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KANSAS IN HEAT // HOW MANY IS TOO MANY?
Mike Anderson, Dellwood, Minn. graduate student, is the host of Kansas in Heat, a talk show about sex and relationships that airs Mondays at 9 p.m. on KJHJ, 90.7fm and at kjhk.org. Michelle MacBain is his co-host.
> Tackle the sticky world of relationships.
Q. Recently I was talking with my boyfriend about how many sexual partners is considered "too many." A 21-year-old friend of mine says he's had over 20 partners but they each meant something to him, so he doesn't see a problem with the number. What do most people consider to be too many partners and at what age?
A. Studies show that the typical American male and female say over 15 partners is "too many." I am not a huge believer in these numbers and studies because they rely heavily on young, college-aged students. My guess is that most people associate "too many" partners with a number north of 20. I think that's BS.
In some situations, I'd rather date a girl with 20 partners in the past six years than a girl who has dated the same guy for those six years. The girl with 20 partners is probably better at dating and knows what she wants. The girl with only one partner has limited experience and will probably compare me to her past partner. That strong level of comparison is often detrimental to relationships.
Are people with a higher number of sexual partners more likely to have an STI? Not if they use protection.
People might think that too many partners makes a person less attractive. Some studies show that people want a partner with less sexual history, but those studies include younger individuals who haven't had many years of experience.
// MIKE ANDERSON
Some consider people with "too many" partners to be promiscuous. I don't. Promiscuity means haphazard encounters without discrimination. Your friend, who says he has strong connections with partners, doesn't seem promiscuous.
A person's "number" means little to me until I meet that person and see who they really are. I think it's important to look at the nature of a person's sexual past before you judge his or her number.
A. Having sexual experiences, which could be with one or more partners, is necessary for sexual understanding and development. Sex is so much more than penile-vaginal intercourse, anal sex, oral sex, etc. Sex includes seduction, selflessness, passion, trust and intimacy, which, I believe, doesn't fully develop during a one-night stand or a few weeks of dating.
Let's consider your 21-year-old friend's theory. If each of his 20 partners "meant something," and that "something" is the trust and intimacy I mentioned above, then your friend has dedicated much of his few years as a sexual explorer to courtship and relationship development. Poppycock! I'm sure he's had a few short-lived sexual encounters, maybe as short as one night. This leads me to believe he is trying to save face and justify his increasing number of sex partners.
If you are using the "meant something" theory, you are on the right track. This doesn't mean the only sex you will ever want is with a long-term partner — that's OK. Don't let fear of ridicule prevent you from satisfying your exploration as a sexual being. But you must be responsible with your sexuality. Not only does this mean your sexual health, but also your sexual safety and the protection of you and your partner's emotions.
Having an intimate connection with someone feels amazing. But you'll never get there if you're worried about what others will think. Take your sexual development by the horns, find the path you want to take and make it your own
// MICHELLE MACBAIN
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Sophomore forward Carolyn Davis got into four trouble early and played just 16 minutes. She scored nine points for the night.
hawks with 16 points. The Jayhawks held her in check in the second half, allowing her to score just two more points the rest of the night. In the second half the Jayhawks evening up the rebound total, grabbing 19 compared to Oklahoma State's 20.
"I thought the post players made some ad-
"I think we're very excited. I think as every win comes we get closer and closer as a team and more confidence in each other. That is what we need right now, we need to stay together and just have that confidence," Jackson said in an interview with 1320 KLWN.
SOFTBALL
Edited by Jacque Weber
Bond of Hull sisters strengthens play on the field
BY HANNAH WISE hwise@kansan.com
Sophomore twins Rosie and Maggie Hull have been playing together since they could throw a ball.
Softball is a game where it is hard to go out and play by yourself." Rosie said. "You needed another person to play catch or
you always had your teammate there and your best friend there to help you."
Their father was instrumental in the beginning of their softball career by taking them out to play catch together from an early age. Growing up, they learned to throw with both arms and hit on each side of the plate, even though they are both right handed off the field. Now, Rosie throws with
her right and Maggie throws with her left.
The twins' shared experiences have helped them grow as athletes. During their junior year of high school, Maggie tore her ACL playing basketball. A month later, Rosie also tore her ACL
"We would just switch gloves all the time and it wasn't until high school when we decided to stick with one," Rosie said.
playing basketball at almost the same spot on the court as Maggie had.
"I can't tell you, when it happened it was like it happened to my other half," Maggie said. "Literally, I felt like I knew exactly when she went down that it was ACL. I could just tell from the pain that she was in."
FACTS ABOUT THE HULL TWINS MAGGIE ROSIE
They did rehab together. They were on crutches together. It bonded them more than ever before. As twins, Rosie and Maggie have learned over the years to stop trying to fight their differences and embrace their similarities.
"We have really been through it all together and we know how hard the other has worked our entire lives and so we can just share in this joy together," Maggie said.
Their differences stand out most on the softball field.. Rosie is a slapper and leads off the batting line up for the Jayhawks. Maggie is a power hitter and sits in the sixth spot.
"When you're out there on the field and you're in uniform and sometimes there are batting helmets and all this stuff," Rosie said. "It is cool to be out on the softball field and to see our differences about the game be brought out when we are at the plate."
They had a strong freshman
season for the Jayhawks. Rosie managed 55 hits and 21 runs with a .350 batting average. Maggie had 38 hits, 13 runs and a .253 batting average.
The offseason gave them the opportunity to be stronger and faster. After just ten games, they are on track to surpass their previous season stats. Rosie has 12 hits and 12 runs with one home run. Maggie has 12 hits and 11 runs with two home runs. They are two major offensive threats for the Jayhawks and can only become stronger over their junior and senior seasons.
Their number one goal going into recruitment was to play softball for the same school. Being able to both play for Kansas was a dream for the Hulls.
- Edited by Corey Thibodeaux
"Maggie really is my number one fan," Rosie said. "She is the one who gets it, the one who is always pulling for me, always so happy when I get hits and when I do my best. It's the same for me I am just as happy when she gets up and does the job as when I do it myself."
And when Maggie found out that Rosie was going to get the hit-away signal for the first time in her college career, she was so excited. That hit-away signal resulted in Rosie's homer.
Ohio State? Kansas? Duke? Who knows.
Teams with talent are underachieving, small schools are confusing people with their stellar records yet IV-like schedule, and the top eight or so teams have separation anxiety with the rest of the pack. The top four teams all went down last week, the first time that's happened since 2003.
Look up at East Lansing, Michigan, home of Michigan State and future Hall of Fame coach Tom Izzo. The guy could be in a coma and make the Final Four, accomplishing the feat six of the last 12 years. Izzo's squad has been mediocre to bad all season, sitting on the bubble since Christmas it seems. Want to bet against this probable 11-seed?
Maybe smaller schools like BYU and San Diego State can make a run? They've hung around the top 10 all season, beating up on powerhouses like Air Force and Wyoming.
When you drop down the rankings a bit, you see teams like North Carolina and Kentucky, a pair of teams with more McDonald's high school All-Americans than the McDonald's All-American game this year. They've underachieved somewhat, but who wants to bet against those teams early in the tournament? The talent could surprise anyone for one game.
So when the experts on ESPN tell you who's primed for an early upset, or which dark horse will make a deep run, don't listen. They don't know this year, and neither do we. If you must donate your $5 and fill out a bracket, don't waste your time doing research this year. Do what every bracket champion does: Pick the coolest mascot and hope for the best.
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