Chris Tackett and Elizabeth Blasco
[Better advice than your drunken roommate gives]
How do you know if a guy really likes you or is just trying to get sex?
—Katherine, sophomore
Chris: I think guys are ALWAYS trying to get late, whether they like you or not. If a guy is only looking for sex, you'll know by the fourth date. How? He won't be there.
Elizabeth: I agree with Chris. Guys always have ulterior motives. If that's what you think he's after, don't give it to him and see if he sticks around. If he doesn't, you're better off anyway.
I've had a crush on one of my good friends for years. Really she and her boyfriend have been having problems. She came to me for advice. Should I give her good advice or subtly tell her to break up with him? Brad, Junior
Chris: If you like her you should tell her. Don't try to trick her or lie to her. If she's your friend and needs advice, give her good advice. Or just ignore her! Girls love that!
Elizabeth: I'm thinking you should tell your friend that she deserves better than the problem-causing lowlife that she's currently dating. Also, tell her that she could get a better guy, like yourself (wink, wink).
My girlfriend and I have been sleeping together for about two months, and it's been pretty good. But one of our mutual friends made a joke the other day about my girlfriend faking her orgasms. How can I be sure she's really having one? ---Bonny, freshman
Elizabeth. It's likely that your friend was just being a smart ass. However, she may have been trying to clue you in. If she's faking, you can bet she's probably not 100 percent honest in other aspects of your relationship as well.
--if you have burning questions, don't wait
'till they're flaming'
Write to:
bitch@kansan.com
and we'll try to
soothe the flare up
Chris If she's faking, it's either because you suck and she wants you to stop, or she really cares about you and wants you to think you don't suck. You should try to figure out what gets her off. Try playing this game. Kise and massage different parts of her body and have her rate the sensation from one to 10. Then focus more time on the highest ranked spots. You can also just ask her what she wants you to do.