with Niloofar Shahmohammadi MY BOYFRIEND IS A HORRIBLE DRESSER. I LOVE HIM, BUT SOMETIMES I FEEL EMBARRASSED HANGING OUT WITH HIM. I START TO FEEL SILLY, LIKE I M OVERDRESSED. IS THERE ANY WAY TO FIX THIS THAT DOES NOT INVOLVE DOWNGRAINING TO SWEATPANTS AND PITISTAINED T-SHIRTS? β€” REBECCA, JUNIOR First of all,let me First of all, let me command you for looking past his criminal record with the fashion and police seeing the sweet gun on the inside of the door. There are lacky there are a number of things you can do to help him off Mr. Blackwell Wrists Dressed List. Directly telling him he is a lesley dress is not the way to handle this imagine if your boyfriend told you that he thought your fashion sense sucked What you hear is "I'm not attracted to you,loser." This is a situation that calls for subtlety. Positive reinforcement is your ticket. That means, encourage him when he picks out something possible "Wow! You look great to you!" He might give you a shirt on another guy and a job. You would look so hot in "Oh, you would look so hot in that!" And of course, you could always volunteer to take him shop. Through subtle manipulation,you should see some major improvements. Perhaps the best thing you can do, however, is to accept that while he doesn't have to be in front of you and list, he might never be considered "Best Dressed." if he's treating you right, accept his imperfections, and you may grow to find them undearing. If not, you're going to have the Queer Eye guys for some emergency help. I M 21 AND GETTING READY TO GRADUATE. I M STILL A VIRGIN MY GIRL FRIENDS TELL ME THAT I HANDSOME AND THAT IF I WERE NOT A VIRGIN THEY WOULD HAVE SEX WITH ME. MOST OF MY GUY FRIENDS LOST THEIR V-CARDS TO ONE-NIGHT STANDS, HOOKUPS, EXES AND FRIENDS. I GUESSE I M STILL HOLDING OUT FOR THAT CORY/ TOPANG KIND OF LOVE. SHOULD I JUST GET IT OVER WITH AND "BREAK THE SEAL" SO I GET THE AWKWARD FIRST TIME OUT OF THE WAY SO I CAN FINALLY LAVE A LIFE OF SEXUAL FILMMENT? MICHAEL, SENIOR me,het's proud of you for holding out for that 'Cory/Topanga' kind of love; you say you want me to just get 'it' just get 'it' so you can live a life of sexual fulfillment" but let me ask you this. How "fulfilling" would be if he were to would be if he were to give the Cory/Topanga thing? Of course you could just get it over, but up until this point you've chosen not to, so do you really want to love your virginity just because you're tired of being a giant? Don't. Too romantic to tie me up Twenty one is still really young and I think if you can be patient and wait until you meet someone you actually want to lose your virginity to, because you want to share sex with her and not because you just want to get rid of it; then you will have a much more fulfilling experience. The right woman is one you want, you're waiting, because it's hard to find guys these days who haven't lost it to one-night stands, friends or hookups like most of your friends. wanted, I don't think you would be writing in to the school newspaper asking for a second opinion. That tells me that at least a part of you still wants to work "I big be inζƒŠζ…Œ doing whatever feels right for you. If you truly feel you want to just lose your virginity and you're ready to have sex, then by all means go ahead. But if that's what you truly Don't do anything until you can do it with 100-percent certainty that it's what you really want. Until then, there's always Pincilla's and ladies to grind with at Abe and Ake;s. that's disgusting DUST MITES Don't be upset if you find yourself climbing into bed alone, because each time you slide between the sheets you can count on being greeted by oval-shaped creatures with hairy legs, no eyes and no teeth dust mites. Between 100,000 to 10 million of these mites occupy your mattress, says Grey Bolt, a researcher at Michigan University, science referring to a publication by the department of entomology at Ohio State University. entomology at Ohio State University. The dust mists, not visible to the naked eye, are so light that they and their feces are often airborne, allowing humans to breathe them in. Burg says it's the inhalation of the mites feed and shed skin that can cause cases of asthma and allergic reactions. vaxing your sheets at a high temperature each week and regularly washing clothes and comforters are the best ways to avoid breathing in the shower of feces and mice carcasses and protect you from them. You fuss your pillow or walk across a carpet, says Patricia Dunning, student health physician at Watkins Memorial Health Center. Elvse Weidner SAVE THE WORLD 100 MPG at a time! 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