Congrats to the following winners of The Fray's and Matt Kearney's albums: Hanna Anderson Hanna Soltys Zach Renn RaLynn Schmalzried Mehrdad Hosni Andrew Winetroub Becca Sparling Gary VanHorn Adam Bettis Jenny Denny musicfreebies@kansan.com Contest Rules: Contest entries can be emailed to musicfreebies at kansan.com or enter online at www.kansan.com/musicfreebies before March 20 at 4 p.m. Contestants may only enter once. Winners will be announced in Jayplay the following Thursday. For questions contact promotions at 864.4358 WHY DOGUYS LIE ABOUT HAVING SEVERAL SEX PARTNERS? - SILVIA, JUNIOR Jessica: You can thank the machismo complex for this age-old lie, Silvia. Men tend to embellish their sexual escapades for the sole sake of appearing more "masculine" and "experienced," because obviously, all women want a man who's had more girls than tickets from KU's parking department. This means he must really know what he's doing! In reality, the ones who overrate their number are doing so because they read the wrong manual to understanding women; most women don't want a guy who knows how to pleasure every female on the face of the earth; we want a guy who's willing to give us his all. So, to all you guys who like to embellish ... Quit. Besides, who wants a liar? Honesty's sexy... and less likely to give you crabs. Brian: We lie because most of the women who are actually out trying to find sex don't want some guy who's only had sex with one or two women. She wants a man who's had thousands of orgasms with hundreds of women. She wants experience, endurance and creativity. That isn't expected from a rookie. Therefore, we lie. When guys are looking for someone to take home, they aren't trying to be as honest as possible; they're trying for the hottest girl possible. Who cares if we never see her again? Then next time we can add one more girl to our total, and we're technically not lying. I HAVE TROUBLE GOING TO SLEEP IN THE SAME BED AS MY GIRLFRIEND. I MAKE HER SLEEP ON THE COUCH. HOW DO I FIX THIS? — BRYCE, SENIOR Jessica:The only way to 'fax' this problem is to get used to her sleeping next to you... tool. I don't see why she puts up with sleeping on the couch or an insensitive jerk like yourself. Brian: First off, I must commend you on having the balls to even consider telling your girlfriend to sleep on the couch. That's a very dangerous thing you did, and men will worship you for centuries to come. Since most men won't do that, or actually like sleeping with their girlfriend, here are a few suggestions. Get a bigger bed. Trade that double in for a queen, queen in for a king. If the problem is that one of you takes up too much space, try turning down the temp to make her curl up, or push her to work out with you so you both take up less room. Couples get the idea in their head that you HAVE to be cuddling in bed for it to be enjoyable. But, what could be more enjoyable than seeing her lovely face in the morning after you haven't been smothered by her all night? INTERNET DATING CONTINUED FROM PAGE 17 she was just looking for a way to meet new friends. When an attractive man sent her a message saying that he liked her picture, she responded. Two weeks later, the two met in person for the first time and began dating. "It kind of just happened. I never thought I'd date someone I met on the Internet." Christy says. The couple dated for two months before deciding that they were better off as friends. Christy still talks to her ex-boyfriend once a week and visits him whenever she can. "I feel kind of ridiculous now, but I met a really great guy, so it wound up being good," she says. "If we had lived in the same place, we'd probably still be together." Even if you don't find a long-term romantic partner through an Internet dating site, it can be a great way for busy students to "date hunt," says Bev Bacon, author of Meet Me... Don't Delete Me,a guide to Internet dating. You may meet a new friend or make plans for Saturday night that you wouldn't have had otherwise, she says. Even though his first experience wasn't what he'd hoped, Ryan admits that he would be willing to try an Internet dating service again in the future. He says, "I think it can be effective. There are crazy people out there, but it is possible to meet people in non-traditional ways." INAPPROPRIATE SONGS WE INNOCENTLY SANG ALONG TO IN CHILDHOOD 5. "Like a Virgin"-Madonna 4. "Freak Me"- Silk 3. "Don't Want No Short Dick Man" - 20 Fingers 2. "I Touch Myself"- Blondie 1. "I Wanna Sex You Up" - Color Me Badd < Rachel Zupak ---