By Elizabeth Blasco and Chris Tackett
[Advice so wise, you'll need a few months to let it soak in.]
Lately, when my girl and I have sex, she tells me to "degrade the if" "k out of myself." I don't know what she wants me to do. I'm scared to ask her, because she's so serious about it. Help!
David, sophomore
Elizabeth: If you allow your girlfriend to take control, she will assume that you like it. If you don't want to talk to her about the fact that this bothers you, she will probably continue.
**Chris:** The way people behave intimately usually has a strong correlation to how the rest of the relationship is. I bet she's very controlling. If you're not cool with being controlled, let her know. But if you are, you should tell her, "I'm your bitch, and I suck at life!" because you are and you do.
When my girlfriend gets aroused she starts biting me! It hurts and I don't really know how to tell her to stop. Any suggestions?
Bill, junior
Elizabeth: Just show her the bite marks, and she'll get the picture. Tell her that although you like to get her hot, you don't enjoy the biting. If she is unable to stop, give her a pillow or something.
**Chris:** She isn't a baby that's teething, so I don't think the pillow will work. She's biting you to express how turned on she is. But Elizabeth is right, if she sees how hard she's really biting you, she'll probably tone it down a bit. Or call you a pussy.
Do you have any advice for how to get some summer lovin'?
- Dude, sophomore
Elizabeth: If you want to hook up over the summer, plan on being really social. Try to go out a lot, and don't just frequent the same places either. That way you'll increase the odds of meeting potential "hook ups."
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Chris: Dude, the most important thing for guys (myself included) to remember is that if you see someone you like, you have to go for it. If you ask someone out and they say no, don't be discouraged. It can always be worse. Every girl you like won't like you, but as long as a few do, life can be pretty sweet.
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