12 Thursday, October 21, 1993 UNIVERSITY DAILY KANSAN Breakfast • Lunch • Dinner 728 Massachusetts • 842-5199 Rentco USA 749-1605 25% Student Discount On All New Rentals! 1741 Massachusetts THE WEDDING BANQUET (PG-13) TODAY(4:30),7:00,9:30 FINAL WEEK The Fugitive PB*13* 70; 9:40 Mr. Nanny PB (*4:30) The Program R B (*4:35); 7:20; 9:45 Mr. Jones R B (*4:20); 7:15; 9:50 For Love or Money PB (*4:25); 7:00; 9:30 Beverly Hillbills PB (*4:30); 7:10; 9:35 Malice R B (*4:15; 7:10; 9:50) DICKINSON THEATRE 841 8000 Dickinson 6 841 8000 2137 W. 45th St. Premature Show (1) and Heating Bed Senior Citizen Anytime Impaired Stories - DRUGSTORE COWB * Wed., Oct. 20, 7:00 PM Thurs., Oct. 21, 9:30 PM * LOLITA Wed., Oct. 20, 9:30 PM Thurs., Oct. 21, 7:00 PM DAVF Fri., Oct. 22, 7 & 9:30 PM Sat., Oct. 23, 7 & 9:30 PM Sun., Oct. 24, 2:00 PM •PINK FLAMINGOS Fri., Oct. 23, midnight Sat., Oct. 23, midnight All shows in Woodford Auditorium. Tickets $2.50, midnight $3. Free admission with SUA Movie Card. For information, call 864-SHOW. Crown Cinema BEFORE & PM. ADULTS $3.00 ( LIMITED TO SEATING ) SENIOR CITIZENS $3.00 VARSITY 1015 MASSACHUSETTS 841 5191 Demolition ManR 5:50 7:15,8:30 CINEMA TWIN 11 SEATS 3110 OWA-841-5191 $1.25 HILLCREST 925 IOWA 841 5191 Robin Hood Men in Tights PG-13 5.00 7.30, 9.30 Free Willy PG 5.00, 7.20 Cool Runnings PG 5.15, 7.30, 9.30 The Good Son R 5.15, 7.20, 9.30 Judgement Night PG 5.00, 7.15, 9.30 Age of Innocence PG 5.00, 8.00 Gettysburg PG 7.00 Daily Showing Times DO YOU KNOW AN OUTSTANDING SENIOR? - We are now accepting nominations for the 1994 Hilltopper Awards. - Nomination forms are available at 428 KSUnion. - All nominations must be turned into 400 KS Union (OAC office) or 428 KS Union (layhawker office) by Friday Oct 23 at 5 p.m. - Anyone may nominate an outstanding senior. - All nominees will receive an application "We Care For KU" Since WATKINS Busy schedule? Watkins Pharmacy is Conveniently Open Til 9 p.m. Monday-Thursday, Pharmacy Hours Monday-Thursday 8 a.m.-9 p.m. Friday 8 a.m.-6 p.m. Saturday 8:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Sunday 11 a.m.-3 p.m. STUDENT HEALTH SERVICES 864-9500 Program advises students to dump emotional baggage Serving Only Lawrence Campus Students in the trip of life, Barbara Ballard, assistant dean of student life, would tell people to pack their bags lightly By Cheesley Dohl Kansan staff writer — taking only the necessities for a good trip. "Excess baggage is what keeps us from leading the lives we want to lead," Ballard told 19 KU students last night in the Kansas Union during an informal discussion. "The negative emotional baggage we carry in our lives comes between ourselves and our success," she said. "We must learn to lighten our loads." The Emily Taylor Women's Resource Center sponsored the program titled, "Dump Your Emotional Baggage." Renee Speicher, graduate assistant planning committee member of the center, organized the program. Speicher chose the topic of "emotional baggage" because it would benefit students most at this time in their lives. "This is an important issue for the campus community," she said. "Now Emotional baggage includes all of the negative traits and behaviors people have hidden inside that keep them from becoming what they want to be, Ballard said. is the time for students to confront the problems that might be holding them back." She said everyone had emotional baggage that got in the way of personal expectations. "Just because I'm a psychologist doesn't mean I don't have problems of my own," Ballard said. "But it's a matter of not letting those problems weigh you down so you can't be happy as your own person." Ballard used Oprhac Winfrey and her battle to lose weight as an example. She said that Winfrey had battled to lose weight but her real problem was her self-image. "In Oprah's case, she had something weighing much heavier than the physical weight that was keeping her from being happy," Ballard said. "She was carrying emotional weight." Ballard said her main goal was to get people to realize what their emotional baggage was. She said it was not as "Sometimes we can't do it ourselves," she said. "Sometimes it takes someone to listen to you, and it might even take a professional. But the first step is realizing you have the problem and you want to do something about it." simple as it sounded. Ballard said conquering problems had everything to do with a positive attitude. "An optimist will look at a day and say, 'I only have six more hours to go, how can I make this day better,'" she said. "A pessimist will spend wasted energy defeating themselves before they even have a chance to make things better." Students expressed their fears and their frustrations to the group in an attempt to discover what their emotional baggage was. Paula Miller, Goddard senior, said she felt fortunate she went to the program. "It prompted me to think about the emotional baggage I might be carrying," she said. "I decided I am. Now I can recognize it, and I can start doing something about it." By Donella Hearne Keep Fox on the air, Senate says Kansan staff writer Student Senate passed resolutions last night to encourage Sunflower Cablevision to continue broadcasting Fox affiliate KSHB-TV Channel 41 and to encourage the Commencement Committee to arrange for a keynote speaker for May graduation ceremonies. These resolutions are meant to officially express the Senate's support of these changes. Sunflower Cablevision refused to carry the Fox network after a new federal cable law gave networks the option to charge cable companies for carrying their signals. Fox asked that Sunflower Cablevision pay