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Thursday February 8,2001
HOROSCOPES
Today's Birthday (Feb. 8)
A confronting situation forces you to take action. Don't worry. By the time the dust clears, you'll be in a better position. You're pushed out of your comfort zone in February. Look for what you need in April. You won't have to go far. Work with a partner to get what you need in May and what you want in June. Look out for another's interests in July, and take somebody else's coaching in August. Use somebody else's money in September. Follow a strategist's leadership in November, even if you don't feel like it. Don't let friends talk you into debt in December.
Aries (March 21-April 19) — Today is a 6. Initially there's some confusion. You're torn between what you want to do and what you should be doing. Well, here's the answer: Do what you should be doing first, and you'll end up in the right place at the right time.
Taurus (April 20-May 20) — Today is a 5.
You could be the lucky winner if you're careful.
That shouldn't be much of a problem because that's your natural way. Be patient. It may be late tomorrow before the results are in.
Gemini (May 21-June 21) — Today is a 6.
Gemini (May 21-June 21) — Today is a 6.
You might think you know everything, but that feeling should be short-lived. Before long you'll wonder if you know anything at all. Don't despair. This is part of the learning experience, and you're right in the middle of it.
Cancer (June 22-July 22) — Today is a 4. Everybody thinks they're a big shot, smooth talker and shrewd manipulator — and some of them might be. Keep your eye on the shell the pea's under, or you could wind up penniless. Don't bet more than you can lose.
Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) — Today is a 6.
Taking a bold stance is good. Of course, you already knew that. That's one of your secrets to success. A better one today would be to know the numbers. Don't take anybody else's computations.
Figure them out yourself. *
Virgo (Aug. 23-Sep. 22) — Today is a 5.
Keep your head down and let the hurricane pass.
You can't do much to change the way things are going anyway. You'll probably be called upon to clean up the mess, which is fine. By then they'll liseen to your opinion.
Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 22) — Today is a 7.
Your romantic plans may get messed up, and it isn't even your fault. Actually, you're in a better position than you think. Your sweetheart will come to you for good advice, so think of something and have it ready.
Scorpio (Oct. 23-Nov. 21) — Today is a 5.
A seemingly impenetrable barrier is about to crumble. You and your friends will have cause for celebration soon. Don't tip your hand by letting others know what you've already figured out.
Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec. 21) — Today is a 7.
The plans you're making still need revision. Hurry up. You'll have to take action soon. Abandon some of the decisions you've made to make room for creativity. Sharpen your pencils and get yourself a big eraser.
Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 18) — Today is a 6.
Just about every you suggest meets resistance.
That's OK. You're just trying out ideas, right? Listen carefully and take notes. You'll figure out which of your many theories will actually hold water.
Pisces (Feb. 19-March 20) — Today is a 6.
Carefully laid plans are quite likely to go astray over the next few days, Luckily, you don't have to rely on carefully laid plans. Others will look to you for advice, with good reason. You'll be the one with the smile on your face.
Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) — Today is a 5.
If you're contemplating a major purchase, do more research first. You'll find out why you shouldn't buy several items that you thought would be fine. Better you should learn this before, rather than after, you spend all your money.
Note: Horoscopes have no basis in scientific fact and should be read for entertainment purposes only.
Girlfriend's parents deserve respect
Anonymous
I am dating a girl of a different race whom I am CRAZY about, but her parents don't like me because I am not their race and they are into the arranged-marriage thing. Every time I go over to her house, her dad always gives my dirty looks and says offhand comments about me. What should I do?
Regardless, you still need to respect your girlfriend's parents. You need to treat them well, despite the offhand comments you hear.
Dear Anonvmous.
Interracial dating has sometimes caused problems within families. It is silly because we're all human beings, and skin color is, well, only skin deep. We all have the same feelings and needs to be fulfilled.
After all, they are her parents and only want what's best for her. The way you treat them and her will be a reflection of your good character.
Not only should you treat them with respect, but also treat her with respect. Parents cannot fault guys who treat their daughters well. I would say to
Shell
gradually spend a little time with the parents when you visit their house. Most importantly, though, respect their authority and wisdom. Learn from them and try to see where they're coming from.
The worst thing you can do is treat them poorly by ignoring them or retaliating against them. A good proverb said: "You can attract more bees with honey than with vinegar." This means you will get further with her parents by being nice and respectful than by being distant and angry.
Good luck with your relationship. And remember, if it's meant to be, it will be.
Variety key to workout success
E-mail Shell at jayplay@kansan.com
By Julie Taylor
jayplay@kansan.com
Jayplay columnist
You've probably heard variety is the spice of life, but did you know it applies to your workout as well?
As a trainer I constantly come across people who have been doing the same workout for way too long and aren't seeing optimum results. Or I talk to guys who are still doing the same workout their high school football coach taught them. Sound familiar?
For a beginner, I recommend starting with a basic strength training workout for approximately 10 sessions, depending on your fitness level. After that, stick to a workout for six to eight sessions. For someone
at an advanced level,
try changing your
workout every
four to six sessions so you
are constantly challenging
your muscles.
This may sound too fast, but studies show muscles become trained
and plateau very quickly. To achieve maximum results, you must change your routine.
This does not only apply in the weight room, so try spicing up your cardiovascular workout as well.
Also, if you do cardio and weights
the same day, do your weights first then the cardio workout. You need your strength for lifting, and then it is easier to burn existing fat during your cardio workout. Just be careful not to train too much — keep your workouts around an hour. Any more than that and you risk fatiguing your body and burning muscle instead of fat.
