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KANSAS IN HEAT // ORAL SEX
Mike Anderson, Dellwood, Minn. graduate student, is the host of Kansas in Heat, a talk show about sex and relationships that airs Wednesdays at 11 p.m. on KJHK, 90 71m and at kjhk.org. Michelle MacBain is his co-host.
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Since 2007, Kansas In Heat has been answering all questions related to sex and relationships. During that time I'd say that around 40 to 50 percent of our questions have surrounded one thing oral sex. Everyone is interested in knowing what their partner thinks about oral sex, how to convince their lover to give them oral sex, and, of course, how to get better at oral sex. Since this is the Sex on the Hill edition, we here at Kansas In Heat thought we'd give you the cliff notes on anything ever written about how to give oral sex from a guy's and girl's perspective.
Mike Anderson: From a guy's perspective, oral sex can be the ultimate in sexual arousal. This is an opportunity for the guy to just lay back and receive pleasure. And believe it or not, there are ways to make this act even more pleasurable.
Second, be sure to spend ample time using your tongue to caress the corona (the little ridge around the base of the head) and especially the frenulum, the part of the corona on the underside of the head. For the majority of guys the frenulum is the most sensitive part of the penis and the part that causes us to orgasm.
The first tip I'd give for giving oral sex to amaleis to show enthusiasm. Nothing turns guys on more than someone who is really into the sexual act
Third, move your head up and down so that your lips caress as much of the shaft as you can. Even though the shaft is less sensitive than the other parts discussed earlier, it is still very pleasurable to feel your mouth around as much of the penis as possible.
Fourth, and maybe most importantly, while providing oral caresses, use one hand or both to stroke, cup his scrotum, or just provide a body massage. Warm up your hands and stroke the shaft while you move up and down with your mouth, lips, and tongue. Alternating sucking with licking of the head and shaft will always feel great. Lastly, the best thing you can do is get feedback. Check in with him to make sure it isn't too intense or light.
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Michelle MacBain: Listen up, guys. There is more to oral sex than orally and manually attacking that clitoris with lightning speed and force we have vibrators for that! Oral sex is a uniquely pleasurable experience because of the warm, wet, soft sensation of the mouth on the genitals.
First, take your time. Kiss, lick, suck, and caress the body. Since the skin is one of the most powerful organs for sexual satisfaction, find those hot spots all over her body and work them! This will allow her to relax, release, warm and open up! As you work your way to the vagina, don't forget about the labia majora, the outer, larger labia just inside the inner thigh. Warm this area with your mouth and gently pull back each side to uncover the labia minora, the inner, thin skin protecting the clitoris and vaginal opening.
As the clitoris begins to swell, use your mouth to lightly suck and encourage blood flow to the area. Just like an uncircumcised penis, the clitoris is protected by a layer of skin. The head of the clitoris beneath this layer is extremely sensitive. Expose this area by gently pulling back the skin and uncovering the "head." With a strong, but not forceful, tongue, lick the clitoris from bottom to top with long strokes. Alternate this with gentle sucking. At this point, you might want to use one hand to maintain the exposure of the clitoris and insert one or two fingers of the other hand into the vagina to stimulate the g-spot.
Don't forget, my friends, that all of these techniques will be completely useless if you don't "tune in" to your partner's physical and verbal cues of satisfaction. Use those responses to guide you in what is or isn't working!
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