THURS NOV18TH
LIVE DUEING PIANOS
Barrel House, 8 p.m.-2
a.m., $2-$3, 21+
THE DELTA SAINTS
Granada, 9 p.m., $5-$
CALENDAR
NATURE VS/MIDNIGHT
SUCCESS/NEW
INHABITANTS
Jazzhaus, p.9-m-2.
a.m., $3, 21+
NEON DANCE PARTY
Jackpot Music Hall,
$1-$5, 18+
TRIVIA CLASH
Record Bar, 6:45 p.m.
$5, 21+
LIVE DUELING PIANOS
Barrel House, 8 p.m.-2
a.m. $-2,$3, 21+
FRI NOV 19TH
SHEARWATER/DAMIEN JURADO/ANNI ROSSI Jackpot Music Hall, 9 p.m., $10-$12, 18+
WOLF PARADE/OGRE
YOU ACHIEVE
Granada, 9 p.m., $15-
$17, 18+
HJERTESTOP
(RENMARK)
(DENMARK)/
MOUTHBREATHERS /
THE FREDS
Replay Lounge, 10
p.m.-2 a.m., $3, 21+
DJ PROOF 100% VINYL FINAL FATIO SHOW Replay Lounge, 10 p.m. - 2 a.m., $2-$3, 21+
FREEKY FRIDAYS AT DUFFY'S WITH DJ BIZ Duffy's, 8 p.m.-2 a.m. free, 21+
SAT | NOV 20TH
FREE PLAY AT THE REPLAY
Replay Lounge, 3 p.m.-6 p.m., free, all ages
Jazzhaus, 8 p.m.-2 a.m., $3, 21+
SUNU / DUMPTRUCK
BUTTERLIPS
CITY YOUTH THEATER:
EAT IT'S NOT ABOUT
FOOD!
Lawrence Arts
Center, 7:30 p.m.
$5-$8, 10+
SWEET BAND O'MINE Bottleneck, 10 p.m.
KTP/THE CHASE DOWN
Replay Lounge, 10 p.m.
DOWN
GOLD LABEL SOUL,
EIGHTH STREET TAP
BOOM
10 p.m.-2 a.m., $3
21+
Granada, 9 p.m., $15,
18+
ROOM
SUN | NOV21ST
SAM ADAMS
Bottleneck, 7:30 p.m.,
free-$5
Granada, 8 p.m., $19-
$27.05
OS MUTANTES / ARIEL
PINK'S HAUNTED
ORACLE
GRAFFITI
SMACKDOWN!
DAVID DONDERO /
THE MOANERS (EARLY
SUOMA)
SHOW
Jackpot Music Hall, 8 p.m., $8, all ages
THE BOTTLENECK 737 NEW HAMPSHIRE ST
MON NOV 22ND
THE JAZZHAUS
THE JAZZHAUS
926 12 MASSACHUSETTS
ST.
THE REPLAY LOUNGE
946 MASSACHUSETTS ST.
THE EIGHTH ST. TAPROOM 801 NEW HAMPSHIRE ST.
Granada, 8 p.m., $14-
$16, all ages
BASSIC MUSIC
MONDAYS
Bottleneck, 9 p.m.
18+
BONOBO
ORIGINAL MUSIC
LAWRENCE ARTS CENTER 940 NEW HAMPSHIRE ST.
KARAOKE
Jazzhaus, 10 p.m.
$1, 21+
VENUES
THE GRANADA
1020 MASSACHUSETTS
ST
THE POOL ROOM
925 IOWA ST
CONROY'S PUB
3115 W. 6TH ST., STE. D
WILDE'S CHATEAU 24
2412 IOWA ST.
DUFFY'S
2222 W. 6TH ST.
THE BOTTLENECK
737 NEW HAMPSHIRE ST
TUESDAY NITE SWING
Kansas Union, 8
p.m.-11 p.m., free, all
ages
NAMELESS
ENTERTAINMENT
Granada, 9 p.m.
12:30 a.m., $3, 18+
MY FATHER'S GUN Granada, 9 p.m., $3, all ages
TUESDAY NIGHT
KARAOKE
Wayne and Larry's Sports Bar & Grill, 9 p.m.-1.30 a.m., 21+
WED | NOV24TH
ASHLEV RAV
CONROY'S TRIVIA
Conroy's Pub, 7:30
p.m.-10 p.m., $5, 21
PRIDE NIGHT
ASHLEY RAY
Granada, 8 p.m., $15,
all ages
$1 DRINK DANCE
PARTY
Fatso's, 10 p.m., 21+
BILLY SPEERS AND THE BEER BELLIES
Wide's Chateau 24, 9
p.m.-2 a.m., $5, 18+
Johnny's Tavern, 6 p.m., free, 21+
EDITORS NOTE
It's a typical Friday night. Boy goes out to bar. Boy meets a pretty girl. Girl flirts with Boy and accepts the drink Boy buys for her. Boy asks Girl to go home with him at the end of the night. And one thing leads to another, or so the story usually goes.
A study conducted by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention found that 80 percent of college students have had sex. But with our preference to recount the evening in slang words, like "hooking up" with someone or "shacking" somewhere, do we really know what happened?
