The University Daily Kansan Wednesday, July 8, 1998 NATURALWAY The Castle Tea Room by Reservation Only Call 843-1151 - NATURAL FIBER CLOTHING - NATURAL BODY CARE - 820-822 MASS. • 841-0100. EVERYTHING BUT ICE BEDS • DESKS • BOOK CASES CHEST OF DRAWERS unclaimed freight & damaged merchandise 936 Mace Finc Line Tattoo Inc. & Body Piercing "We are under your skin." "We get under your skin" Family Owned & Operated 30 yrs exp 1000s of Designs Custom Work Quality Work Reasonably Priced Tattoos Guaranteed Ear Life Wed.-Sat. 12:30-8 PM 1826 Massachusetts Lawrence 749-3502 29th & Massachusetts Topeka 233-8288 Cedarwood Apartments Now Leasing Four Bedroom Duplexes - Newly Redecorated Units - Dishwasher - Central Heat & Air Condition - Low Utilities - Close to Mall - On KU Bus Route - Washer and Dryer Hock Up - Swimming Pool CALL Karin 843-1116 2411 Cedarwood Avenue Column It is impossible to stereotype the average American college student, but it is possible to observe that college students are more practical and individualistic than their grandparents ever were. Some female students have discarded the traditional notion of marrying a tall, dark and handsome rich man. Those who still cling to the fantasy, do so discretely. Most college males no longer think about acquiring an education to secure a decent job and provide for a nuclear family. These old-fashioned mind sets have been disregarded as we face a modern society with personal and professional options. Traditional roles not only option in today's world Pakistani women in work force For better or worse, this is not the case for most Pakistani college students. Pakistani males still shoulder the burden of being the sole breadwinner of their households. However, most seek a wife who is well-educated and reasonably independent. Pakistani females are as intelligent and capable as American females, but many maintain concepts antiquated by Western standards. They are raised to be less individualistic and more jobs or at least put their careers on hold for children. Pakistani society shuns the concept of child-care centers. Culturally and religiously, a woman's role is at home. This is not a symbol of degradation or inferiority, but a traditional method of ensuring children will be raised in a stable, nurturing environment. In Pakistan, a mother is with her child from diapers to college and sometimes beyond. accepting of the conventional life pattern of studying, marrying and becoming a homemaker. Nonetheless, many women today are pursuing graduate degrees so that they can support themselves as the word divorce begins to slowly edge its way into the Pakistani vocabulary. Nadia Mustafa editor@kansan.com It's no secret that this phenomenon has become comparatively rare in the United States as more women strive for individual success and personal fulfillment. I embrace American principles of equality and individualism and cherish the fact that there is always another civil rights lawsuit or social movement around the corner. I plan on pursuing a career and making the most out of the increasingly woman-friendly society. Despite my liberalism, I recognize that there are two sides to every story, and we cannot ignore the not-so-rosy side of the American one. Along with the individualistic trend, we have witnessed drastic increases in problems such as juvenile crime and teen pregnancy, accompanied by decreasing family values and moral standards. Studies have suggested that the holes in our social fabric are at home. Before feminists roll their eyes, it is important to remember that there are aggressive, working women in Pakistan. Maleeha Lodhi was Pakistan's ambassador to the United States and is now the editor of a major newspaper. Asma Jahangir is a famous lawyer and human rights activist. Benazir Bhutto was prime minister and is now the political opposition leader. These are only a few prominent examples of the strides women have made in their attempts to enter the work force, but old habits die hard. It will probably be a couple of generations before there are as many working women as working men in Pakistan. between traditional roles and fierce individualism, but we don't live in an ideal world. Pakistanis may lack many of the modern, liberal social options, but they benefit from moral stability and family values. Americans may enjoy the fruits of a self-fulfilling, individualistic society, but many homes and neighborhoods are rampant with social problems and show no signs of improving. The number of Pakistani women who want to work is growing,but most will quit their Although many U.S. politicians and social activists are calling for a return to family values, it might be too late. As rapid Westernization in Pakistan places the nation at the brink of risky change in the upper echelons of society, the universal cycle continues. Nadia Mustafa is a Topeka sophmore in journalism and English. The ideal would be a balance COCO LOGO DOWNTOWN LAWRENCE 943 MASSACHUSETTS-842-1414 WORLD CUP FINAL THIS SUNDAY PARTY STARTS AT 1:00pm MARGARITAS 2 for 1 Brazilian Caipirihnas $1.50 GOCO LOGO: YUMMY, GOZY, & FUN, FUN, FUN.. 