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Thursday, April 20, 1972
University Daily Kansan
Speaker Explains Bad Marriages
Fierro Calls for Involvement
Spoke on Chicago Awareness Day . .
BY JOHN PATRICK MAHER
Kansas Staff Writer
Never before in history has so much pressure been put on marriage. Richard Auer, overseeing the division of psychiatry of the Menninger Foundation, said at a Wednesday afternoon Faculty Forum.
Speaking on "What is Happening to Marriage," he said that some of the systems composed of certain subsystems: cultural, having to do with social approval; shared interests, the nature of these interests; about the quality of the
relationship; and psychological having to do with the intimacy and sexual relations of a marriage.
IF THERE are problems in these subsystems, then a marriage is in trouble, according to Bollinger.
He presented four theories on why marriages break up: a "bad people" theory, which says the marriage is unacceptable; a married; an incompatibility theory, in which the relationship between marriage partners is wrong in an environmental theory; a relationship that is not well but suffer from other well but suffer from
adverser circumstances; and a "bad idea" theory. Bollinger said that marriage might be a bad instance of institutions had not yet been found.
He said marriage was especially vulnerable to environmental factors and the pressures of individual needs.
INCREASED MOBILITY and changes in the roles of women were two factors causing stress on marriage and tendency to terminate marriage for common rather than individual reasons, changing attitudes toward sexual
According to Bollinger, company moves, more employment opportunities for women, social and economic changes lessening the difficulty of divorce and increased pressure on sexual pleasure can be quite demanding on a marriage.
He said marriage was generally viewed as a problem solving institution
Kansan Requests . . .
"I think individuals get married, even under the best circumstances," to solve problems," he said.
He said that because of a lot more data awareness the program has requested these programs and the BSU assumed responsibility for them.
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Dean said there were certain types of problem particular to blacks in the realm of legal aid, draft and drug abuse counseling
could be more effectively handled by black people rather than by other similar Senate members. Draft Help and Headquarters.
PERSONS WITH close family ties may seek marriage to fill a vacuum created by separation of spouses. They are lonely persons and those with bad family backgrounds may desire marriage from an intense attraction, but they are not beloved. Other persons may seek their identities through marriage, although they would be better off finding themselves together.
"SOME MARRIAGES do well because of the built-in flexibility of the individuals," he said.
He said personal drives for self-fulfillment and competition between husband and wife could cause conflicts.
Other programs included in the BSU request were requests for funds for sickle cell disease testing, funds for subsiding a medical office, and funding to Board, to take children to school, a recreational program for high school and junior high students to acquaint them with university life and a carrier radio to transmit news from the BSU Community House.
excessive interest in a job, hobby or other people, he said.
Catalyst, which consists of the
Acid catalyst and undergraduate
instructors for LA&S program, asked for $20,050
for instructional or laboratory
assessments.
REPRESENTATIONS FROM thirteen other groups also presented their committee. Wednesday, the Commission on the Status of Women asked, "What are you asking for $10,452 Feminism Requested for $10,452 Cottonwood Review asked for $2,700. The KU Soccer team requested $3,450. The Coalition requested $3,450.
According to Bollinger,
children can play with the
parents of their parents
and cause the parents to compete
for their attention and affection if
they play.
"Many parents try to work out when they want their children," he said. "When the children don't work out the way they wanted, this creates problems."
Chicano Spokesman Implores Within-the-System' Involvement
Headquarters, which is part of catalyst and is an information center for the requested $3,955.40. The KU student council asked children asked for $330.
Speaking of alternative and experimental models for marriage, such as multiple-mate, courtship, or contract marriage, Bollinger said there were certain needs better taken care of by the sex education arrangement than by anything found yet in experimental arrangements. However, the marriage model showed signs of weakening.
Another factor causing stress in marriage is education and training, which can intellectually at different rates and may make it into marital distress because of it.
"The models we have now don't seem to prepare people for the stresses and strains," said Carlyle. "We need to get rid of the nuclear family."
Phase 2 Backed
WASHINGTON (AP) — Secretary of the Treasury John Yelpawitz and editors Wednesday that Phase 2 controls are on course to meet President Nixon's goal of restricting it to 2 to 3 per a year.
He said he would like to see more trial marriages and more experimentation in various types of marriages.
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Manuel Fierro, Chicano leader and independent candidate for governor called for direct action against a change for Chicanos in society, in a Chicano Awareness Day event in the Kansas Union Ballroom.
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Fierro stressed the importance of working "within the system" to produce change and accepting that the changes would bring.
JEALOUSY COULD strain a marriage if one partner takes an
"We can holster and about about equality as much as we want, but it is good to a point. If the equality does not become a reality all the other has to do."
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"There is no longer a need for Chicanos or any other minority group, for that matter to sit in the hall and which candidate they want to endure," he said. "Now is the time to involve in running for offices."
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Fiero has been lobbying for Chicano interests in the state legislature and is a declared candidate for governor.
HE ALSO SAID that Chicanos needed to get directly involved in the system through a political avenue.
He said, "Attitudes have boards and city councils, but if we don't commit ourselves to the change we want, nothing will happen."
"We want people to accept us as we are, we want the justice that is supposed to be there for them," she said. "I hasn't been there for Chicago."
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He said, "When I decided to run for governor, the Democratic and Republican parties said don't bet that the Chicagoans involved with us."
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"I can't expect an Arab or a black to take up my issues, I must do it," he said. "We must make sure we believe whether we want the
FIERRO POINTED out that you would reluctant to get involved with the movement for fear that they would be looked upon as un-justified.
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Mrs. Betty Fierro spoke just before her husband about the involvement of Chicoa women in the entire movement.
"YOU DON'T have anything to fear about not being feminine by being strong," she said.
She said that women had to do more than just support the men. "I had to do a lot of work and they should demand equal terms and rights in the workplace," she said.
She said older women were more enthusiastic about being in sports because they remembered what it was like when they had come
The Firers spoke before approximately 50 persons at the American Student's (AMAS) lecture held on "Chicano literature"
A group of Chicano students from Wichita State University who were present, performed several skits that reflected
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Gordon Brotherston, author of several books and numerous articles on literature, literature, said Wednesday the book will be in the desks to know more about his spurred translations and research on American Indian languages.
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Brotherston delivered the Alice Winston Memorial Lecture Wednesday night in the Jayhawk room.
Brotherston said many problems existed in trying to
He said he thought the information gained from anthropologists wasn't entirely reliable. He and his anthropologists suffered from the philosopy they were working with, and much of their thought much of anthropologists' findings were to support theories which they began their research.
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