Volume 124 Issue 93 kansan.com Thursday, February 9, 2012 COMMENTARY Kecus our EMBRACING FAMILY A 14 nat. the good sign. I ketball team take if it mi. night's beate anything bu. bag. The final a better rest Kansas fan Between a s finish, the J the Bears' w 37-15 run. I advantage c and national front-runne on the bend encouraging But Wed reaed cr this team th if it has any run in the N Let's take of the game turnovers in six trailed after for the four games. As the gai of the same Kansas Saturday re team was pl lead by that fans created akin to a m performance the showdown flaws are sti On Satu score in the night, the to points in the of them co. Perhaps Kansas' dro its starters s guard Tysh, the best pos at times on the end of f wind and s Four Jayha turnovers It gave Bay in the gam ultimately w of that oppo LOVE --find your own way to tell those you love, "I love you!" Michelle MacBain, Kansas City is a graduate student in Communication Studies. She studied Psychology and Human Sexuality at KU and the University of Amsterdam. I love love! Even though some of you may regard Valentine's Day as a "Hallmark holiday," remember that love is not only shared between romantic partners, but between you and anyone in your life that is lucky enough to have your love. This year, instead of dismissing the day as commercial, remind those closest to you of the love you have and share. Take the day to feel love and celebrate a romantic partner, friend, family member, or cherished pet. Remember that love is shared and experienced in many different ways find some comfort with it. Now, for those of you looking to experience something new with a romantic partner, here are a few new sex positions in the popular holiday sex position series Cupid's Arrow In this standing missionary position, both partners face each other and the receiver lifts and places one leg around the giver's hip; the giver supporting the receiver's leg by holding the thigh. If the receiver is very flexible, try raising the leg and placing it onto the giver's shoulder. The giver can then bend and flex his/her legs to penetrate the receiver. Aim for the bullseye! Chocolate Tiss - final The giver kneels on the bed or floor, resting his/her bottom on his/her heels. The receiver kneins in front, placing his/her knees slightly in front or on either side of the giver. This position allows the giving partner access to kiss, touch, and caress the receiver's body, while allowing the receiver the closeness not often experienced with other rear entry positions. Don't forget to keep your favorite lubrication within reach! Rose Bud - Cunnillious The receiver lays on her side. The giver lays on his/her side perpendicular to the receiver with his/her head between her thighs - head facing towards the vagina, not the anus. In this position, the receiver has control of her hips and level of oral penetration, allowing for either softer or more aggressive stimulation. The giver can stimulate himself/herself with the free hands, or use them to explore the receiver's body. Pop the Champagne - Tellatio The receiver kneels on all fours and the giver lays further down the bed with their head between the receiver's knees. The giver performs oral and can use their mouth and hands to caress and explore their partner's whole body, stimulating the scrotum and anus. The receiver can dip and raise their hips to carefully thrust in and out of the giver's mouth. Well-endowed men and those with a sensitive gag reflex will benefit from taking this one slow. Email your questions to michelle@michellemacbain.com Dating Tip: ANDREW FEIGENBAUM AND ANDREA MAUZY // ALIZA CHUDNOW CONTRIBUTED PHOTO The minute Andrew Feigenbaum saw Andrea Mauzy, he immediately thought she was cute. A mutual friend thought the two would instantly hit it off, so when they were introduced to each other at Andrew's fraternity house at the beginning of the fall semester, sparks flew. "When we first met we were definitely flirting back and forth," Andrew, a junior says. "It was really, really nice, nothing felt forced at all." After spending time during the day hanging out at one another's houses or driving around town, going on late night food runs to McDonalds, the two decided to take their relationship to the next level and be exclusive. But not before Andrew revealed to Andrea that he would be studying abroad this spring semester. "He told me he was studying abroad in Japan and I just kind of went with it," says Andrea, a junior from Kansas City. "That was at the beginning when we first met, but I soon started to like him so I didn't really care anymore." The night before the two parted ways, Andrew cooked Andrea a homemade meal—macaroni and cheese—and they watched one of her favorite movies, Little Rascals. Although this was the last night they would be physically together for eight months, they both were determined to make their relationship work no matter how far apart they were