's Notes Threeesomes: the sexual ideal of many, the sexual reality of only a few. Girl, girl, guy or guy, guy, girl, what ever the male/female ratio, the ménage a trois embodies the freedom and urge of human sexuality. But these brief erotic encounters share little more than bodily fluids and orgasms. organisers On page 10, *Jayplay writer Paige Worthy* shows us that conservative and Kansan don't always go hand-in-hand. She introduces us to another type of situation in which more than two folks are fulfilling their fleshy desires. We meet Rob, Cat and Shan, all members of a polyfidelitous triad. Unlike the menage a trois, polyarmy is not about just sex. Members can be in committed loving liaisons similar to the dyadic relationships that Western culture has become so accustomed to. The main difference is that with an extra person comes extra personality, extra emotions and, well, extra sex. and, Well-Excited. Whether it is two, three or four people in a relationship, romance is required to make it work. Ashley Doyle's article "Every little bit helps" on page six reminds us that even in small doses, thoughtful gestures make it work. Thoughtful and romantic perfectly describe the best gift I have ever received. Years ago, I was away from my family on a holiday and feeling very homeiesick. Noticing that I was feeling a little down, the guy I was dating told me to pack a bag. We were going on a trip. He drove me to the airport and we flew back to Kansas City to surprise my family. family Trust me, a little bit goes a long way. Liz Beggs, associate editor Inside 3 Weekly choice 4 Manual Box up some goodies to send to a soldier 6 Contact Sweet deeds + kind words = romance 8 Notice Want to be on TV? Just go downtown 9 Bitch + Moan Searching for your soul mate & bedroom expectations 10 Feature If you think your relationship's complicated,try a tri 12 Bite Tap into tapas 14 Venue Angst of a small-town musician 16 Movies & Games Oscar nods, Constantine & Shaman King 19 Speak Culture: Lost and found ASSOCIATE EDITOR HATES TAGLINES Liz Beggs The Jayplayers// EDITOR AKA QUEEN BEE Misty Huber CLERK GETS AROUND TOWN Meredith Desmond DESIGNERS MAKE PRETTY PASSES Emily Homer Joshua Kendall **BITE** AUARY 2017 THE MINCINES Briefta Floraan Maha Masud Ajina Winikka CONTACT WILL HELP YOU WITH YOUR PROBLEMS Ashley Doyle Samara Nazir Erin Shippa MANUAL IS ACTUALLY USEFUL Donovan Atkinson Leigh Ann Foskey Lynn Hamilton NOTICE TAKES NOTE OF IT Robert Perkins Paige Worthy VENUE HAS THE BOOZE AND THE BEAT Chris Brown Mandy Hendrix Ashley Michaels COPY EDITOR A NUM-SWILVIN MUSIC SNOB Lisa Coble-Krings CREATIVE CONSULTANT KNOWS A LOT Carol Holstead Cover photo illustration: Kit Leffler Cover photo courtesy of : www.madisonhousepublicity.com SPEAK UP JUST SEND AN E-MAIL TO jaysey@konan.com or indirectly via (141) 530-7892 (141 initial+last name@konan.com) or write to Jayplay The University Daisy Kanran 111 Stuffer-Fint Hall 1435 Jayhawk Blvd. Lawrence, KS 60045