2B THE UNIVERSITY DAILY KANSAN SEX ON THE HILL TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 14, 2004 Index From thongs to boxers underwear preference varies to suit the mood 6 Bitch 'n' Moan: A very special edition --- 7 Reach out and touch yourself one student's experience as a phone sex operator Heard on the Hill: Students say Bush is sexier than Kerry 9 Jessica St. Clair: an advocate for sexual assault prevention. 10 Waxing: Not just for women anymore For even more Sex on the Hill , head to www.kansan.com Sex is everywhere on this campus. It's oozing through the dank stacks in Watson library from steamy encounters during study breaks. It's obvious in the bedhead and reduced eye-contact in FROM THE EDITOR residence-hall elevators on Sunday mornings. You, the student body, are into it. You're either abstaining from it, complaining about it or preparing for it. Each page in this section might not turn you on, but think of the topics that provoke scoffs, sqals, or furrowed brows as learning experiences. Live vicariously through these stories. Check out page seven to find out what it's like to be a phone-sex operator. Page four provides insight on why some students plan to wait until marriage to sleep together. And page ten explains why men want hot wax poured on them. Read up, get satisfied, and look online for more if you get a second wind. Stauffer is a Holland, Mich., senior in journalism. She is the features editor. Toys every student should own Shop around and buy yourself a present you know will be used By PATRICK ROSS correspondent@kansan.com kansan correspondent Say the words "sex toys," and traditional vibrators and dildos probably come to mind. These days, the traditional definition of "sex toys" has diversified to include anal beads, lubricants, handcuffs and a host of many others. others. If you are a little nervous to walk into a "toy store" to browse, you're not alone. Robert Osburn, co-owner of Naughty But Prey, 1741 Massachusetts. St., said he could recognize first timers and that he saw them all the time. the time. "I always greet the customer at the door and, from their reaction, I can tell within five seconds how I need to talk to them so they will be at ease," Osburn said. said. But if you're worried that everyone will find out you've been in, don't fret. been in, don't leave. "We're like Las Vegas; whatever is said in my store stays in my store," Osburn said. He lets regulars acknowledge him first when he encounters them outside the store. Jennifer Garrett, general manager of Priscilla's, 1206 W. 23rd St., said that no discussion of sex toys would be complete without mentioning the Rabbit vibrator memorizing the Rules "Ever since that Sex in the City episode [where Charlotte became addicted to hers], they have been flying off the shelves." She said there were many types and sizes to choose from. For you adventurous souls, models similar to the Rabbit are priced anywhere from $19.95 to $94. Osburn said many college-aged girls bought quieter, smaller vibrators that wouldn't disturb roommates or suitmates. Men, he said, usually opted for the videos. "I offer movie exchange for a small fee, so once a guy or girl is done with a particular movie, he or she can exchange it for a different one." Garrett said that lubrication sales had increased from 3 to 7 percent of total sales since students returned. "We recommend Kama Sutra lube because it's water-based, flavored, self-warming and isn't sticky," she said. sticky, Kama Sutra lube comes in nine flavors and costs about $12. Osburn agreed that water-based lubes were the best-selling. In particular, he said, Wett seems to be the most popular. Wett runs from .93 for a sample size to $15.95 for the largest size. Garrett said she saw a lot more college-aged women than If you are a little nervous to walk into a "toy store" to browse,you're not alone. men visiting the store,but that men seemed to turn up when some kind of themed party came up. up. And although traditional sex toys are usually the purview of the women, Garrett said there were reasons for men to like sex toys as well. toys as well. Because college students don't always have a lot of money for "luxury items," here are five relatively inexpensive — yet enjoyable — "sex toys" every student should have: - **ice** - Ice is practically free, which is a plus. It is also numbing (read: prolonging, ladies) and can be fun for the squirms and squeals it elicits. But be wary; ice is usually tolerable only in small doses. - Kama Sutra Lubricant - It's not cheap, but it's worth it. This stuff is so versatile that you won't mind spending $12 for a bottle. Use it for a sensual massage or for a little extra slipperiness. And don't forget: it's flavored, too. Handkerchiefs - These are usually less than $10 and are sold in packages at stores like Wal-Mart or SuperTarget. These can do double duty as blindfoldes or restraints for kinky fun in the bedroom. Cool Whip Free - Available at grocery stores for less than $5, this traditional treat topping can be the perfect topping for your partner. It's fat-free, not as sticky as whipped cream and has only 15 calories per serving. Most foods can be tricky, but with this treat, you won't mind cleaning your plate. Mini Mite Massager - This little guy sells for less than $10. It is four inches long and comes with four interchangeable heads with different textures for body, scalp, muscles and joints. Not only could this make for a relaxing or sensual massage, but it's waterproof and quiet. The Mini Mite can be used to spice up any sexual encounter, solo or otherwise. TUESDAY, Edited by Paige Worthy