4 • THE UNIVERSITY DAILY KANSAN
SEX
THURSDAY, DECEMBER 5, 2002
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Condoms necessary, offered in several varieties
By Brandy Furst
Lawrence freshman
How much can you really say about condoms? You know you should use them. Your mother probably sent you subtle hints that if you ever did decide to have sex you had better protect yourself. We all know what she meant by this. I remember when my mother said the word "condom" to me or the first time; I wanted to die. It was like being 13 and watching a movie with your mother — characters in the movie start making out and you start squirming in your chair. That feeling.
Well, there is a lot more to it than you may think. I've done some research, and I have found some interesting condoms out there. There are many different types of condoms. Ribbed, lubricated, spermicidal, flavored, disks, lambskin, latex, French ticklers and different shapes. I will try to provide a brief description of some different types.
First you have your standard condom. Probably the type most people carry in their wallets or purses. Though carrying
them in your wallet is a bad thing. It wears them down. These standard condoms are usually your basic Trojan, Lifestyles, or Durex. They are very practical functionally and financially. There is nothing wrong with these condoms at all. Sometimes they come with lubrication, spermicide or ribs.
Specialty condoms are usually a bit more expensive. They are usually flavored, are of higher quality or have a particular enhancement to boost pleasure. Flavored condoms are good for people who prefer to use a condom during oral sex. A couple of problems introduce themselves when working with these. They lose their flavor and dry out quickly.
Lambskin is another specialty condom. These are mainly for people who are allergic to latex and are usually expensive Lambskin condoms do not protect against sexually transmitted diseases because the condom's surface contains microscopic holes that allow disease organisms to pass through.
Another specialty condom is a French tickler or extension condom. French ticklers usually have special plastic or latex on
You know you should use them Your mother probably sent you subtle hints that if you ever did decide to have sex,you better protect yourself. I remember the first time my mother said the word "condom". I wanted to die.
the sides or tips. They help stimulate the vagina or anus. It can be difficult to control a French tickler if it has an extension on the edge of the condom. Extension condoms are similar to the French ticklers. They have an extra plastic or latex extension over the condom, making the penis seem longer or wider. These are usually easier to control than the French ticklers.
The last specialty condom is one that is shaped differently than a regular condom. Brands like Pleasure Plus and InSpiral, which has a head shaped like a seashell, fit in this category. These condoms can be
more pleasurable than your typical Trojan,but that enjoyment comes with a price-a pack of three usually costs about $7.
The majority of people I have talked to insist on safe sex. Not only for their protection, but for their partner's protection as well. Finding the right condom can be difficult. You want something thin, and your partner wants something ribbed. Experimenting with different types of condoms can be a great couples activity Explore your options and broaden your horizons.
A condom, if used correctly, can be a wonderful thing. You know now that they are used for so much more than just protection from STDs and pregnancy. Yes, I know that they can sometimes be a mood killer — like the awkward silence during the 15 seconds you spend putting it on. The wait is well worth it. Don't be afraid to discuss condoms with your significant other. Your partner will probably feel good to know that you take an interest in his or her protection and pleasure.
Treat yourself to provocative private pleasure
By Alan Emmons
Lawrence sophomore
Looking for a way to gratify yourself? Can't find that person who's willing to hop in the sack with you? Look no further than Rosy Palm and her five friends. Those days when your parents told you that you'd go blind or grow hair on your palms are long gone. Although masturbation may come across to some as a very boring sexual activity, a simple toy or exotic place can spice up anyone's masturbation session.
There are many options to make masturbation fun and exciting. Masturbating in a public place can give any person that extra adrenaline rush to create a fulfilling sexual experience. A late night at the top of the hill near Potter Lake or Memorial Stadium is sure to create an evening you will never forget. Perhaps having an audience adds to
Looking for a way to gratify yourself? Look no further than Rosy Palm and her five friends.
your sexual energy. Be sure the cops are not around, or you will be dealing with indecent exposure.
Lubes of different colors and textures can often be used to make an exhilarating session. Some of you may be gutsy enough to taste your lube or use it in another creative way. Whatever the case, there is no such thing as too much.
Adding toys can often generate an unforgettable experience. These toys can consist of anything you can find at Naughty but Nice or your local grocery store. For women, a zucchini may provide some interesting feelings, while the guys
may find that an apple pie fresh from the bakery gives an alternate to the real thing. The messier the better.
A lot of men may find this repulsive, but anal masturbation is a great way to explore your sexual feelings. Inserting a finger to discover what lurks inside will often set you up with a feeling of ecstasy. Just as the clitoris is the key for a woman clicking her mouse, the most erogenous zone of the male body is the prostate gland, located just below the skin in the anus. If it makes you feel more comfortable with your masculinity, refer to Road Trip where a certain young man goes in to donate sperm and is anally stimulated by a female to the point of ejaculation. Women and men also have the option of using anal beads for an erotic self-making love session, but be sure to pull them out carefully, or you may have a mess on your hands.
For those who like excitement in groups, you can always get together for an old-fashioned circle jerk. A circle jerk consists of more than two people, and can be people of both sexes. All you have to do is simply pop in a porn, unzip your pants and get busy with it. Just make sure you have plenty of towels around to clean up your mess near the end of your get-together.
And if groups intimidate you,try mutual masturbation. Sometimes all you need is the fondling from someone else to get you excited.
Don't be ashamed that you masturbate; everyone does it. You do not need to 'fess up to it, but generally, those who deny it do it more than anyone else. Just remember, masturbation can be just as fulfilling as intercourse when you spice up your sessions.