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Q. My girlfriend loves receiving oral sex and I love giving it to her. However, lately I can't seem to give her an orgasm with oral sex. I'm using the same moves, but ten minutes produces nothing. What should I be trying?
A. I love your enthusiasm for oral sex, and I'm sure your girlfriend loves it, too. But be careful about the language you are using. You don't give someone an orgasm — you provide an environment possible for someone to achieve orgasm.
Don't get down on yourself. My advice is to talk with your partner. Talking about the sex you two are having is a great way to get better at it.
Preferences for oral sex can be very personal. Maybe while you are giving her oral sex, she can give you a running play-by-play about what areas and touches feel good. When you talk about sexual preferences, always focus on the positives. Tell your partner what you like, and let them know when they are giving you pleasure — I mean really let your partner know. Your enthusiasm will be remembered. So instead of saying, "I hate when you do this," say, "I love how it feels when you do this." You'd be amazed how talking about sex will often make it better.
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There are a variety of factors that can keep someone from having an orgasm. It's possible that stress from school, work, parents, or anything else could keep your girlfriend from relaxing. You might not be responsible. On the other hand, extra knowledge can't hurt.
I also worry about what you are doing when you think your girlfriend is close to climaxing. What I've discovered is that guys will often speed up or intensify their strokes or licking when they think the gal is close. This is often the opposite of what you want to do. Keep the sensations the same or even slow down a bit.
First of all, ten minutes often isn't enough. Most studies show that the average woman needs around 15 to 20 minutes of oral sex to orgasm. If you are worried about getting tired, find a comfortable spot and relax your muscles. Also, a lot of guys tense up their tongue instead of keeping it wide and loose. This tension often results in you getting fatigued faster.
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Both..rugby, cricket and cricket Sands will have the majority of carries in the Jayhawks backfield during the 2010-11 campaign.
The 6-foot-1, 231 pound starter, Angus Quigley, looks to be the driving force of the dynamic Jayhawk offense, by exploiting every hole and consistently burgling through the line.
Quigley not only earned the respect of his coaches on the field, but when
The sixth year senior is ready to return to the running back position after winning the starting job, beating a deep, talented group of running backs.
he touched the ball. But it hasn't been all sunshine and roses with Quigley's tenure at Kansas, he had to miss the 2005 and 2006 season due to injury, and he was moved to
They're very talented. Both of them are.And I am excited to see what they can do on game day"
KALE PICK
Sophomore Quarterback
linebacker in 2009 while dealing with well-publicized issues with former coach Mark Mangino.
man DeShaun Sands look to overwhelm the opponent on game day.
Quigley's comeback has a strong effect in the locker room, and the coaching staff has seen how his posi-
Sands came into training camp looking to impress his coaches and earn
his spot on the backfield.
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"I was determined to play this year," said Sands.
And play he will.
Sands will be the No. 2 back on Gill's depth chart. Having two strong
"They're very talented. Both of them are. And I am excited to see what they can do on game day," said Pick.
Together, the bruiser and the burner will be working towards one goal: win. In the physical world of college football having tandem running backs is a necessary ingredient to a winning football team. Quigley and Sands are going to be ready to give it everything they've got come Saturdays this fall.
Go.
Edited by Lisa Curran
The fan base was left hurting after close losses or really bad losses last season, and a horrific offseason, but some of those wounds can
have new coaches and a new roster to which athletes have been added, lost and shuffled around between positions. I am no football coach, so I am inclined to trust their decisions on who should play with Kansas on their jersey, but like many other fans I feel an urgency to see that first victory on the schedule.
This campus thrives when our athletes are successful — when students can celebrate all weekend and pick up a Kansan on Monday just to remember how awesome Saturday was.
I wish the fans and the team a smooth first game with many great plays, chimes of the Campanile and a good waving of the wheat after the victory.
Edited by Michael Bednar
FOOTBALL
Family doesn't distract Gill
BY MATT GALLOWAY mgalloway@kansan.com
Two people who helped shape who Turner Gill is as a coach, and as a man, will see him lead a team as head coach for the first time this Saturday: his parents.
Their attendance only brings more meaning to the game for Gill, who is making his coaching debut for the Jayhawks Saturday against North Dakota State following four seasons at Buffalo. The last time his parents saw him on the field was back in 1983 when he was quarterback at Nebraska.
Also in attendance will be Gill's daughter Jordan, a student at the University of Kansas. Jordan, by chance, was already attending the school when her father was hired.
"So that's what probably makes it a little bit more special." Gill said.
"My daughter being here, and then we are all here together as a family," Gill said. "You never dream of that actually happening."
While the excitement surrounding his first game as coach could be seen as a distraction. Gill insists he is focusing solely on the Bison,
who are coached by a man Gill has seen at many different times during his career.
North Dakota State coach Craig Bohl played defensive back for
the Nebraska Cornhuskers from 1977-79, the same school Gill played quarterback for 1980-83. "He has done an outstanding job." Gill said. "I know that his team will play hard. I know
that they have been coached well. I know he is a very defensive-minded coach"
Still, there is a chance the emotion of the moment could briefly get to Gill, who is not ruling out butterflies in the stomach as a pregame possibility.
"My daughter being here, and then we are all here together as a family. You never dream of that..."
and get focused on the job that needs to get done."
Gill likely will not be the only one on the sidelines with pre-game jitters. Freshman running back
TURNER GILL Coach
"Once the first snap goes, then you are kind of ready to go, even though I'm not going to go out there and get hit and all those types of things," Gill said. "But I get excited and I get passionate about the game,
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"I just get
goose bumps thinking about it." Sands said, "In front of 50,000 fans, my first time; I'm just nervous I guess. It was a dream to play here growing up."
Gill has one request for Jayhawk fans in attendance this Saturday, including his parents and Jordan.
"I would like for them to make sure to wear blue, make sure they come to the game energized and be ready to go with some enthusiasm," Gill said.
Edited by Clark Goble
Mike Gunnoe/KANSAN FILE PHOTO
Coach Turner Gill's parents will watch him on the football field in person for the first time since 1983 this Saturday against NDSU
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