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Dear Michelle
My boyfriend and I have great anal sex when we are together; he's usually on top and I'm on bottom. We were really into it the other night and I pooped a little when I was having an orgasm. This has never happened before and I was so embarrassed. He didn't say anything, just went to clean himself. How can I prevent this from ever happening again?
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Dear OTP.
What you describe is not an uncommon experience during anal sex. Stimulation of the colon during anal sex can relax the anal sphincter and promote contractions of the smooth muscle of the colon. Along with the pelvic muscle contractions during orgasm, your body was the perfect storm for your embarrassing moment.
Men can prepare for anal sex a number of different ways. Natural stimulants include water or oil enemas or digital (finger) procedures to loosen stool. Over-the-counter laxatives, such as fiber supplements, chemical stimulants, stool
softeners or saline laxatives, can also help move things along. Although these remedies can help you relieve yourself quickly, I would not recommend prolonged use. What I do recommend is the adoption of a healthy diet and lifestyle. Eat a diet high in fiber, drink plenty of water, avoid excessive alcohol, caffeine, or drugs, and take time with your bowel movements.
If you happen to find yourself in the same situation, don't panic. Don't be overly embarrassed. It sounds to me like you have a loving and understanding partner. Stressing about what "embarrassing" thing might occur during the act will prevent you from relaxing and enjoying your sexual experiences with your partner.
Michelle MacBain, Kansas City, is a graduate student in Communication Studies. She studied Psychology and Human Sexuality at KU and the University of Amsterdam.
Email questions to michelle@michellemacbain.com
Couples Advice:
OLIVIA GRAVES AND CHASE TIENMEYER // RACHEL SCHWARTZ
Olivia Graves and her friend used to show up at Chase Tiermeyer's place anywhere between one and four in the morning. Chase, a senior from Dodge City, would usually be sleeping when Olivia, a sophomore from Mount Hope, would wake him up just to play video games. "It's as if they thought I didn't sleep." Chase says.
After a few months of hanging out in groups, the two went on a double date to a sports bar, which started out awkward, at least for Chase. Their date had what the two considered a fun ending, though, when Chase convinced Olivia to steal her dinner bowl just to be funny. "The first thing I've ever stolen," Olivia says with a smile.
Dating Tip Just have fun. Do things out of the ordinary to keep each other guessing.
Chase and Olivia try to keep things interesting knowing "you don't want to be falling asleep all of the time," Chase says. One time Chase convinced Olivia to go on a motorcycle ride with him. She was nervous, so he just took her around the
Chase Tiemeyer and Olivia Graves keep their relationship fresh by trying out as many fun things as they can together.
block, but she was having a blast, so they kept driving for another hour.
The two also cook together just about every day. "When we're cooking, I get into the chef mode and just start busting out songs." Chase says. "Getting to know someone is more than worrying about how you look or the way you do things, it's about being yourself." It's important to be yourself in front of the person you're dating, the couple says.
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My life should be endangered when watching a ball game.
I applaud the majority of Kansas fans who handled the loss Monday night gracefully. Losing in the National Championship game hurts, but Kansas fans took the loss in stride and turned a negative into a positive by showing united school pride.
Other aspects of life exist beyond sports. Sports are just games and sheer entertainment. Sports can be a way of life, but not the way of life. Your life, which consists of family, relationships, finances, sustenance and career aspirations, is more important than whether or not your team wins a ball game.
The Kentucky basketball players and coaches deserve the NCAA National Championship, but the Kentucky basketball fans don't deserve it, even though it's only a pittance of bad apples that ruined a good tree. Their classless acts during Final Four weekend in Lexington, Ky., are an embarrassment to sports and society.
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giving the team Good Friday on from practice because of a physical week that they had endured. The players will be in full pads for the rest of the spring, except for the April 13 practice. Instead of full pads, players will wear only helmets and shoulder pads.
For the season's third practice, the Jayhawks worked inside of Memorial Stadium. The move from the practice field was because the team hosted recruits on campus for "Junior Day." The Saturday practice marked the first time the team practiced in full pads this spring and under coach Charlie Weis.
PLAYERS PRACTICE INSIDE MEMORIAL STADIUM
COACH WEIS RETURNS FROM NEW ORLEANS
Weis returned from New Orleans Tuesday. After Monday's practice, he flew down to support the men's basketball team in the National Championship game.
missed from the team for a violation of team rules. He was a first team all-district, all-area and all-city selection his senior year of high school. Green redshirted last season.
DEFENSE WILL PLAY
A BASE 4-3
At his press conference last week, Weis announced the defense listed in the initial depth chart was a 4-3 base defense. He said this does not mean they will always play with four down linemen and three linebackers, but that they will also show some different formations. Most of the time, though, the personnel on the field will translate into the 4-3.
MAURA SWITCHES POSITIONS
FOUR PLAYERS LIMITED IN THE SPRING
Sophomore Brian Maura is the only player to switch from one side of the ball to the other now that Weis and his staff have moved him from receiver to safety this spring. Maura played in four
in January. In last week's press conference, Weis said he was informed that the case would be presented before the caseworker left his office last Thursday. The Jayhawks should have the result soon. If McCay's waiver request is granted, he will be allowed to play immediately. If he isn't, he will have to sit out one year before being able to play for the Jayhawks.
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Sophomore running back Brandon Bourbon, junior defensive tackles John Williams and Kevin Young and Maura will be limited during this spring practice season. Weis said at last week's press conference that none of the players are out for the spring, but will be limited in the contact drills.
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Running back James Sims swiftly moves to avoid getting tackled. Coach Weis has been changing things up during spring practices this semester.
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