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University Daily Kansan Wednesday, Sept. 29, 1965
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Marriage Real Fulfillment Says Doctor
Marital acts are not a part of the engagement, a Lawrence physician told members of the Inter-Varsity Christian Fellowship club Tuesday.
FROM THE MEDICAL viewpoint. Ketterman explained that physical display of affection is not satisfaction, but stimulation. The only final satisfaction comes from the sex act itself.
Engaged persons need guidance in courtship practices, Dr. Herb Ketterman, a former member of IVCF, spoke on love before marriage to the group.
THE BIBLE neither glorifies nor debases the love relationship. Paul's admonitions to celibacy are all right for some, but married life is the norm, he said.
TODAY
Though the engagement contract is binding and restricts courtship, engaged persons have no rules set up for the nature of their relationship.
Catholic Mass, 5 p.m. at St. Lawrence Chapel, 1910 Stratford Rd. Western Civilization discussion, 4 p.m.; social evening with chapels, 7:30 p.m.
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**Picture-Lending Library.** All Day Check Out, South Lounge, College of Arts and Sciences, Gordon Robin, Director of Scott Polar Research Laboratory, Cambridge University, "Continental Index."
French Club, 4:30 p.m. La première reunion du Cercle Français aura lieu mercredi le 29 septembre a quatre heures et demi dans la Salle Jayhawk de l'Union. Tous ceux qui s'interessent au francais sont bien cordialement invités.
Carillon Record, 7 p.m.
Classical Film, 7 p.m. "The Iron Horse"
DVD
Vox Populi General Assembly Meeting,
7 Organizational meeting.
TOMORROW
TOWARDHOW
Catholic Men's Chapel 5 p.m. and 5 p.m. Lawn
Lawrence Chapel 1910 Stratford Road.
Fundamentals of Catholic Faith, 10:40
a.m., 4 and 7 p.m.; Western Civilization
discussion, 7 p.m.; Christian Family
Movement, 8:15 p.m.
Fee Payment, All Day.
KU Students for a Democratic Society,
7:30 p.m. Kansas Union—room will be poed.
P1 Mountaineering Club, 7.30 p.m. 324
N.B.A.E.U.
Physical unattractiveness is no barrier to these desires and stimulations, he said. "We can see anything attractive in any member of the opposite sex."
DR. KETTERMAN concentrated on his ideals for a Christian marriage. Christian marriage is centered in Christ and entered into for the glory of God, he said. Conflict and tension, instead of pulling the partners apart, tend to fuse the marriage.
The partners in a Christian marriage share the trouble and sickness of one another. In this they become one person. They also share joy." The danger is great, the privileges colossal."
Dr. Ketterman also mentioned the intimacy of marriage. People enter into marriage and they should not deceive their partners. The answer is to accept the spouse as is. There are areas where some change is possible, but reform is impossible, he said.
THIS CAUSES CONFLICT. The strength of the marriage comes from conforming and accepting what is. Women must try to help their husbands by giving them confidence, Dr. Ketterman said.
The oneness that is in Christian marriage is the basis for intimacy, he said. The intimacy allows the partners to know each other spiritually.
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