S ❤️ CONTACT > Tackle the sticky world of relationships 20 Gill d Turner Gi ing class in Wednesday Family Fo c which inclu ranked 34th rivals.com. KANSAS IN HEAT // PROSTATE PLEASURE Mike Anderson, Dellwood, Minn. graduate student, and Michelle MacBain, Kansas City, Kan., graduate student, are the hosts of Kansas in Heat, a talk show about sex and relationships that airs Wednesdays at 11 p.m. on KJHK, 90.7fm and at kjhk.org. Q. I have been with my boyfriend for four years and our sex life has been amazing. But he recently told me he likes to have his butthole played with. Should I be worried? While sp Gill describe the recruci included th explosive cussed in c recruiting executed th A. Don't be worried that he is now some sort of sexual deviant. Think of his P-spot as a different version of your G-spot. Academic articles and popular press have written about the strength of the orgasm that comes from prostate stimulation. I understand that his request might have caught you off guard, but I recommend giving it a shot if you feel comfortable. // MIKE ANDERSON A. Your boyfriend is curious about heightening his orgasms, which can be a wonderful exploratory experience as a sexual couple. Exploring fantasies supports the development of intimacy and trust. If you don't like inserting your finger,you can use thin vibrators or curved massagers. If you make an effort and still have apprehension, express this and I'm sure he will understand! // MICHELLE MACBAIN HOW WE MET // MADDIE DAVIS AND CASEY LYTLE > All great relationships had to start somewhere. Maddie Davis and Casey Lyle, both Scottsdale, Ariz. seniors, met during their sophomore year of high school in a Dairy Queen parking lot in Arizona. They both were with friends, and they talked back and forth between their cars. Though the two got to know each other in high school, they did not start dating until September of their freshman year at the University of Kansas. The couple has maintained their relationship by making time for each other despite their busy schedules. "Since I play baseball we are hardpressed on time during the spring semester," Lytle says. "With a busy schedule it's hard to find the time to do everything right and please everybody, but in the end you have to please her first because she is number one." When they have free time the couple likes to go to movies, try new restaurants and go to concerts. They also enjoy relaxing together and watching their favorite shows. The couple took a huge step toward their future together in 2010 when Lytle proposed to Davis on their three-year anniversary. Davis on the trip Lytle, with the help of his three best friends gagged and his brothers, sent Davis on a scavenger hunt in Lawrence. The clues led Davis to the Campanile, where Lytle asked her to marry him. Though they are only 22 years old, Davis and Lytle know they want to be together for the rest of their lives. "A lot of people say, 'you guys are too young,' but I don't think there is an age limit on being engaged, as long as you're responsible," Lytle says. Coffee & Spirits THE BOURGEOIS PIG Lawrence, Kansas Contributed Photo COFFEE COCKTAILS FREE WIFI Contributed Photo Home run: After meeting in a Dairy Queen parking lot in high school, Maddie Davis and Casey Lytle started dating in Lawrence and are now engaged. ALL DAY 7a.m. - 2a.m. what more could a college student need? 6 East 9th Street 785.843.1001 REGISTER TO WIN a the Baril House $50 Dinner $50 Flowers $52 2 Spray tans $60 Massage and $50 Haircut $300 VIP room for 50 $21 ice cream cake & coupons $100 of Fashions CELSIUS TANNED Register at: Envy Downtown · 911 Mass. "At Nebraska that was one of the philosophies — getting speed. And then if you want to get bigger on the inside, you still have the athelticism," Gill said. and defensive mice, can said he wanted to work from the outside first and then work his way in. this way. "I wanted to go get defensive ends," Gill said. "And if those guys can get bigger, we'll move them inside." Edited by Erin Wilbert The four defensive linemen currently signed will all start their careers at defensive end. The magic number seems to be between 275 and 285 pounds before they can move to the interior defensive line. Julius Green looks to be closest to making that switch as of right now. Green currently weighs 270 pounds and is already on campus working out. The "outside to inside" philosophy was something Gill picked up on while playing and coaching at the University of Nebraska. Gill said he noticed former Cornhusner coach Tom Osbourne implement that strategy many times while in Lincoln. [at getting a commitment.] the high number of recruits begs the question of immediate playing time, which Gill said was a good possibility for 15 or 16 of the 27 signed players. He also spoke about questions he received from a few recruits on the future of the Big 12 conference, which seemed to be in limbo last summer. "The Big 12 is here to stay," Gill said confidently. With the inconsistent performance at quarterback play in 2010, Gill was asked if incoming freshman Brock Berglund could start in 2011. "Absolutely. Yes." he said, once again harping on his goal of competition at every position heading into next season. "When you have competition in all walks of life, you're either going to rise or you're going to fall. We want to make sure that we