SOME TIME AGO I MADE OUT WITH A SAME-SEX FRIEND OF MINE. WE WERE PRETTY WASTED. I KNOW WE ARE BOTH HETEROSEXUAL, BUT BOTH OF US ENJOYED IT. DO YOU THINK IT MAKES US BISEXUAL? GUZMAN, SOPHOMORE
Jessica: Think of all the girls you know that make out with other girls while drunk. Do you think they're bisexual? More than likely, they're either experimenting or doing it for the attention of rowdy, drunken males. Either way, I'm guessing most of them aren't bisexual. If you enjoyed it, however, it's a possibility. Talk to him about it and see how he feels. I don't think a single act with someone of the same sex is cause for a label of sexual orientation, but think about what you're attracted to the majority of the time . . women? Men? Just ask yourself these questions, and I'm sure it will become clearer to you.
**Brian:** If it walks like a duck and sounds like a duck, it's probably a duck. You're bisexual.
Being at college is a great time to try new things and express yourself. Test it out with your friend or another guy to decide how much you really like men. If it's just a phase, it'll just have been a "college thing." If you really like it, you'll be able warn all your future girlfriends. Being shy about it can make your life a living hell later on. Imagine the backlash if you're married for 15 years and never fully expressed your bisexuality. Imagine your wife coming home to find you in bed with your 24-year-old male secretary. Remember: hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
IS IT TRUE THAT YOU CAN'T GET PREGNANT IN A SWIMMING POOL? -CLAIRE FRESHMAN
Jessica: That depends on a number of factors. If you're having unprotected sex in any kind of water (ocean, bathtub, pool, Jacuzzi), you can definitely get pregnant. However, if there is merely semen in the water in which you're swimming, then you most likely will not get pregnant. Chlorine, the amount of water and the cold temperature of pools prevent sperm from living very long.The same rules of dry land sex apply to underwater sex. Unprotected sex or even sex with a faulty condom can get you pregnant if no alternate methods of birth control are used.
Brian: it's definitely true you can't get pregnant in a swimming pool. Sperm are actually afraid of water, and when a man has sex in water, he actually doesn't ejaculate. Unless you're swimming in a pool filled with sperm. If that's the case, I recommend you call a sperm bank and tell them you've hit the jackpot. Then sell it to them and you'll never have to work another day in your life. Yes, you moron, you can get pregnant. It's a line probably invented by a guy so that some girl would have sex with him in a pool. She believed him, told all her friends and now you're keeping that man's brilliant brainstorm going. So, on behalf of every guy who's scored pool sex, thanks, Claire.
WITH THE MUMPS APPARENTLY TAKING OVER KANSAS, I'VE HEARD MEN CAN GO STERILE FROM THE DISEASE. IS THIS TRUE? 'CAUSE THAT'D BE AWESOME! — CLINT, FRESHMAN
baby I had my vas deferens cut so now I'm sterile Wanna have some amazing no pregnancy risk unprotected
**assica:** Yes, that's true. Have it, ladies. That is, of course if you want the mumps, too.