Monday, April 24, 1989 / University Daily Kansan
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Two casemate windows and four double-hung windows valued together at $1,200 were taken Friday in the Bronx on a dump truck down Drive, Lawrence police reported.
Eight cassette tape, gold chains and cash valued together at $504 were taken Friday from a student's car in the 1400 block of Lawrence Avenue, Lawrence police reported.
A television valued at $520 was taken Thursday from a home in the 1100 block of East 25th Street.
An unidentified person caused $300 in damage when he scratched a student's car Friday in the 1300 block of Street, Lawrence police reported.
Men's clothes valued together at $150 were taken Saturday from a dryer in a coin-operated laundry in Lawrence Street, Lawrence police reported.
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A man began masturbating in front of a KU student Friday in the 1600 block of Edgehill Road, Lawrence police reported.
■ A white 1983 Toyota station wagon valued at $3,000 was taken Friday in the 1400 block of New York Street, Lawrence police reported.
A stereo valued at $1,000 was taken Saturday from a student's car in the 1600 block of West 23rd Street, Lawrence police reported.
A man exposed himself to two KU students as they were walking home Friday in the 1500 block of Sigma Na Drive, Lawrence police reported.
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An estimated 28 million Americans live or have lived in alcoholic homes. It is estimated that 9 out of 10 children are raised in emotionally repressed and dysfunctional homes. Children from these homes are often unaware of how their particular family system has affected their lives. As adults they often feel empty, alone, isolated, and depressed.
Co-dependency is a set of maladaptive, compulsive behaviors learned in order to survive in a family which is experiencing great emotional pain and stress. Some of these co-dependency or disorderly disorders are: perfectionism, workaholism, procrastination, compulsive overeating, compulsive gambling, compulsive buying, compulsive lying, compulsive talking, dependent relationships, and alcoholism or drug addiction. Other disorders can be dependency on acquiring status, prestige, material possessions, power or control to the extent that one's behavior causes problems in social interactions with family members, co-workers, friends, authority figures, etc.
Do you have any (many) of these co-dependency symptoms?
2. Difficulty in following a project through
4. Judging self without mercy.
3. Difficulty in knowing how to have fun.
2. Difficulty in following a project through
3. Difficulty in knowing how to have fun
5. Difficulty in developing or sustaining meaningful relationships.
6. Over-reacting to change.
9. Confusion and a sense of inadequacy, guilt, hurt and shame.
10. Being either super-responsible or super-irresponsible.
7. Constantly seeking approval and affirmation, yet having no sense of self-identity.
8. Feelings of being different from others.
12. Denying feelings of fear, insecurity,
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11. Lack of self-confidence in making decisions, no sense of power in making choices.
13. Inability to see alternatives to situations, thus responding very impulsively.
14. Isolation and fear of people, especially authority figures.
15. Fear of anger and criticism.
16. Being addicted to excitement.
17 Dependency upon others and fear of abandonment.
18. Confusion between love and pity.
19. Tend to choose relationships with others who have dependent disorders.
21. Lies, when it would be just as easy to tell the truth.
20. Rigidity and need to control.
If you strongly identify with or are actually experiencing several of these symptoms, you may want to seek professional assistance in evaluating the extent of your problem.
22. Having low self-esteem.
What to do if you're co-dependent?
1. Realize that you are not alone. Thousands of people like you have had the same problem, have felt the same fears, and have dreamed the same dreams you have for a happy family life.
2. Tell someone about it. An interested teacher, special friend, favorite aunt or uncle. Talk openly and don't hold back. It may seem easier and safer to keep things a secret, but over the long term what can really hurt you is keeping your pain and your problems all locked up inside you. Many other people understand and they can help.
3. Realize that it's not your fault. Your parents may love you, but your parents have a problem. Call one of the organizations listed below and do it now. Dysfunctions such as alcoholism or drug addiction may be your family's problem today, but it doesn't have to stay that way.
Resources
Alcoholics Anonymous, 841-1992 & 841-0110
Douglas County Citizen's Committee on Alcoholism (DCCCA),
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Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACOA) 841-4138
Counseling Center 116 Bally Hall B48-3931
Watkins Health Education Department B48-9570
Alanon, Aiateen, Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACOA) 841-1992
Psychological Clinic, 315 Fraser Hall B48-3931
Mental Health Clinic, Watkins Health Center B48-9580
Bert Nash Community Mental Health Center, 336 Missouri, Suite 202, 843-9192
Co-dependency, 841-5195
Heartquarters, 1419 Massachusetts, 841-2345
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