6A = THE UNIVERSITY DAILY KANSAN FACES IN THE CROWD WEDNESDAY, FEB. 6, 2002 Student finds inspiration, solace in sibling's memory A touch of Irish in downtown Lawrence KIMBERLY THOMPSON/KANSAN Lion Lions Chase By Adam Pracht Kansan staff writer Kristen Landes, Gladstone, Mo., freshman, jokes around with Corinne Deuel, Norfolk, Neb., freshman, in Lands' Gertrude Sellards Pearson-Corbin Residence Hall room. Landes said her sister's death helped shape her personality. Kristen Landes grew up as an only child. Yet she said her sister Amy, who died before Kristen was born, shaped much of her life and personality. "I feel like she's always my guardian angel," the Gladstone, Mo., freshman said, "I feel like I have a relationship with her." Kristen said even though she never got to meet her sister, she felt her absence. As a child, she noticed that others took their family for granted. Judy Landes, Kristen's mother, said Amy was born in March of 1979 with multiple congenital anomalies. Judy said Amy had multiple symptoms without a known cause, such as seizures, weak muscles and fragile bones. Her condition slowly deteriorated until she died in January of 1980. "When she started talking, we knew this was going to be a life experience," Rick said. "She exceeded all expectations." "My friends would fight with their siblings," she said. "Oh, I hate my brother. I hate my sister.' I'd always get so angry. Be so thankful that you have a brother or sister." Both Judy and her husband, Rick Landes, said they were concerned throughout Kristen's early life that she would have the same problems, but it was not long before they were certain Kristen would be physically healthy. Kristen Landes said that Amy's life has taught her to treasure her own life. "You just need to take each experience and know that you're going to learn something from it," she said. "I don't believe that God gives you anything you can't handle. Things are totally difficult sometimes, but you just have to deal with it." Both Rick and Judy Landes said they agreed that Amy's life had made Kristen a more compassionate person. But Amy's story still influences Kristen. When she isn't in school, she helps her mother who directs a program for learning-delayed children. She has helped since she was about 6 years old. On weekends, Kristen volunteers at the Lawrence Humane Society to get animals used to human contact. In addition to pursuing a degree in strategic communications, she will join the dance team for the Kansas City Wizards soccer team this spring. Red Lyon Tavern 944 Mass. 832-8228 "I think that she fully believes Contact Pracht at apracht@kansan.com. This story was edited by Andy Gassaway. that everyone has something to contribute no matter what their limitations," Rick said. No Lions De "We're giving away a basketball autographed by the 2001-2002 Jayhawk team. If you're not presently a FirstBank customer, we invite you to come in and get acquainted. And, if you are already a FirstBank customer be sure stop by and register! Contest ends March 11, 2002. So come in and register soon!" Register during regular banking hours. No cost. No obligations. Need not be present to win. Lawrence - 841-6677 = 2710 Iowa Also in Junction City and Manhattan 115 SHOP 'TIL 6:00... THURSDAY 'TIL 8:30 CLINIQUE GIFT FINAL WEEK "Coral For Keeps FREE with any Clinique purchase of $17.50 or more. Fun colours! Great skin! Clinique Exclusives! Great Gift News: Total Turnaround Visible Skin Renewer Next generation skin improver. Instantly reveals clearer, brighter, livelier skin. Great Gift Favourites: Dramatically Different Moisturizing Lotion Dramatically Different Moisturizing Lotion Comforting moisture "drink" for every skin. A key part of our clinically formulated 3-Step Skin Care System. - Lash Doubling Mascara in Black Magnifies lashes up to twice their size. - Different Lipstick in Surprise Different because of its smooth, comfortable feel. One of the best. from our wide range of shades. Clinique Happy Body Smoother $ \◆ $ Clinique Happy Body Smother Skin-sleeking lotion, scented with Clinique's newest fragrance for women. Great Gift Exclusives: Great Cilt Excelsior Impact Eye Shadow Trio in Like Mink Duo/Serenity High Impact Eye Shadow Trio in Like Mink The Pow! of full, rich colour on contact. It's ready to wear – and wow. ◆ Clinique Caddy Organizer Coral keeper. Clinique's signature "C" case with cover keeps makeup, jewelry—just about anything—in its place. ♦ Clinique Caddy Organizer CLINIQUE Allergy tested 100% fragrance free (with the exception of Clinique Happy Products) Shop 'til 6:00 Thursdays 'til 8:30 Sunday 12:00-5:00 www.clinique.com 9th & Massachusetts 843-6360