Volume 124 Issue 139
Friday, April 20, 2012
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Michelle MacBain, Kansas City, is a graduate student in communication Studies. She studied psychology and human sexuality at KU and the University of Amsterdam.
Email questions to michelle@michellemachin.com
Dear Michelle,
I want to remain a virgin until I get married. My boyfriend and I have only kissed and touched each others' genitals with our hands. He wants more, but also wants to respect my morals. He suggested we try auxiliary sex. What is auxiliary sex? How do I do it? Will it keep me a virgin?
Virgin With Desires
Dear VWD.
Although some people define auxiliary sex as anal sex with a woman during her menstruation, auxiliary sex typically involves a man inserting his penis into a space on the body other than the mouth, genitals or anus of the partner. The most popular form of auxiliary sex is placing a penis between a woman's breasts. However, there are other forms of auxiliary sex that involve other parts of the body.
For example, your boyfriend may ask to insert his penis into your armpit, inner elbow, back of your knee or in between
your thighs. The pleasure comes from the skin-on-skin contact with his partner, as well as the tight space you can provide by closing down on his penis with your body parts. He will simulate intercourse by moving his penis in and out of the chosen space, reaching climax and finding a sexual satisfaction that most closely resembles having sex.
Communicate to your boyfriend how you feel about exploring this sexual activity. If you do decide to participate in auxiliary sex, remember to use plenty of water-based or silicone lubrication on his penis and in the chosen space.
Will this keep you a virgin? I can't promise you anything. The more you participate in sexual experimentation, the more you find the pleasure that comes with sex and sexual intimacy, the more likely you are to give in to your partner's desires and take your sexual exploration to the next level. Communicating your wants and desires (virginal or otherwise) with a trustworthy, loving and respectful partner will allow you to discover your sexuality at your own pace, without anxiety or regret. Go only as far as you really want, but always remember to enjoy the ride.
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Patrick Blanchard, a sophomore from Wamego and the committee's coordinator, said that the demonstrations aim to teach students useful techniques while introducing them to foods that might not already be in their culinary wheelhouse.
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The event was part of a recent series of cooking demonstrations hosted by Student Union Activities' culinary committee. A demonstration earlier this month featured Janna Traver, executive chef for KU Dining, who prepared Peruvian food.
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Blanchard said that his personal favorite was the Sushi with Gusto demonstration even though it wasn't hands on. Attendees watched chefs prepare veggie, California and tuna rolls, which were then passed around the room.
Although Wednesday's demonstration was the last of the semester, Blanchard said that he hopes to see next semester's coordinator continuing the presentations.
of the experts, as was Bea Tretar, a freshman from Wichita. Tretar said that she was initially intimidated by Yi and Munoz's decorating skills.
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"When they cried that cake, I've never seen somebody do that so fast and so well," Tretbar said.
But once she gave it a try, she felt like she could recreate the techniques in her own kitchen.
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Jennifer Yi, a baker at Billy Vanilly, puts the final touches on a six-inch cake with Amber Munoz's assistance during a demonstration at Impromptu in Kansas Union Wednesday afternoon.
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