Volume 126 Issue 27 kansan.com Tuesday, October 8, 2013 the student voice since 1904 GIVE ME THE MONEY THE UNIVERSITY DAILY KANSAN MONDAY, OCTOBER 7, 2013 PAGE 3 ROOMMATE ADVICE What do you wish you would have known before? MADDY MIKINSKI mmikinski@kansan.com "It's the lack of privacy. I'm on my second roommate and it's jarring how little space you have to yourself." NATHAN CYR sophomore from St. Louis “[I wish I would have known] maybe about the small kitchen.” KEON STOWERS junior from South Carolina "Basically, logistically, how many people are going to live there and what they're comfortable with as far as space...don't be too impulsive when moving in somewhere." ["I wished I would have known] how loud it was." AMANDA NEWLIN freshman from Peculiar, Mo. ["I wish I would have known] how my roommate was. I don't like living with her now." TARYN MILLER senior from Winfield KAYLA MEDERIAS junior from Overland Park "I happened to move in with a couple of friends so I knew the situation." 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Many of these lessons Gomez Montoyra learned on his own. people at if he social GOMEZ MONTOYA AS A ROLE MODEL Gomez Montoyota currently works as a retention specialist an McHenry SEE CHANGE PAGE 2 and career with the legislation, 12 billion research support of g- the more sources,the could get in said. nore you lnerable The University, in fact, is starting to pay attention to these unhealthy behaviors among male students. Each year, Velasco graduated in the spring of 2013, but during his time at the University he was involved in a number of organizations. He said his masculinity was challenged at times because of his sexual orientation. "If I needed it 10 years ago, chances are students need it now," Gomez Montoya said. GOMEZ MONTOYA retention specialist environment at the University where men can express issues they're having with school, work, family and any other areas of life. There are not a lot of role models and men are trying to figure it out on their own." MALE GUILDANEED Male students are in need of direction especially at the college level. According to the Chronicle of Higher Education, only 57.7 percent of male students at the University are graduating within six years, compared to the 64.2 percent of female students at the University that are graduating in TWEET from @sheliywebbby: @Speaker Boehner I was trying to think of something funny but also anti-gov shut down, but then I just got sad. So try to fix it yo. MALE GUILDANCE NEEDED an expert in identity and development as well as men and masculinity issues. He said these group behaviors among men are extremely social media has on politics is difficult to measure. He also said trending Twitter hashtags likely have the most influence. ting in le yelling yone can witter, eit "This may help put pressure on politicians to resolve the issue," Seo said. "At the same time, social media has amplified polarized views on issues, as people tend to follow online influencers, communities or media sources that they agree with." Shelby Webb, junior from Ottawa, Kan., said she was prompted to tweet to the Speaker of the House John Boehner by an email from Barack Obama's Organizing for Action campaign. "The research would suggest that the statistics on 'bad behavior' judicial offenses brought up at college campuses are mostly men," Davis said. "Why we don't pay attention to this is a great question." men by creating a masculinity symposium. "It was a sense of duty and obligation," Velasco said. "Now that we won, we have a duty to teach people what it means to be a man." The goal of the symposium was to create a space for men to gather and openly discuss problems they were facing as well as help men develop a view on what healthy masculinity looks like. negative and can sometimes develop into illegal activity, such as DUI citations or violence. has on a broader level. She has never been swayed to a different position based on social media communications and is skeptical that Congress members would be either. Clayton said it's harder to know if people who give her feedback are her constituents, and though she always asks, it might be harder for senators and congressmen to make the distinction. She said she thinks social media has a more indirect effect through popular hashtags because politicians always want to know how people feel about a particular issue. 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