University Daily Kansan
Tuesday, September 19, 1972
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Kansan Photo by MALCOLM TURNER
Either Oliver Residence Hall or Mary Sue Elliott, Kansas City, Kan. freshman, have flipped
Three KU Clinics Offer Counseling To Student Couples on the Rocks
By BECKY PIVONKA Kansan Staff Writer
Elliott found the front lawn conducive to soft landings while practicing for her gymnastics class, incidentally, she landed
Students with marital difficulties may find added problems in choosing where to go and help in solving their differences.
On the University of Kansas campus there are three places where students are these is the Mental Health Clinic, which is set up as part of Watkins hospital and is open only to KU students. Another alternative is the Gudance Bureau in 118 Bailley, where students but also deals with nonstudents, as does the third clinical psychological clinic in Fraser.
College students seek professional marriage counseling for many reasons.
Financial difficulties, the changing mores, extra-marital relationships can all be causes for marriage breakdowns, but Shoulder, clinical psychologist and college student Clinic, said college students' marriage problems had deeper roots.
ONE OF the problems Henry D. Rempel, chief of the psychology service at the Veterans Administration Center discusses with the couple is a breakdown in communication.
"This lack of communication may be because of a number of reasons—for example, money problems, relationships with in-members and problems of adjustment of the problems to one another," Remile said.
"Underlying these symptoms is the question of identity and searching for community," Shoublerd said.
"Until one has established a
"It seems to me that trying to maintain a family and work on the part of the husband or the wife puts a strain on the marriage.
"Sometimes this brings the couple closer together and sometimes it makes it difficult for them to maintain the kind of relationship they would like to have in their marriage," said Michael, guidance counselor for the KU Guidance Bureau.
real sense of identity he cannot experience an intimate relationship. He tends to get submerged and use the partner in any way that he can not an adult equal" he said. "There are always times in any marriage when each partner has care for, or among periods of the greatest pain but when the predominant relationship is that of a parent to a child or two children together or having a very healthy marriage."
AS FOR pinpointing a particular problem that frequently causes a break in marriages, Mr. Green told me he worked at the KU psychological clinic, said. "If the couple has been married under five years their problems are different than if they have been married for a longer time."
In dealing with the couple's problems, the counselor must discover the best way to help the couple solve their differences.
"in our interventions we try to show that if the couple can show their feelings directly, they will learn how to deal with them directly. They're going to come indirectionally away," shouberg
THE FOCUS is on the couple
Six universities in the Big Eight conference report that their enrolments this year will be slightly higher than last year.
Big 8 Enrollment Remains Static
By SCOTT EATON Kansan Staff Writer
Enrolment figures released by the registrar's office at KU, K-State and UN are 20,112 and 15,104, respectively. Up to 14,789 from KU, upi
The Big Eight schools reporting an increase in enrollment are the University of Kansas, Kansas State University and the University of Nebraska. Schools in Iowa's region are years' are the University of Colorado, Iowa State University and the University of Missouri.
Two, universities, the University of Oklahoma and Oklahoma State University, had no enrollment figures available.
year, and 21,582 at NU up 110 from 21,472 last year.
MU REPORTED an enrollment of 21,907, 35 students fewer than last year, but slight increases in enrollments then late enrollements are counted.
Last year's enrollments of 19,274 at Iowa State and 20,000 at CU are expected to be about the same.
All enrollment figures are subject to change within the next few days because of late enrollments and withdrawals.
Residence halls at Big Eight
schools are running at or near
capacity. Resident halls at CU
to 104 per cent of
capacity to
spaces.
Marcel Degaler, superintendent of the United States said some quets hat, relics of World War II, had been pressed into service to accommodate the military.
"Our capacity was expanded by 101 spaces with the addition of 23 more." Ms. Kissel said, "They raised our capacity from 3,789 to 5,471. But the staff was growing."
The huts are scheduled to be demolished in the spring.
Dessalier said the demand for residence hall spaces had increased since last year, but enrollment had not. Rates at CU were $19 a semester and by 29 to a semester from $540 this year to $699 this year.
DESGALIER attributed the demand to the services offered to students living in residence halls.
more office space, according to Don Graham, assistant director of housing. The loss of the house meant a loss of 174 room spaces.
"Apparently the students like the room packages we offer." Desagler said. "We offer a package to stay there, There is the Sewell Program, named after the residence hall it is held in, where students can take classes for credit and have tutoring." The has proved immensely popular.
MU HAS 6,198 residence hall spaces this year, of which 6,038 have been rented. Costs for occupancy remained the same.
Residence halls at NU are about 88.5 per cent occupied. NU, housed officer. Wenke said residence hall spaces for women were 100 percent occupied.
Wenke said some problems had arisen because 25 women wanted to live in single rooms, and the spaces were not available.
The charges for living in a residence hall at NU are $404 a year, the same as last year.
At KU, residence halls are
slightly crowded and the
slight rate increase to cover
added operating costs and the
cost of additional security at
the university.
"The counselor's role is to try to develop with the couple an atmosphere in which they can really express how they're feeling, how they are experiencing faculty, and an atmosphere in which they also can hear what the partner is experiencing." 'Michaal said.'
and what they want as a married couple, and how they want to work out their problems."
