FOOD REVIEW THE CREAM OF THE SOUP CROP It's cold out there. Chase away the chill with a steaming bowl of soup. BEST: CHEDDAR ALE SOUP BEST: CHEDDAR ALE SOUP Free State Brewery 636 Massachusetts St. $2.59 cup, $3.29 bowl Bever plus cheese equals genius. Creamy alma white cheddar and Free States' signature Ad Astra Ale give this dense soup an irresistible and satisfying zing. ★★★★★ POTATO BACON SOUP Quintins' Bar and Deli 615 Massachusetts St. 617.5 bread bowl The tasty bread bowl makes cleaning your plate a likely possibility. But Quinton's potato salad is made with just flour and water. Free State Brewery's cheddar ale soup. up sits as heavily as guilt in the stomach ★★★★ CHEDDAR BACON SOUP 1540 Wakarusa Drive, Suite L $2 cup. $4 bowl This cheddar bacon is chalky and (who knew it was possible?) just too cheesy. ★★ CREAM OF ASPARAGUS SOURP MIRTH Internet Café 745 New Hampshire St. $2.95 bowl $4.95 bowl This vegetable-heavy soup is velvety and flavorful, but not incredible. ALL RATINGS ARE OUT OF A POSSIBLE FIVE STARS ★★★ 12→ JAYPLAY 02.01.2007 with Niloofar Shahmohammadi I MET THIS AMAZING GIRL THE OTHER NIGHT, AND I CAN'T WAIT TO CALL HER. IN THE MOVIE SWINGSHEY THEY SAY YOU Should WAIT A FEW DAILIES BEFORE CALLING SO YOU DO NOT SEE DESAPARENT, HOW LONG SHOULD I WAIT BEFORE I CALL HER, AND SHOULD I ASK HER OUT ON THE FIRST CALL? MIKE SENIOR Oh boy... the calling game. Let me just make it clear for the record. This game is not for any girl. If you really think girl is amazing then go ahead and call her how. She's not going to hour but the next evening would be fine. if she's into you, calling one day later versus three won't make her like you any less. In fact, she will flatter and feel more secure about your feelings for her which will lead to an overall better experience for you both. Yes, go ahead and ask her out on the first call, but make it really casual, preferably a coffee or tea out. If she doesn't like chocolate, if it goes well, then ask her out again. There's no need to wait three days before letting her know you had a good time. But beware of being too intense. Don't start acting like she's giving your Griffith after date number two and don't start contacting her. Remember to miss out on the 'foray' if you move too quickly. Remember, slow and steady wins the race. BEFORE MY BYFRIEND AND I MOVED IN TOGETHER, I WAS ECSTATIC THINKING ABOUT WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO SPEND ALL OF OUR TIME TO GETHEN. BUT LATELY I FOUND THAT I'VE BELOW MORE OF A MOM OR A MAID, AND THAT THE ONE WHO DOES ALL THE COOKING AND CLEANING, IT SEEMS LIKE HE EXPECTS ME TO DO THESE THINGS. I'M GETTING REALLY FED UP, AND ALL MY ATTEMPTS TO COMUNICATE HAVE GOTTEN ME NOWHERE. WHAT SHOULD I DO? This is one of those rare occasions in which actually believe that communication is not the answer. Any way on your part translates in his mind to "nagging." So less talk, more action? Or perhaps, inaction. You see if he's expecting you to cook and clean it because it's what he expects. So it's as simple as letting his dirty pants lift up the floor JESSICA, SENIOR until he has nothing clean to wear at school on Friday. Don't make dinner one night and when he says he's staring and wants to know what there is to eat you say "oh, actually I want to walk around my only way home! I didn't have time to make anything tonight." He尔生 beeply. He尔 complain. He might even get angry. But stick to you. He lets you tempting to cave in and start cleaning when the house starts turning into a piggy, but you’re only encouragement if you see it happening, relax and before you know it he’ll start to take some responsibility for himself and see you as a less of a mother, you’d see him as a father. You also a lot more passion. THIS WEEKEND "From the window to the wall!" Grisha your pimp cup and bring 202 back as you Get Low "with the Ving Yang Twins at the Granada, 1020 Massachusetts St., tomorrow night. "We're keeping it pretty much a college show and are expecting it to be a big crowd," he said in his manager's. The show starts at p.m. DJ Scott Mullan will also make an appearance at the 18- and older show. Tickets are $20. To get yourself in the mood to party with the Ying Yang Twins, head to www.yingangmusic.com he his tsi tiu ne ec nc nc an an th th ki ke re eyes at at m den Courtney Hagen 1107042853749