--- CALENDAR thursday, oct. 30 Time Warp Student Dance. Spencer Research Library. 6 p.m., all ages, FREE. Haunted Haskell Tours. Haskell Indian Nations University 8 p.m., 13+, $5. Zombie Dance Party. The Bottleneck, 9 p.m., 18+ $1-$5. friday, oct. 31 TV on the Radio/ Shinny Toy Guns/The Dirtbombs/Beautiful Bodies. Power and Light District, 6 p.m., 21+, FREE. Danzig/DimmuBorgir/ Moonspeil/Winds of Plague/Skeltonwich. Uptown Theater; 7 p.m., all ages.$27.50. saturday, nov. 1 Jim Ryun. Kansas Union, Oread Books, 9 a.m., all ages. FREE. Girl Talk/Death Set. The Granada, 8 p.m., all ages; $16, myspace.com/girtalk. Video Games Live. The Midland Theater, 8 p.m., all ages, $25-$45. sunday, nov. 2 Ivoryline/The Guardian/IntAviate/ Thee Armada. Main Street Cafe, 7 p.m., all ages, $10. monday, nov. 3 Sounds Under Radio/ Midnight. The Replay Lounge. 10.p.m., $1+. $2. tuesday, nov. 4 Election Watch Party. The Bourgeois Pig, 6 p.m., all ages, FREE. wednesday, nov. 5 Kinch/Lonne Fisher and the Funeral/Aubrey. The jackpot, 7 p.m., all ages, $5-$7. venues The Bourgeois Pig 6 E.9th Street. Lawrence, Ks. (785) 843-1001 Uptown Theater 3700 Broadway St. #210 Kansas City, Mo. (816) 753-8665 editor's note I left for my internship in New York last May with high hopes I boarded the airplane headed east never looking back. New York was going to be what I needed. I would discover what I wanted to do with my life. Maybe Sinatra would be right, maybe I was going to make it there. And, indeed, New York is an amazing place. I partied in Union Square, delighted in three Broadway shows, drank martinis in SoHo, fought the crowds in Times Square and worked out at a gym next door to the Apollo Theater in Harlem—experiences I'll remember forever. But, I should have known I'll always be a Kansas girl at heart. By July the city had zapped my energy and tested my patience. I was sick of the rat race—the perpetually angry taxi drivers, the $7 bottle of water, the shoving through crowds. When the subway doors would slide open a blast of hot, smelly air hit my face as I stepped in to take my commute to work. I'd sit watching the underground blur outside the window, praying for my own pair of ruby slippers to take me back to Kansas. I wanted to drive my Mustang. I wanted to eat a Sonic cheeseburger. I wanted to look at the night sky and know that stars still existed. It was then I realized as amazing as New York was, it wasn't my home. I completely related to Kid Rock when he sang."Lost in the Apple and I'm all alone, Cause New York's not my home." That's what's important when you move out into the real world—finding the place where you feel comfortable. If you're not meant to live somewhere, you'll know it. Nina's story on page 12 may inspire you to check out the Big Apple or another place after college. But, where ever you end up, make sure it feels like home. - Sasha Roe, associate editor jayplayers Editor Megan Hirt Associate editor Sasha Roe Photo editor Jon Goering Designers Drew Bergman, Peter Soto, Becky Sullivan Contact Carly Halvorson, Matt Hirschfeld Health Asher Fusco, Susan Melgren, Realle Roth Manual Heather Melanson,Ariel Tilson **Notice** Matt Bechtold, Nina Libby, Sean Rosner **Play** Brianne Pfannenstiel, Derek Zarda Contributors Mark Arehart. Clayton Ashley, Darron Carswell, Francesca Chambers, Matthew Crooks, Miller Davis, Chance Dibben, Chris Horn, Dani Hurst, Mia iverson, Amber Jackson, Danny Nordstrom, Meghan Nuckolls, Abby Olcese, Amanda Sorell, Elise Stawarz Creative consultant Carol Holstead Contact us jayplay08@gmail.com Jayplay Jayplay The University Daily Kansan 111 Stauffer-Flint Hall 1435 Jayhawk Blvd. Lawrence, KS 66045 (785) 864-4810 An American Apparel Treat From Hobbs Your choice of any American Apparel tee FREE with the purchase of a pair of jeans. Friday, Saturday and Sunday October 30,2008 3