CALENDAR
thursday, nov. 19th
POKER PUB
Conroy's Pub, 6 p.m. & 9 p.m., free, all ages
THE JUNKYARD JAZZ BAND
The American Legion, 7 p.m.
free, all ages
ARI HEST/VIENNA TENG &
ALEX WOND/DECLAN D'ORUREK
The Bottleneck, 7 p.m.
$13-$14, all ages
WINE AND CHEESE PARTY
The Gaslight Tavern, 7 p.m.
21+
NEON DANCE PARTY
MEN’S DANCE FAMILY
The Jackpot Music Hall,
10 p.m., $1-$5, 18+
LMFAO/FAR EAST MOVEMENT/PARADISO GIRLS/SPACE COWBOY/MILLION $MANO
The Granada, 8:30 p.m., $17, all ages
CLOUD DOG
CLOUD DOG 6.
The Eighth St. Taproom,
10 p.m., $3, 21+
LETTUCE IN
The Jazzhaus, 10 p.m., $3,
21+
LOVERI/ BASS DRUM OF DEATH/ WRIGHT CROWD
The Replay Lounge,
10 p.m. $2-$3, 21+
friday, nov. 20th
BLEEDING KANSAS
DODGEBALL OPEN PLAY
Community Building,
7:45 p.m., free, all ages
"THE GLASS MENAGERIE"
Crafton-Preyer Theater,
7:30 p.m. $10-$18, all ages
KJIK FARMER'S BALL -
ROUND 1
The Bottleneck, 8 p.m.
$3-$5, all ages
SWEAT WITH MILES BONNY
SWEAT WITH MILES BONNY AND SCENEBOOSTER
The Eighth St. Taproom, 10 p.m., $3.21+
RETRO DANCE PARTY
Wilde's Chateau 24, 9 p.m.
$3-$5, 18+
DAUGHTERS OF THE SUN/
BABY BIRDS DON'T DRINK
MILK
The Replay Lounge,
10 p.m., $2.5, 21+
THE REPUBLIC TIGERS / COW-
BOY INDIAN BEAR / STIK FIGA
/ THE DEAD GIRLS
The Granada, 8 p.m., $10,
all ages
SHOTS FIRED
SHOTS FIRED
The Jackpot Music Hall,
10 p.m., 18+
saturday,nov.21st
POKER PUB
Conroy's Pub, 6 p.m. & 9 p.m., free, all ages
"PAGE TO STAGE" WRITER'S
SHOWCASE
Lawrence Arts Center,
7 p.m., $5, all ages
"THE GLASS MENAGERIE"
Crafton-Preyer Theater,
7:30 p.m. $10/$18, all ages
GOLD LABEL SOUL WITH
SADIE SOUL
The Eighth St. Taproom.
10 p.m., $3, 21+
>MUJEL LOCKE WARD/
THE ANTS
The Replay Lounge, 10
p.m. $2-$3, 21+
KJHK FARMER'S BALL FINALS
The Jackpot Music Hall,
10 p.m., $3-$5, 18+
REDLEFTY / SHAWN BRUCE
AND THE HORSEBITE TEARS
The Jazhaus, 10 p.m.
$3-$5, 21+
MAD CADDIES/
THE HJONSTONES
The Bottleneck, 9 p.m.
all ages
"FUNNY PEOPLE"
Woodruff Auditorium,
8 p.m., $2-$3, 17+
"FUNNY PEOPLE"
sunday, nov. 22nd
The Pool Room, 7 p.m. & 10 p.m., free, 21+
POKER PUB
DIGITAL LEATHER / THE DINKS
/UMBROS
The Jackpot Music Hall,
8 p.m., $7-$9, all ages
**SMACKDOWN TRIVIA**
The Bottleneck, 7:30 p.m.,
free-$5, 18+
ORIGINAL MUSIC MONDAYS
The Bottleneck, 9 p.m.,
all ages
monday, nov. 23rd
SUPER NERD NIGHT
The Jackpot Music Hall,
8 p.m., $3, 18+
The Bottleneck 737 New Hampshire St.
venues //
The Jackpot Music Hall 943 Massachusetts St.
The Jazzhaus
926 1/2 Massachusetts St.
MINUS THE BEAR/TWIN
TIGERS/AS TALL AS LIONS
The Granada, 8 p.m.