Julie Taylor
Remember, there are no real rules on how to work out, as long as you are safe, use a variety of exercises and see results. If you are looking for new exercise ideas or have questions, e-mail me at jayplay@kansan.com.
Taylor is a Sacramento, Calif., senior and a KU FT trainer.
Fine Arts Calendar
Today
Tour du Jour: Ming Painting Through the Eyes of Connoisseurs, led by Marsha Hauffer, professor of Art History, at the Spencer Museum of Art, 12:15 p.m. white Gallery
■ Film: "One Way or Another" (1974, dir. Sarah Gomez, 78 min.) 2 p.m. in the Spencer Museum of Art Auditorium. In conjunction with Contemporary Art from Cuba: Irony and Survival on the Utopian Island.
Friday
- Stravinsky Festival: Glenn Watkins Lecture at the University of Missouri — Kansas City Conservatory of Music, 4-5:15 p.m. Free.
"Chicago" at 8 p.m. at the Lied Center.
Saturday
■ Moscow Festival Ballet in Giselle at 8 p.m., at the Lied Center.
"Seeking the Self Amid Mountains and Waters: The Expressive Dimension of Landscape in Chinese Painting" at 2 p.m. at the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art, 4525 Oak St., Kansas City, Mo.
Sundav
Flim: Loves of a Blonde (1965, dir. Milos Foreman, 88 min.) in the Spencer Museum of Art at 2 p.m. at the auditorium. Shown in conjunction with "Metaphor and Irony: Czech Scenic and Costume Designs from 1920-1999."
George Salisbury Cabaret Concert from 2-6 p.m. at the UMMC Conservatory of Music. $15, $12 for students and seniors.
Luyben Memorial Scholarship
Concert at 7:30 p.m. at the UMKC Conservatory of Music, Donations support scholarship fund
Monday
■ Stravinky Festival: Stravinky Unplugged at 7:30 p.m. at the UMKC Conservatory of Music. Free.
"Dinosaurus" by Edward Mast and Lenore Benser, performed by the University Theatre, 412 Murphy Hall. Runs Monday through Feb.10. $6, $3 for students.
Wednesday
Stravinsky Festival: Pokrovsky Ensemble featuring the Conservatory's Heritage Chorale, Percussion Ensemble, vocal soloists and piano faculty at 7:30 p.m. at the UMKC Conservatory of Music. $15, students free.
KJHK (90.7FM) Top Ten
1. Low, "Things We Lost in the Fire" (Kranky)
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2. Brassy, "Got It Made" (Wilja)
3. The Causey Way, "Causey Vs. Everything" (Alternative
Tentacles)
4. Drums & Tuba, "Vinyl Killer" (Righteous Babe)
6. Death By Chocolate. "S/T" (Jetset)
7. Actionslacks, "The Scene's Out of Sighte" (Self-Starter Foundation)
8. The Wondermints, "Bell" (Varese Sarabande)
10. Frank Black & The Catholics, "Dog in the Sand" (WAR)
Puck from San Francisco
Who's your least favorite Real World cast member?
David from Los Angeles
- Frenide, "Hello Kids" (Crank!)
Ruthie from Hawaii
Flora from Miami
Other
To cast your vote go to www.kansan.com
Valentine's Day a lonely time for columnist
By Greg Zielinski
joyplay @ kansan.com
joyplay columnist
I have always loved exchanging the paper Valentine.
I used to give one out that said, "You're a blast." The funny part was a picture of a space shuttle on the front "blasting" off. It was a lot more successful in second grade than it was last year, though.
I'm thinking this year I will hand out the more sophisticated, "Here is a kiss from me to you." There will be no cute kiss in chocolate form, though, and when she looks up with disappointment, I'll plant one smack on her unsuspecting pie-hole. That's right, Shania Twain, this is your lucky year, assuming your security does not interfere like they have on our past twenty-such romantic encounters.
Zielinski
However, not everyone has a sweetheart with whom to share the day. In fact, you may never find someone so compassionate to see beyond your football-sized goiter to the beauty inside of you. So stop crying like Tammy Faye Bakker being pepper-sprayed and enjoy this column...or at least use it to soak up your bitter, lonely tears, you baby.
Top Ten Reasons why I won't have a date this Valentine's Day:
10. My idea of an effective pickup line is,
"Hey sugar, I write for the *kansan*."
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9. While some women might be willing to lower their standards from tall, dark and handsome to something slightly less idealistic, few women lower their bar below "maintains basic levels of personal hygiene."
7. They say French is the language of love.
How do you say "Please. Take pity. I'm desperate" in French?
6. Although Lawrence will likely experience frigid temperatures on Valentine's day, to the best of my knowledge, the weather will still remain quite warm in hell.
5. No matter what I try to do, I just can't seem to impress Jody Foster.
4. Despite what you may have heard, the scent of rotten cabbage is NOT an aphrodiasiac.
3. I don't have any kids who could cleverly manipulate events to sucker me into an awkward, yet quasi-romantic relationship with Meg Ryan atop the Empire State Building.
2. Women love a guy who can make them laugh.
1. My girlfriend is 600 miles away in Colorado but she still reads my lame column every week, so happy Valentine's Day Anjali. You're way prettier than Shania Twain.
Zielinski is a Lakewood, Colo., freshman.
More information
More Jayplay content and reviews can be found online at
www.kansan.com
Jayhawk Classic KU Women's Tennis
Sat., Feb. 10
5:00 pm KU vs. Drake
KU vs. Univ. of Louisiana/Monroe
9:00 am
Sun., Feb. 11
1:00 pm
KU
Saint Louis
vs.
Alvamar Tennis Club
Free Admission
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