Residence hall spaces rent for $950 to $1,000 a year at KUL.
Counselors also usually try to talk with the couple together and if necessary sometimes separately.
"When I deal with marital problems I try to see the couple together, as if they are separately because sometimes it is easier for them to talk apart when they are together."
"Throughout all of this what I saying do is make them see you willing and able to find alter- willing and able to find alter- willing and able they may find a solution." Remphalt
Residence hall spaces are 99.1 per cent full at K-State. These spaces not filled are reserved by the university for other purposes.
"While most couples are usually seen together, if it seems that you are not seeing each other separately for a while and some cases they see separate counselors. It all depends on what you say about them in their situation." Michal said.
SHOULERG said that one of the new methods in marriage counseling was to talk with a married problem, a biracial problem, the couple is seen together because you don't treat him unless you treat the relationship he said.
Desgalerie said several other residence halls had become coed this year.
Sexuality Seminar Focuses on Ethics
By LINDA J. CHAPUT
BY LINDA J. CHAI OF
Kansan Staff Writer
The Commission on the Status of Women is sponsoring a Human Sexuality Seminar today through the Office of Human Sexuality. The theme of the seminar is "Sexual Ethics," the Karen Sears, adviser to the human sexuality commission.
"The seminar we offered last week was about sex. We worked on the assumption, incorrect I think, that people were sexually accuseable."
The commission will show films and distribute information starting at 11:30 a.m. each day in Parlor A and Parlor B of the Union, with topics related to sexual ether each evening in the Union.
"Most people have value systems, but many people have not though been through," she said. "They don't know how they, but they don't know why."
"Our goal this time is to provide people information and points of view so that they can see what has implications on their sexual ethics.
Today's schedule of events is:
- **Reproduction** - *aasl films on menstrual cycle, sexual in-
vulence and fetus, birth and the newborn baby will be shown each hour beginning at 11:30 a.m. in Parlor*
At MU, demands for residence hall spaces are also high. MU lost one residence hall this year because the university needed
"Self Disclosure: Unfolding to Love." a film produced by the N.Y.C. Film Center with comments by Paul Friedman, assistant professor of film and drama. The film will be show at 10:30 p.m. in the Union Ballroom.
Wednesday
nomenclay
"Confidence by Choice"一a film on the different methods of contraception in Parlar A. 11:30 a.m. and 2:29 p.m.
"The Lunatic"—a film made in Lawrence on veneer disease in Lawrence in Parlor A, 12:30 p.m. and 3:30 p.m.
"How to Take the Worry Out of Being Close"—lace by Dr. Jereen Brown, Information and Education Council of the United States, and Yaye Hird, Lawrence Physician in Big Eight Room, 7:30 p.m.
"The Future of Relationships,
Marriage or What?" a discussion
by William Wright of
psychology. Erik Wight
professor of psychology,
and William Conboy, professor of
psychology. Big Eight
Room at 7:30 p.m.
Thursday
"Who's Fiddler? "Each Child Loved?" and "Slide Show on Abortion?" three films on abortion and problem solving two films were made in LaKaye Centron and are being released for the first time. All three at 1, 1:30 and 3:30 p.m. in Parlor.
JOHN CIARDI will speak today The Act of Language
8 p.m. Woodruff Aud.
Sponsored by Humanities
Lecture Series
Use Kansan Classified
History Prof Goes to Oxford
40 Profs Receive Sabbatical Leaves
At St. Antony's, Greaves will continue research in the diplomatic history of the Middle Ages on the 19th and 20th centuries.
Greaves also will write an article on Iran's "Foreign Relations and Security" and 1980-1983 "Southern Governorate" and "Cambridge History of Iran."
Forty KU faculty members have received sabbatical leaves for the 1972-73 academic year.
By LYNNE MALM
Kansas Stuff Writer
Nineteen will b> gone for the full year. Ten have leaves for the fall semester and 11 for the spring.
of the 40, 11 have remained in Lawrence to research and write. Thirteen others are roving the campus for research at researching at other universities.
Eleven will be in Europe. Seven of those will be in England for at least part of their leaves.
A remaining five are scattered around the globe.
Recent fiction written in the
American will be studied this fall,
by Michael J. Dudorfor,
bison author of Spanish and
portuguese.
NEW ZEALAND is the site for research on ecology by Theorede H. Eaton, professor of biology, systematics and ecology. He will be there for the academic year.
Mineral deposits in Uganda
and East Africa will concern Elliot Gillerman, professor of geology.
Southeast Asia will be covered this fall by Robert W. McColl, associate professor of geography and the East Asian area.
Causes of the El Salvador-
Honduras War will be researched by Robert E. Tomask, professor of history during the spring semester.
THEODORE A. Wilson,
will attend A. Wilson's
will go to several places in
the United States to write a
biography of Henry A. Wallace.
Alfred C. Habeberg, associate professor of English, will go to Boston to research the rise of America in the 1860s and 1870s.
The oldest of those receiving the degree was Hei. Hey professor of mathematics. He 67. He will spend the spring in college and in advanced study in his field.
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