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The science behind what cat and keeps our attention
By Peyton Baldwin pbaldwin@kansan.com
Topeka junior; to his girlfriend, Kelsey Cline, Lawrence junior. Cline admits she was also attracted to Henry's physical appearance, but she says his humor is what really got her attention.
Good communication and showing interest are the next two attributes that add to an attraction. Jesse Johnson says. Melva Johnson, relationship coach and counselor and Jesse's wife, says that if you show an interest in a person, that will elicit a positive response from both of you.
Think about the last time you spoke with a stranger. Did he or she ask you questions about yourself? And not those typical, "What do you do?","Where are you from?" kind of questions, but the "What are your dreams"?,"What do you want out of life?" kind of questions. Show some genuine interest, and you'll likely receive a positive response. That doesn't mean you'll be together forever, but it's a step in the right direction. Once you are able to communicate and open up to the person, a more committed relationship can evolve, Melva says.
Attraction actually takes place on two different levels—a conscious level and an unconscious level. According to Jesse and Mela Johnson, 90 percent of attraction is unconscious.The conscious part is how you react to someone's overall appearance and demeanor.The unconscious part encompasses your past relationships and your life history."For example,
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