from one another. DATING TIP: Keep in touch by whatever means possible, and always be patient with your partner. It has been a month and a half since Andrea and Andrew have been in the same room, ate a meal together or cuddled on a couch, but thanks to Skype, they are still able to not only talk, but see each other every day. The two are constantly communicating, whether it's texting about their days or saying 'sweet dreams' over Skype at night, proving that even the distance can't seem to stop them from flourishing as a couple. Being apart has really taught them how to be patient with one another. "When you are away, you have your own separate lives," Andrew says. "Until I leave for Japan in April, I am with my family in Boca Raton, Fla. and Andrea has class, so we have to be really patient and really flexible with each other." While the couple is adjusting to being states apart, they will soon have another barrier to cross; being half-way around the world from one another. When that time comes, they will continue to manage their relationship in stride, and prove to themselves that although they miss each other, they can still make it work. As history has proved time and time again, distance makes the heart grow fonder. the starters only further revealed the depth issues on this Kansas squad. Robinson finished with 15 points, his third-lowest total in Big 12 play, and 11 rebounds. He was picked up by junior center Jeff Withey's career-high 25 points, but consistency has been an issue for him. Only five Kansas players scored Wednesday, including junior guard Travis Releford, who finished with just one point. Backup forwards Kevin Young and Justin Wesley looked completely lost at times, combining for zero points and three turnovers. When Withey and Taylor were on their game, the Jayhawks looked like the best team in the country, and that was with Robinson on the bench. But concerns over reoccurring problems with the beginning and end of games and the team's overall depth should replace the feeling of euphoria when the Jayhawks return to practice. TYLER BIERWIRTH/KANSAN Junior guard Angel Goodrich plans her execution during the first half of Wednesday's game against Texas. Goodrich had a record breaking 16 assists. Kansas defeated Texas with a final score of 85-61. Goodrich had nine assists in the first half on the way to 16, breaking her previous record. She sat courtside and watched, future point guard find open players and pass the ball with ease. So Henrickson was not surprised when Goodrich, a junior guard from Tahlequah, Okla., broke the Allen Fieldhouse single-game assist record last night in Kansas' victory against Texas. Edited by Amanda Gage "It's exciting," Goodrich said. "I'm not much of a numbers person, but having 16 assists means that my teammates were ready to shoot." Kansas entered the game looking for a Big 12 victory to get them back on track. The team faced Texas, the team they defeated to kick off conference play. The game was similar with scoring fluctuations, but most importantly, the Jayhawks won again. The Jayhawks pulled together and defeated the Longhorns in a much needed 85-61 victory at home play. Kansas shot 57.6 percent from the field and had 20 assists on 34 baskets. Sutherland, who finished with a game-high 24 points and 10 of 15 shots from the field, was one of the main recipients of Goodrich's historic assists. "Coming off that losing streak this is a great win and gives us the confidence to go out and win another game," senior forward Aishah Sutherland said. "It is not even a communication, if you say something or make a cut she will see you and get the ball to you," Sutherland said. Sutherland looked dominant in stretches scoring on multiple possessions in a row. She scored the first six and then finished with a game-high 24 points with 12 rebounds, four blocks and four steals. "I thought she was really good today, got us off to a good start and hit some tough shots to start it," Henrickson said. Goodrich matched her 16 assists with 16 points and freshman guard Asia Boyd added some surprising support. Boyd got a chance for more court time with sophomore guard CeCe Harper on the bench with a concussion. She made the most of it with a career-high 11 points and two steals in 24 minutes. After trading baskets for the first couple possessions the Jayhawks jumped out to a 22-9 lead midway through the first half. They built the lead to 17 points before allowing the Longhorns to cut it to four in the second half. Angel Goodrich tipped of an 18-6 run to put the Jayhawks up 20 with under eight minutes to play. "I thought she controlled the game from the tip and once we made our comeback she just said, 'no more', and kind of took things into her own hands, literally, and put the game back out of reach," Texas coach Gail Goenstenkers said. Kansas will travel to Manhattan for a rematch with Kansas State at noon on Sunday. - Edited by Amanda Gage 1