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Find it online. www.collegestudent.com Own your own Computer Consultation company Check out the Hand Technologies ad @ www.collegestudent.com Sales/Marketing Representatives forCollegestudent.com Flex hrs, great pay Ryse 888-915-6200 Kansan Ads Pay Great Jobs for College students. www.collegestudent.com Great used cars, online. Point your browser to www.collegestudent.com 200s Employment 205 - Help Wanted BASS PLAYER WANTED for Top 40 private beers, 793-6494 Beers, 793-6494 Great Jobs for College students. www.collegestudent.com Part-time help needed now and then next year in January 2016: 8:10-13:30 M 20 wks./hr. Please call 749-8013. Superstar cook wanted. Browne, Suite experience preferred 95 and up. Great benefits. 89th The Vans Warped Tour islook for workers. If you like punk tour, boarding and sleeping at the train station, Kali calls a Part-time nanny needed for 20 mo. old twins, in our home. Experience w/toddlers required, begining August 18th, 8-5 M, W, F. Willing to consider 2 part-time persons. contact Diane at 864-0638. Sales/Marketing Representatives for CollegeStudent.com Flex hrs, great pay. Ryssue 888-915-6200 Therapist needed for eleven year old boy with Autism. Must like children and be willing to learn applied behavior analysis procedures. Training provided. Please call Selma (816) 361-3914. The Granda is looking for interested lighting interns for dance nights and concerts for the fall. Training to begin immediately. Please contact Jenne or Scott at 842-1390. CommunityWorks Inc. is currently hiring personal assistants for day, evening, weekend, and overnight to work with people with head injury. Contact us at CommunityWorks Inc. 913-341-8679 ext.302 Leavenworth office, Call (913) 341-8679 ext.302 205 - Help Wanted Pipeline Productions, the area's finest concert promotion company is looking for interns for the fall. if you like live music, enjoy working hard, and have a desire to get into the industry, call Kelly at 748-3655. Are you available to work weekends and holidays? Come join our team. Rueschheff Comm. 24 hr. telephone answering service needs you. Must be detail oriented and possess good comm. skills. Long term part-time all shifts avail. Apply in person 2411 W6th St. DISABLED STUDENTS If you are experiencing problems receiving needed, effective accommodations at KU (e.g. note takers), dial 942-3882. Sharing your experience with the staff can help the call. System at 8-on-9 or 6 on-10. Part-time Mother's Helper/Cook for busy family this coming school year. Meal planning, grocery shopping, cooking and light housekeeping are parts of the job. Other sisters help take care of the children. You must have experience based on experience. Must have own car. Work to start in August, but can start immediately. Please send letter with list of work experiences 1012 Lawrence, KS 65494-480 W. 15th St. Suite 1012, Lawrence KS 65494 Programming Assistant/Office Assistant (Student Hourly rate of 5.50 per hour) at the Academic Resource Center (Language Lab). Responsible for equipment for data entry, duplicating audio and video materials, typing and keeping inventory of supplies, other light office work, and description of the equipment and application at 4069 Westcause Hall. For information, call 804-7455. Deadline August 14, 1998. Librarian (Student Hourly rate of 5.78 per hour) at the Academic Resource Center (Language Labs). Responsibilities include assisting lab patrons, using computer equipment for data entry, duplicating audio and video materials, typing and keeping inventory of supplies, accessioning books, managing catalogs, developing and special projects in conjunction with vendor. Pick up full job description with required qualifications and application at 4089 Wesco Hall. For information, call 684-4785. 1