With the reliable run-around-the-bases analogy long retired, our vague descriptions of encounters leave the truth in the hands of the people involved. Even if one thing didn't actually lead to another, more than likely people assume that it did.
Our definitions of relationships and sex have become extremely blurred. Casual sex, hooking up and "friends with benefits" seem more prevalent than actual relationships. Is it a bad thing? Maybe. Maybe not. It depends on what you're looking for. Do you want
consistent sex but not something serious?
Or random sex without names? Maybe you optimistically hope for a relationship — or choose to abstain from sex altogether.
Take your pick.
And though the options may seem liberating, it can cause problems. One person can want a serious relationship while the other wants to keep it casual. This collision is why, above all, sex complicates things. You can have it too soon, too late, too often or too little. Sex can mean nothing or it can mean everything. And that's where this very special Jayplay issue comes in.
KELCI SHIPLEY EDITOR
We're here to talk about one-night stands, orgasms, love and attraction, fetishes and potentially complicated relationships. A lot of thought, research and discussion went into the issue, and we hope you find our advice useful for your own experiences. Because even though sex can be awkward and weird at times, it can also be incredibly exciting and fun.
EDITOR | KELCI SHIPLEY
ASSOCIATE EDITOR | ANNA ARCHIBALD
DESIGNERS | ALEXANDRA AVILA, MORGAN
STEPHENS
CONTACT | SARAH GREGORY, BECCA HARSCH,
ELLEN SHEFTEL
MANUAL | JON HERMES, BRENNA LONG
AMANDA KISTNER
**NOTICE** | MOLLY MARTIN, JOSH HAFNER,
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ADMINISTRATION
Regents assess University's proposals
BY ANGELIQUE
MCNAUGHTON
amcnaughton@kansan.com
The Kansas Board of Regents met Thursday in Topeka with higher education officials from state universities.
Much of the meeting was devoted to discussing issues pertaining to the University of Kansas and Chancellor Bernadette Gray-Little addressed Regents on four separate occasions.
The following is a list of some of the issues and proposals that Regents reviewed and their effects on students and the University.
Approved:
Approved:
T he
University's
request for
a Master of Arts and doctorate program in Women, Gender and Sexuality Studies was approved. Refer to Stephen Montemayor's article for more information regarding the program.
"If you can't track where a dollar comes from and where it goes, then you don't have a good system."
Diana Robertson, director of student housing, said she based her proposals off estimated increases for the following year.
This year's increase proposals are lower than they were last year because of the deactivation of student phone lines in student rooms from the summer. That saved the University about $500,000.
two-person room raising the rate
from $3,642 to $3,700.
Regents reviewed the Department of Student Housing's proposal for a 1.6 percent increase in housing fees The increase in fees is not uncommon and occurs annually to offset the increases in the cost of living.
GARY SHERRER chairman, Board of Regents
The University's increases were
A 1.6 percent increase translates to about $58 more for a traditional
Reviewed:
the lowest proposed from the state universities
Regents received the University's report on the Jayhawk Generations Scholarship Program and
approved the request to make the pilot program permanent. For more information regarding the tuition and fee waiver program refer to Stephen Gray's article.
Approved:
Gray-Little and Provost Jeffrey Vitter updated Regents on the external audit recently ordered for the School of Business. The accounting firm BKD LLC performed the audit and stated in its report that of the $30 million raised since 2004 from course fees, 99.8 percent of the funds were spent appropriately.
Updated:
Although Regents acknowledged that many of the financial issues occurred before Gray-Little and Vitter, Regent Chairman Gary Sherrer and Regent Tim Emert were dissatisfied with, of all schools, a business school's mishandling of student funds.
"If you can't track where a dollar comes from and where it goes, then you don't have a good system," Sherrer said.
Vitter and Gray-Little said they now know funds weren't accounted for and that the student advisory board should not have been dissolved back in 2006. Both Gray-Little and Vitter said they are looking to move forward.
The search is currently underway for a new dean for the school and the fourth candidate to visit campus was here this week.
Sherrer said that kind of miscommunication sends a bad message to students.
This year, the University's website for energy-related issues was updated to highlight sustainable efforts in education, research, operations and campus life.
The University has more than 230 sustainability related-courses and various avenues are taken on campus to increase the University's efforts.
New scholarship program approved
Reported:
Along with other state universities, Gray-Little presented to Regents the University's annual sustainability report.
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Gray-Little said she has been working with Jeff Severin, director for the Center for Sustainability, and student leaders to further develop strategies to reduce waste on campus and within the community.
In January, the University will join Kansas State University in a sustainability competition that will last until June.
Edited by Alex Tretbar
Students with family ties to KU can apply for tuition discounts now that the program is in place
might to help inform students
Department adds doctoral program
READ MORE ON 3A
The University now offers a Ph.D. in women, gender and sexuality studies.
The website cost $3,500 to redesign and took 10 weeks. Michael Wade Smith commissioned the task force that put the website together. Senate hopes to allow students to more easily see what it is doing around campus.
INSIDE
Discus legacy is all in the family
Brian Bishop, senior discus thrower, is one of a long line of KU track and field athletes.
Also, a preview of the game — Jayhawks take on the Oklahoma State Cowboys.
INDEX
Classifieds...2B
Crossword...4A
Cryptoquips...4A
Opinion...5A
Sports...1B
Sudoku...4A
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