THE UNIVERSITY DAILY KANSAN
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 18, 2008
SEX ON THE HILL
9D
CONFESSIONS (CONTINUED FROM 8D)
"No! It needs to be much more private than that." — Amanda Higginbotham. Olathe graduate student
"Absolutely! But it has to be secluded enough not to get caught." — Derrick Rowland, Olate the senior
WHAT IS THE WEIRDEST FANTASY YOU HAVE, OR HAVE BEEN ASKED TO PERFORM?
"A girl asked me to do it while driving the car." — Emanuel Holmes, Kansas City junior
"My ex-girlfriend asked me to have sex with her while I'm wearing my football pads." — Elliot Krause, Des Moines, Iowa sophomore
"I want to do it in a hot air balloon!" — Matt Gregory, Dallas senior
"To have a threesome with Edward Cullen and Harry Potter"
— Meg Ruggieri, Parker, Colo., sophomore
"So I'm sitting in the Topeka Capital building on the top floor jacking off and all of the sudden a security officer walks in and says, 'Someone is breaking the law,' I then take her to the governor's office and bend her over the desk. Just as I blow my load there is a cruise missile flying over and someone wheels in a birthday cake." — Sheldon Brown, Shawnee senior
"My ex-girlfriend asked me to spread peanut butter over her body — her boobs, specifically." — Connor Koch, Shawnee sophmore
"My ex-boyfriend asked me one time to dress up as Princess Leia in her gold bikini from 'Star Wars: Return of the Jedi.' — Jean Davis, Edmond, Okla., junior
"A threesome in Memorial Stadium, the night before a game against Texas." — Ben Trotter, Orlando, Fla., junior
"My fantasy is my girlfriend walking in wearing a horse outfit. I then proceed to mount her and ride dirty on her. Then we switch roles, but I'm a crocodile and I eat her
WHAT COUNTS AS CHEATING?
"Kissing or something with a different girl!" — Emanuel Holmes, Kansas City junior
up." — William Corleone, Overland Park senior
"He can be attracted to her, but if he looks at her in a lustful way or fantasizes about this other woman it is certainly cheating. Now, dreams are the exception because they are an unconscious activity." — Robert Rebori, Shawnee sophomore
"Lying, dishonesty" — Thomas Middleton, Lawrence senior
WOULD YOU EVER HAVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP?
Photo illustration by Rvan McGeenew/XANSAN
"No because it's hard to share someone you care about" — Ashley Ferguson, Overland Park senior
"Absolutely not! Part of it is religion. I'm Catholic. The other part is if the other person can do it, then you're obviously not with the right person." — Amanda Higginbotham, Olathe graduate student
not to mention less stress in the relationship" — Connor Koch, Shawne sophomore
"Every day, all the time!" — Derrick Rowland, Olafethe senior
WHEREWOULDN'T YOU HAVE SEX ON CAMPUS?
"Yes because each person can have more fun, be freer, relaxed.
"In the chapel!" — Matt Sinacola,
Dallas junior
Ashley Ferguson, Overland Park senior
"The library" — Amy Love,
Overland Park senior
"In Potter Lake, it's just really nasty. Maybe outside of it?" —
"Anywhere. Except I wouldn't have sex in that church."- Matt Gregory, Dallas senior
Partying with a plan can help find a hookup
BY LAUREN CUNNINGHAM lcunningham@kansan.com
Trying to find that perfect one-hour hookup might seem a daunting task for some, but for others it can showcase the skills and strategies necessary to meet someone who makes the night a little more interesting.
The wing man is a common tactic that many guys use at parties. However, it's not required to approach a girl.
Deciding
First things first — the clothes.
"Usually I just try to say something funny to a girl if I notice she's laughing a lot that night."
Also, the people someone shows up with play a big role in meeting others.
"I tend to go to low-key bars on nights that are less popular because I know the type of people that I like to hang out with, and I know that those people aren't at The Hawk on Thursday nights," Dankenbring said.
On the other hand, the perfect combination can often lead to success.
which outfit to wear, where to go, who to go with or even what kind of perfume or cologne to wear can leave the average student feeling a bit overwhelmed in the never-ending quest.
Dankenbring uses a similar method of going out with wing men. "Well typically, I hang out with more guys, so I tend to go out with my guy friends because
While Shores said that casual house parties were favorable to the common bar when looking for a fun-filled night, Dankenbring said inconspicuous bars served as a fun venue to meet potential hookups.
"When you're hanging out with the guys, a T-shirt and jeans is OK," he said. "But when you're going out to meet girls, you've got to at least wear a polo."
Ali Dankenbring, Lawrence senior, has found that while looking good is important, it's not necessary to wear especially revealing clothes.
"From what I've gathered, guys don't really care if you wear the really short dresses. It usually only takes me about 15 minutes to get ready, but that's all I need," she said.
Dankenbring added that she normally didn't change up her make-up or perfume choices.
David Shores, Lawrence junior believes in the value of looking nice to make a memorable impression.
Location is another important element in meeting someone.
DAVID SHORES
Lawrence junior
"When I get to a party, I'll glance around and get a good feel of the place. I try to make myself feel comfortable, yet stand out," Shores said. "I might use a wing man if I notice that a girl is hanging around with her friends at a party, but usually I just try to say something funny to a girl if I notice she's laughing a lot that night."
they introduce me to their friends, which is a really easy way to meet people," she said. Dankenbring added that it also helped that she is from Louisiana
because she runs into her friends at bars, who introduce her to their friends.
She also said that sometimes,
what she ordered to drink was key in encountering a hookup.
"Sometimes I will order a girly drink, but I drink beer mostly. Guys seem to like that more," she said.
Perhaps mindset is the determining factor when heading out to hook up with someone.
"I never go out looking to hook up because it's too much pressure," Shores said. "I've learned that it never turns out well when I do that, but it is important to always be prepared. The worst situation is when you're not expecting anything and you meet someone, but you're not prepared."
Edited by Kelsey Hayes
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