have the right people who are going to rise to the occasion and be able to make plays for us." On top of that, he ran for 952 yards and nine touchdowns on 130 carries. The guy has speed and an arm that Kansas football seemed in desperate need of. Anthony Pierson Runningback, $'11', 175 Ibs, Fr, East St. Louis, Ill., East St. Louis High School Rivals.com ranked Pierson the eighth-best "athlete" in the nation, and the 4th-best overall prospect in the state of Illinois. During his high school career Pierson ran for 5,661 yards, and scored 76 touchdowns. During his senior season Pierson averaged 11.7 yards per carry. Pierson touchdowns in his career. In his senior season Miller ran for 2,226 yards, and 30 touchdowns to help his team reach the Class 6 quarterfinals. Dylan Adamre Offensive Lineman, 6'3", 264 Ibs., Fr. Overland Park, Kan., Blue Valley West High School Already enrolled in spring classes, Admire ranked as the sixth best Admire player in the state of Kansas as well as the 30th-best guard in the nation by Rivals.com. He recorded 67 pancake blocks as a senior and was named first-team all-state by the Wichita Eagle and Topeka Capital Journal. SEE THE REST OF THE CLASS ON PAGE 7A Jayhawks break losing streak with win against Colorado WOMEN'S BASKETBALL Freshman guard Keena Mays lays the ball up off of a fast break in the second half Wednesday at Allen Field-house. Mays recorded 16 points in the 81-53 victory over Colorado. Mike Gunnoe/KANSAN Fast-break layups, a three-pointer, a block and a mid-air interception reminiscent of Sherrron Collins — freshman guard Keena Mays did it all. Mays solidified the Kansas lead with that knockout series of plays in the early minutes of the second half. BY KATHLEEN GIER kgier@kansan.com Mays finished the game with 16 points on 7-of-8 shooting and 2-of-3 from beyond the arch. Sophomore guard Angel Goodrich talked about the impact Mays had on the team. "It felt really good, I didn't notice it in the moment," Mays said. "Those are momentum plays for us," Goodrich said. "If something happens like that we get so pumped." The Jayhawks defeated the Colorado Buffaloes in an 81-53 rout for their second conference victory of the season. Kansas now sits with a 15-7 record overall with a 2-6 mark in conference play. "It felt good to get a win, and get a big one," coach Bonnie Henrickson said. The Jayhawks have struggled recently, but were able to break a five-game losing streak with the victory tonight. "No one is happier to get out of January than us and get into February and make a run," Henrickson said. "This team has a chance to get better." Goodrich saw the significance of the game that gave them a morale boost. Mays is hopeful that this is the turn that the team needed to see "We needed this game. For the last two weeks we have struggled, but after this win it feels better," Goodrich said. success in the second half of the Big 12 Conference season. "We are gonna start our streak tonight." Mays said. Goodrich saw differences in transition as a large part of the team's success tonight. Kansas outscored Colorado 10-0 in fast-break points and scored 21 points off of turnovers. Some of these points came off of Kansas' seven steals and four blocks. "Tonight we came together and this is the strongest we have been in the last two weeks," Goodrich said. Edited by Brittany Nelson Kansas shot 62 percent from the field in tonight's competition and had 18 assists in a balanced attack in which all players scored. it felt good because we were getting quick baskets and coming down and playing defense," Goodrich said. the jaynawks next season, with many competing for a significant role. Part of building a successful program means bringing in players and coaches who know how to win, much like the Kansas City Chiefs did last year. This Kansas recruiting class had 14 players who competed in state championships last season, while 23 total had playoff experience. That's a bold statement for not yet seeing what his team can do on the field. But from what Gill said Wednesday, these guys seem to know the value of tradition. The talent of these freshmen is yet to be determined, but their experience is essential. Gill said to give it two or three years and this Kansas team will be competing for championships. Usually, all it took was one parent to buy into what Gill was preaching to help push a recruit toward Kansas. If he got two parents, it was a bonus. But the families saw the passion Kansas fans have for their sports and they wanted their sons to be revered as such. A trip to Allen Fieldhouse often made the recruits realize how much the fans love their athletes. "I think the biggest thing that is great for us, no doubt, is going to a basketball game," Gill said. The Jayhawks didn't need to have a good football season to have a recruiting class that looks solid on paper. Kansas' traditions and atmosphere are often enough to interest potential players. There is always the chance that the on-the-field goals set out by coaches and players won't go as planned. But if Gill turns his players into better men than they were before coming to Kansas, he has done his job. And Gill thinks he has another batch of players that can excel on the field, in the classroom and in the community. "This group exemplifies what a student athlete really is." Gill said. — Edited by Jacque Weber