University Daily Kansan Wednesday, Jan. 21, 1953
On the Hill
By JEANNE FITZGERALD
Konner, Societ. Editor
Kansas Society Editor
The University club will hold an informal bridge party in the club rooms at 8 p.m. Saturday, Jan. 31.
Hosts will be Mr. and Mrs. W. D. Paden and Mr. and Mrs. Edgar A. Harrison. Members are asked to phone in reservations for the party to one of the hosts 24 hours before the event.
Sigma Kappa sorority announces the recent pledging of Barbara Gilbert, business junior from Coffeyville, Kan.; Velma Louise Gaston, journalism junior from Kansas City, Kan., and Alta Rash, education junior from Kansas City, Kan.
Junior Panhellenic Council will give a semi-formal dance from 9 am. to midnight Feb. 6 in the Military Science building. Gene Hall's orchestra will play for the dance. All sorority pledges and their dates are invited. Chaperones will be Mrs. Dean Alt, Mrs. C. H. Wentworth, and Mrs. John R. Scott.
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Acacia fraternity held a dessert dance with members of Delta Gamma sorority in the chapter house. Chaperones were Mrs. W. S. Shaw and Mrs. Edna B. Brown.
--of marriage and divorce in a new book on preventive psychiatry, written by him and his wife. The book is called "The Well Adjusted Personality" (Lippincott), and the authors said they hope it will steer many a person away from the psychiatrist's couch.
Mr. Merlyn C. Jones, assistant chapter supervisor for Sigma Alphapsilon fraternity, is now visiting Kansas alpha chapter at the University. Mr. Jones will be here through Thursday.
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The members of Mortar Board, senior women's honor society, will be entertained with a dinner given by Miss Martha Peterson, dean of women, at her home tonight.
Alpha Phi sorority announces the hedging of Elizabeth Ann Teas, nine arts sophomore from Salina, Kan.; Elma Jane Ellis, college sophomore from Leavenworth, Kan.; and anise Dureen Meiser, fine arts sophomore from Marion, Kan.
30 Initiated nto Kappa Phi
Thirty women were initiated into Kappa Phi, Methodist women's group, in Degree of the Light ceremonies and seven women, who will be leaving the campus soon, received the Degree of the Rose Friday night in Danforth chapel.
The initiates were Jean Dumler, Bonna Dyck, Norma Lee Eshelman, Carole Fisher, LaVonne Godwin, Barbara Hampton, Carolyn Hawkins, Carol Hill, Margaret Howard, Borolyn Humbargar, Julianne Keeer, and Jacqueline Kimmel.
Mira Lou Koltterman, Joyce Lunry, Carleen Mears, Joan Mohernan, Dolores Myers, Carolyn Neff,orma Je Nelson, Barbara Norse,Patricia Norrie, Elaine Oehler,orna Plummer, Lynn Sejkora,Iarietta Shannon, Marilyn Sorem,hirley Summers, Rosalie Thorne,lay Vetterick, and Joan Zimmerian.
Traditional Kappa Phi songs for the initiation ceremonies were sung y Jo Wellborn and Billie Mallory, those who participated in the initiation program were Gertha Harper, onna Davis, June Porter, Betty linger, Margaret Latimer, Georgia tiles, and Phyllis Nehrbass.
Alpha Chi Omega Announces
cohort-Wolfe, Pinning
Alpha Chi Omega sorority announces the pinning of Miss Joan conhafie Lawrence to Mr. John Schafer
The announcement was made at inner Thursday at the sorority house. Miss Leonhart received an child corsage. Her attendants, Miss Rebel and Mrs. Tubbrelief, and the two housemothers, Mr. Agnese and the women and Mrs.
A. Thomas, received corsages of hite baby mums. Miss Leonhart id Mr. Wolfe are education sopho-
Moonlight and Roses Idea Can Be Bad for Marriage
New York—(U.P.)—Moonlight and roses are fine for storybook romances, but a leading psychiatrist says that, in real life, they're just stumbling blocks to a happy marriage.
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Dr. Phillip Polatin, of Columbia University's College of Physicians and Surgeons, warned that our high divorce rate will continue to climb unless some commonsense is used in choosing a partner.
"You can blame a few marriage failures directly on money problems, differences in background, or in-law troubles," he said in an interview. "Most of them were destined for trouble before the knot was tied because the approach to marriage wasn't practical."
With that, a marriage will start with mutual respect, mutual consideration, physical compatibility, and a mutual feeling of tenderness.
Dr. Polatin, who has been married for 25 years to a writer, Ellen C. Philtine, said it is difficult to generalize about what makes a happy marriage. But he would require first, emotional maturity.
"Tenderness," the psychiatrist said, "is what most of us call love."
Dr. Polatin includes a discussion
"Society thinks in terms of the couple," he explained. "The divorced woman in particular suffers. Society on the surface may not nensure her these days, but in its own way, it gets back at her. She's a victim of a peculiar type of ostracism. An old maid is better off."
If a marriage becomes shaky, Dr. Polatin feels that divorce is not the solution.
Dr. Polatin said all of us would be happier if we could learn to ignore some of society's rigid concepts—such as the ones that every girl should be married, every couple should have children.
Kappa Alpha Theta sorority announces the pinning of four and the engagement of two of its members.
4 Pinned, 2 Engaged In Kappa Alpha Theta
Miss Pat Houston, education junior from Tulsa, Okla., was pinned to Mr. Charles Ostrander, business senior at Oklahoma university, Mr. Ostrander is a member of Sigma Chi fraternity. His home is in Okmulgee, Okla.
Miss Norma Mock, education senior from Hutchinson, Kan., was pinned to Warren Woody, business junior from Chicago, Ill. Mr. Woody is a member of Phi Gamma Delta fraternity.
MISS Georgia Drake, fine arts senior, was pinned to Mr. Hal Edmunson, business senior at Harvard university. Both are from Wichita, Kan.
Miss Marilyn Muchlbach, education junior from Kansas City, Mo, was pinned to Mr. Walter Birkinbuel, business senior from Chicago, Ill. Mr. Birkinbuel is a member of Beta Theta Pi fraternity.
Miss Penny Hoover, fine arts junior from Kansas City, Mo., was engaged to Ensign Robert Bowles of the U.S. Naval Reserve corps. Ensign Bowles home is in Garden City, New York. He is now stationed in Corpus Christi, Texas.
Miss Mary Frances Haines, fine
Dr. and Mrs. J, J. Black of Vineland, NJ., announce the engagement of their daughter Sara Louise to Lt. Roger L. Tuttle, U.S. Army.
Miss Black is a graduate of Ward-
Belmont college and the University
of Kansas. She is a member of Sigma
Kappa sorority. Lt. Tuttle is a
graduate of the University and a
member of Pt Kappa Alpha
fraternity. His home is in Kansas City,
Kan. He is now serving with the
10th Infantry division.
Inter-Fraternity Elects Rickel as President
Walter L. Rickel, pharmacy senior, was elected president of the Interfraternity Council for the coming term.
Other officers elected were Richard Verbrugge, vice president; Robert Worcester, secretary, and Mendel Small, treasurer. Those elected to the executive council were Kent Bowden, Richard Nordstrom, Joseph Conklin, Marvin Pool, Darrrell Faneestil, and Richard Judy.
arts sophomore from Durham, N.C., was engaged to Mr. Frank Holefelder, '52 of Wellington, Kan.
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