University Daily Kansan / Wednesday, March 4. 1992 9 Chiefs kicker praises failure during speech at Ellsworth By Erik Bauer Kansan staff writer Nick Lowery, place kicker for the Kansas City Chiefs, told 70 students at Ellsworth Hall last night that the secret to success was failure. He said the epiphath on his tombstone should say that he was an expert on failure. "It's my belief it's not success that matters," said Lowery, who failed 11 trysuit to eight different professional football teams before joining the Chiefs. "It's how well you stare failure in the face." Lowery, a 1978 Dartmouth College graduate said that college students often set high goals for themselves but that they gave up when they made mistakes. Many people fail because they concentrate on past mistakes, he said. "Many of us are not prepared for failure," Lowery said. Alluding to failures he faced in college and professional football, he said the pain of failure developed in him. "Persistence alone is kissing. "Lowery said. "With it, almost anything can be achieved." He said he attributed the success of his 13 seasons with the Chiefs to conquering the fear of failure with commitment and perseverance. Lowery, who has kicked three of the six longest field goals in NFL history, said experience with failure helped people take responsibility for themselves and become their own role models. "I paid my dues by expecting that pain and suffer. ing," Lowery said. "I wouldn't have it any other way." He said that everyone had specific roles to play in life and had different but equal gifts. "The challenge is to find out what these gifts are and try to make the best of them," Lowery said. "Through that, you will have so much to give to others." Lowery, who started a program called "Kick With Nick" that helps Kansas City agencies cope with the problems of inner-city children, said it was important to involve involvement to have an impact on the lives of others. "Involvement is the best education you will ever have." he said. As a college student, Lowyer said he took the advice of an Episcopal chaplain at Dartmouth. "It's not the decisions in life that are important, but the energy you throw into what you decide to do," he said. Justin Knupp/KANSAN Mark Kekeisen, St. Louis senior, said of Lowery's advice, "I think it's most important for upperclassmen who are about to make major life decisions." Jeri Stephenson. Hugoton junior and president of Kansas City Chiefs place kicker Nick Lowery speaks to a group of about70 Ellsworth Hall residents. Ellsworth Hall, said she definitely agreed with the advice. Stephenson said she also agreed with Lowery's statement that it was important to get involved and make a difference in someone else's life. YOU DON'T NEED A COUPON! Legal Services for Students Legal Services Available Free With Valid KU ID Appointment Necessary AOI Spring Philanthropy this week at Wescoe Beach and the Union With a $1 donation to our Philanthropy you are invited to our party at Benchwarmers : March 16 ** Door Prize ** In-state tuition for any full-time student for Fall 1992 Please support our cause and join in the fun! The $2 Million Dollar Loan Sale No tents, clowns or singing dogs; just the absolute best values on new and used car, boat, and RV financing. New Cars Boats Used Cars This offer is available for a limited time only. Call KU Credit Union today at 749-2224 for membership information and loan approval. For the survivor date rape is just as devastating as rape by a stranger. MYTH: Date rape isn't really rape. FACT: Being forced into sex against your will is rape, no matter who the rapist is. The University of Kansa The University of Kansas Sexual Assault Prevention and Education Program. A program of the Emily Taylor Women's Resource Center 115 Strong Hall 864-3600 ARENSBERG'S SHOES One step ahead! Open evenings 'til 8:30 Open Sunday 12:00 to 5:00 Quality footwear for the whole family since 1958 825 Massachusetts Downtown Lawrence Lawrence County University Theatre & Sillylite Media Present For tickets call: 843-SHOW Performances 8pm, 2:30pm, 1501 NewHamshire $ \infty $ ROSES $ \infty $ Any color arranged in a vase, only $ 15^{95} / dozen $ Plus-Carnations only $^{\$}5^{00}/doz$. Longstem madaams(wrapped) $^{\$}19^{95}/doz$. - Corsages • Boutonnieres • • Wedding service • Funeral service • • Balloon bouquets • Delivery service • Marie's Bouquet of Flowers ALL MAJOR CREDIT CARDS ACCEPTED 1822 W. 23rd (Next to Yellow Sub) HOURS: M-F 9:7, SAT 9:5