University Daily Kansan / Monday, October 3, 1988 BANDDAY Welcomed by bands and hands TOP: Band members from 72 high schools crowd onto the field at Memorial Stadium during half-time of the KU-New Mexico State football game. The bands gathered in Lawrence on Saturday for the N.F.L. Chiefs and EFF Children reach out to touch the KU Jayhawk during Saturday's game. ABUSE Continued from p. 1 abuser consciously decides to dominate the victim through violence and fear." beaten because I fried an egg wrong. She said abuse was often playec out in a series of well-defined stages. First there is the nice period, with no real problems, she said. "Then it turns out 'terrible' will happen — which is usually something small, blown out of mind." "For example, one time I was "The last stage is the 'honeycomb stage', where the abuser promises not to do it again. This will repeat until the victim decides to leave." Shauna said many women stayed in abusive relationships because they thought it would get better, as the abuser cited it said. Kate Barron, a Lawrence resident and advocate of Women's Transitional Care Services, said there were many reasons women in battering relationships. Advocates valved power of phones and working with victims. "A lot of times it's its financial dependence, or maybe the children are attached to the father," Barron said. "Often times, however, women in long relationships have become isolated from friends and don't know where to turn." Shauna said legislators should do more to help victims. "In Lawrence, there is no mandatory arrest of battering husbands." Quayle says he's ready for debate The Associated Press WASHINGTON — Republican Dan Quayle says he views this week's vice presidential debate with Texas Sen Lloyd Benton as "a golden opportunity for me to be an active part of his real opponent, Democratic nominee Mike Dalton." The Indiana senator said this weekend that he's not worried about making any of his celebrated gaffes during the nationally televised debate Wednesday in Omaha, Neb. although "there's always that possibility." Sounding confident about the confrontation with his Democratic counterpart, Quayle said, "I will be pre-emptive." The GOP vice presidential nominee said he would target his attacks on Dukakis rather than Benten, the Texas senator whose views Quayle said were more in tune with Republicans than Democrats. Bentsen, who is in Texas, is spending the next two days making final preparations for the debate, just as Quayle is. Dukulas today embarks on a campaign tour of major industrial states, including Michigan, Illinois, and Ohio. The team also flies to California to greet the Discovery space astronauts when they land at Edwards Air Force Base. "The opponent for me is Michael Dakikas." Quayle says, "He's the one that is running for president. He's the one who has been running this time for this country. My target and my discussion and my focus that evening will be on the governor from Louisiana." On Wednesday night, Quayle will field the first question from the panel of journalists. He admitted he was somewhat nervous but said "the butterflies will be gone when I get out there." Audiences drawn to 'Kansas' Residents curious about local movie By M. Meredith Relph Kansan staff writer The sparkle of the silver screen has the many Konsas to movie theater screens themselves and their state portrayed in Australian director David Stevens' The movie opened nationwide last week following the world premiere in Topeka. *Kansasers* is showing in Lawrence at Hillcrest Theatre, Ninth and Iowa Street White Lakes Theatre. Elden Hardy, city manager for Common Theater in Lawrence, said the theater would be available for each showing of "Kansas" but that attendance was above average. Attendance figures for attendance figures were available. Everyone has thought it was a nice film. There are some cynics, but there will always be those people. No matter what the critics say, if we could get attention for our state and allow our people to be in the movie, then it's a success.' , Elden Harwood Manager, Commonwealth Theater STORY IDEA? Call 864-4810 "It's slacked off some, but it's better than average." Harwood said. "We've grossed substantially more than Topaka." Dave Nell, manager of Fox White Akademie Theatre in Topkapi, said his choreography was "very much danced in the film's first two weeks. He estimated that about 3,500 people "It's been about what we expected," Nell said. "We're proud of the business it's doing." Manager, Commonwealth Theatres Nell said the Topeka audiences included many of the people who worked as extras in in "Kansas." Although the film has been panned by critics, both theater managers reported hearing favorable comments about it. "Everyone has thought it was a nice film," Harwood said. "There are some cynics, but there will always be those people." "No matter what the critics say, if we could get attention for our state and allow our people to be in the movie, then it's a success." Nell said most of the people he had heard discuss the movie liked it, particularly the scenes in which they recognized people or places. "Quite a few people from Valley Fails have come." Nell said, in reference to the town northeast of where part of the movie was filmed. "Kansas" will be playing through this week in Lawrence, and Harwood said it then would run on a week-to-week basis depending upon the num- Nell said the Fox White Lakes Theatre definitely would show the film all this week and expected to run it next week as well. "We've had good business this first week," Nell said. "How long the run is depends on what's opening at theaters elsewhere." Save Your Money! 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