Watch age in fashion 9230 NEW YORK (UPI) - Dress your age. The advice comes from some of the women on the international best-dressed list. Anked to list the "cardinal sins" women commit in fashion, the women spoke of dressing to the dictates of the young and of following the fashion of the moment too precisely. Or, as Mrs. Harilaos Theodoracopulos, of New York and Athens, puts it, "dressing too young for their age. With today's fashions, which are so becoming to teen-agers, the over-30 woman has to be more selective." Mrs. Theodoracopulos was the model Besty Pickering until her marriage to the Greek shipping magnate. "Trying to look much younger than they are" was the cardinal sin Mrs. Gianni Uzielli listed. The blonde young beauty is the former Anne Ford, who one year was paired with her sister, Charlotte Ford Niarchos, on the best-dressed list. On the latest ratings, Mrs. Uzielli made it on her own. The two were among five on the current list cornered for a talk one early afternoon when all showed up to have their hair done by Marc Sinclaire, a Park Avenue hair stylist with a jet set following. All five graciously filled out questionnaires on assorted fashion topics. "Being too fashiony," was the sin Mrs. Liberman Louise Savitt listed. "Following the fashion of the moment too precisely," said Mrs. Ahmet Etergun, whose husband owns a record company. "The women don't look in a three-way mirror before they go out the door," said Mrs. William Chessy Rayner. Dwight Boring* says... "If You'd Like to Know How to Get the Most for your life insurance dollars, contact me and I'll tell you about College Life's BENEFACTOR, a famous policy designed expressly for college men and sold exclusively to college men because college men are preferred life insurance risks. No obligation. 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Chris Gelpi, Prairie Village senior majoring in psychology, to Jack Casper, Prairie Village senior majoring in history. Lynn Moore, Tulsa junior majoring in education, Pi Beta Phi, to Steven Schaefer, Wellington, at Northwestern University Medical School. Judy Underwood, Lawrence junior majoring in education, Pi Beta Phi, to Gene Baller, Highland junior majoring in personnel administration. Listening Is Good for You GODFREY, Ill. (UPI)—Active listening is one way to stay "psychologically healthy," according to Dr. Alvin A. Goldberg, a communications expert. Goldberg, a speech professor at the University of Denver, told a faculty conference of Monticello College that by listening, "You and the other guy can help each other." "As the listener, you don't have to agree with him, judge him or even remember what he has said if you will just let him know at the time you understand how he feels about what he is saying," Goldberg said. Goldberg urged teachers to give adequate listening time to their students. He said a teacher, by listening, will be regarded as "a warm, accepting person who lets his students feel they are trusted, responsible individuals who are capable of guiding their own behavior." Looking ahead By SUSAN BRIMACOMBE MARILYN PETTERSON Feature Editors Interested in the latest fashion trends for men and women? Looking for weekend entertainment, campus social events, or curious to know who captured the pin or ring? Each Wednesday you can depend on colorful feature stories, fashion features accompanied by informal modeling, (this includes you men, too), and picture pages. For those of you who must survive on your own cooking, a weekly recipe will be suggested to break the monotony of hamburgers and beer. Friday's we will tell you where to go, what to do and who to do it with, in a entertainment column. Listings of movies, bands, parties and other happenings will lessen your burden of decision-making. Also, to appear on Friday is a brief feature on a dean, administrator or other campus personality. This will give everyone a chance to get better acquainted with those faculty members you already know or get to know those you might need to know. we're excited to entertain and inform you and hope to capture your leadership. We welcome any and all suggestions and are looking forward to a successful semester. Decor to remain WASHINGTON (UPI) — First Lady Pat Nixon thinks the White House state rooms are "absolutely beautiful" and plans to keep them just as they are, a spokesman said today. Mrs. Gerry Van der Heuvel, Mrs. Nixon's press secretary, relayed this word to counter reports a New York interior decorator, Sarah Doyle, had been contacted on the possibility of making some changes in the first-floor formal rooms. "I'm doing nothing to the downstairs," the First Lady was quoted as saying. "I said during the campaign and I still say the White House is absolutely beautiful and I plan no changes whatsoever." Mrs. Nixon is, however, putting some personal touches on the second-floor family quarters. SENIORS SMILE It's now or never Senior Picture Deadline February 28 Hixon's 721 Mass. VI 3-0330 9:30 -4:30 Mon.- Fri. Experimental Theatre Murphy Hall FEB.12,13&15-22 8:20 PM