$15-$17, all ages
SOPRANO VICTORIA
BOTERO AND GUITARIST
BEAU BLEDSOE
Lawrence Arts Center,
7:30 p.m. $10-$15, all ages
Community Building 115 W.11th St.
The Eighth St. Taproom 801 New Hampshire St.
The Replay Lounge 946 Massachusetts St.
The Pool Room 925 Iowa St.
Wilde's Chateau 24
2412 Iowa St.
Lawrence Arts Center Duffy's 940 New Hampshire St. 2222 W. 6th St.
The Granada Conroy's Pub
1020 Massachusetts St. 3115 W. 6th St. Ste.
tuesday, nov. 24th
editor's note //
It was only fitting, given our history, that our "end" was delivered via Facebook. We were, in many ways, a product of a globalized, web-based, technology-fueled world. We met when I was living in England and continued our relationship after I returned to the U.S. to attend the University. Ourts was a relationship laced with technology — while spending months of the year apart, we kept each other up-to-date with our everyday lives through daily internet-phone, video and e-mail conversations. Thousands of miles away from each other, these easily-taken-for-granted pieces of technology served as a glue keeping us together — it was a facilitator to our relationship, without which we would not have been able to stay so close for so long.
My now-ex-boyfriend and I, in a string of messages back and forth, came to the conclusion that, though we deeply cared for each other, our distance meant we could no longer be friends. We ended things amicably, he by sending me one final playful tease of my short-limbed awkwardness.
And so, with a post-script to a Facebook note, my closest relationship yet — with my best friend since I was 15 — came to a close.
P. S. Your shortcoming only include your inability to climb walls.
Check out Mia's story for more information on what not to do as a 21st-century dater. Perhaps you've been the victim of a text-message break up or been tempted to become a cellular offender. Either way, as technology becomes more and more entrenched in our lives, we'll have to learn how to effectively incorporate it into our relationships.
My experience with the convergence of technology and relationships was overall a good one. But, as Mia's story on textmessage breakups on page 11 shows, there is a dark side to these outcomes of the digital age — when technology is used to avoid face-to-face interactions and to commit an increasingly common relationship faux pas.
// ALEX GARRISON, ASSOCIATE EDITOR
EDITOR // Sean Rosner
**ASSOCIATE EDITOR** // Alex Garrison
**DESIGNERS** // Laura Fisk, Liz Schulte
**CONTACT** // Mia Iverson, Hailey Osterhaus
**HEALTH** // Kirsten Hudson, Amy Johnson
**MANUAL** // Francesca Chambers,
Patrick De Oliveira, Andrea Olsen
**NOTICE** // Hannah DeClerk, Kelci Shipley,
Valerie Skubal
BRAINVILLE TRIVIA
Johnny's Tavern West,
8 p.m., free, all ages
CURSIVE/CAPGUN COUP
The Bottleneck, 8 p.m.
$13-15, all ages
**PLAY** / Sarah Bluvas, Zach Getz,
Jake Lerman
TUESDAY CONCERT
PRESENTS KIRK VERNON
Signs of Life, 8 p.m.
all ages
CONTRIBUTORS // Mike Anderson, Taylor Brown, Amber Jackson, Chelsea Johnson, KJKH music staff, Sasha Lund, Landon McDonald, Abby Olcese, Brett Phillippe, Nicolas Roesler, Amanda Sorell
CREATIVE CONSULTANT // Carol Holstead
CONTACT US // jayplay09@gmail.com
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111 Stauffer Flint Hall
1435 Jayhawk Blvd.
Lawrence, KS 66045
(785) 864-4810
TUESDAY NITE SWING
Kansas Union, 8 p.m., free,
all ages
A SUNNY DAY IN GLASGOW
The Replay Lounge,
10 p.m., $3, 21+
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MOVIE NIGHT
The Gaslight Tavern, 7 p.m.,
free, 18+
POKER PUB
POKER PUB
The Pool Room, 7 p.m. &
10 p.m., free, 21+
THEAMERICANA MUSIC
ACADEMY JAM
Signs of Life, 7.30 p.m.
free, all ages
ASHLEY RAY
The Granada, 9 p.m., $15,
all ages
**DOLLAR BOWLING**
Royal Crest Bowling Lanes,
9 p.m., $1, all ages
BRENT BERRY AND FRIENDS/
THE CALAMARY CUBES
The Jazbahs, 10 p.m.,
$4, 21+
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