it $25 a customer for the broadcast of their signal. The Committee for Speakers at Commencement presented its resolution to gain Senate's support for the addition of a keynote speaker. It has been more than 10 years since a keynote speaker has addressed graduates, said David Stevens, a representative for Student Union Activities. Another bill proposed that $2,400 be spent for a new Macintosh computer and a personal laser printer for the Senate secretary. Laura Bellinger. The Senate passed the bill only after the amendment was made to use the Macintosh that already exists in the Student Senate Executive Chairman's office and pay only the $800 for the laser printer. Senators argued that there was no need to buy a new computer for the secretary when it was unnecessary for the chairman to have a personal computer in his office. dent groups and events at a cost of $3.086. The groups were: Senate also voted to finance six stu Blueprints Student Leadership Conference — $600 for materials to be used by those attending the conference. - Malaysian Student Association — $1,235 for Malaysian Night decorations and entertainment. Costa Rican Student Association $359 for general expenses including office supplies and advertising expenses. American Chemical Society — $329 for general expenses. KU Slavic Club — $334 for general expenses. "Partnership for Kansas" Comments by Chancellor Gene Budig to the University Senate Philosophy Club — $229 for general expenses. Passage of these bills brings the Senate's fund for new student groups and special events down to $24,436.74. Thursday, Oct. 21, 3:30 p.m. Don't get caught... All faculty and students are invited to attend. Alderson Auditorium, Kansas Union without your Fishnet Pantyhose! UNDERCOVER "The Pink Building" 21 W9th St 20 year old SWM seeking 18-20 SWM for a fun friendship and maybe a little romance. I enjoy watching and playing sports, taking trips to K.C., and listening to all types of music. #43481 M Male A Asian F Female J Jewish D Divorced C Christian S Single G Gay W White Gay B Black L Lesbian H Hispanic N/S Non-Smoker To check out these ads call 1-900-285-4560 You will be charged $1.95 per minute Common abbreviations 25.3 SWM with long, flowing, blonde locks, fanned, ripped, sinew, and ready for adventure with comparable robust babe whose ready to ride to the halls of Valhalla. #21824. **5'0" 1000b, 23 yr old cuddy, lumberjackin', rocky- bell hopcest with poet's soul and size-showing far hot, nasty, rigorous, monogamous love affair with red-hot rookin' mama of any flavor and eco- nism. I will cook for you. I'll bubba-bubba-liaison! I will cook for you. I will offer praise and sacrifice unto you. I will drive your bed to the far side of the sun. I am ready, willing and able to put in overtime and my medicine cabinet is always stocked with vitamin E so give me that elque behind. No winna or whinners. **44489** 30 yr old grad student she attracts attractive blond woman for a serious relationship. Enjoys going out, fine restaurant, cruising with the top down, and logarithms. All replies answered. #44116 6"/bond hair/blee hair/well built/ 29. yr. old. I'm looking for an older women @ (25 and up) for an intelligent mature relationship. The woman "m" looking for has long hair, given a 48 year-old woman @ 14,877 Man searching for SWF with strong Catholic roots who plan on attending K-State soon. She must be friendly, outgoing, and say hello to everyone she prefers. Preters a girl from 4th floor Elwellhurst, in St. Lawrence chair, or has red hair. If interested call box 46228. positive attitude. No smokers, please #4272 Look into my crystal ball and see a 6, dark eye Gemenian in your future. He will have many Tau- kens; he will have many friends. He is person. He is: if you call I will respond #47183. SHM looking for wonderful, energetic, kind, caring, and compassionate young lady to share time with. must be athletic, great sense of humor, and a non smoker. Sincere inquiries only. #44076 SM, energetic, intelligent & communicative, looking for SF 20-29 for a candeliable dinner. SWM, 29, seeks S/MWF 21-30, for fun times and excursions. Req. MS in Info Sys or equiv. encourages ability to apply. Integrate job with a company. SWM 30yrs, 510/150hs. long brown hair, I love Henry Rollins, Tom Waina, Social Distortion. I own a motorcycle, don't have job and probably drink to eco-freak need not be. Birkenstock wearing eco-freak need not be. SWM 19, straight out of Chicago, looking for an intelligent and personable woman, who loves to talk. Bud-lite drinker is a plus and a good dancer is a must. #3072 SWM 27, $61. brown hair/eyes, nice looking, able- slant, alderner, attorney, KU Aum. I am, open, minded, kind, deep, musical, independent. I dislike religion. Prefer the above traits in one w/ nervous career agenda, eg. grad student who is naturally attractive and slender. 44445 SWM N Attractive 29-yr old, bui. Busch, joy evenings out as well at time spent by my fireplace @ home. I'm searching for an intell., attractive f., who enjoys fine wine and good conversation, as well as a few beers at the Yacht Club. I have a personality you should, too. #80234 SWM 40, looks 30, *6*'17. Handmade, smart, athlete-craze. Racer. SAE-SWP with similar interiors. Canoeing, camping, nature, bicycling, running, equestrian for a possible friendship or beyond. SWM- Ye! I see like pin colada and & getting caught in the rain, no I'm not into Yoga, and yes I have half a brain. Yes I enjoy champagne. Call me and we will escape. #4635 Wanted attractive SWF. Adventure, fun loving, and open minded is a must. I am Graduate PHD student. For possible relationship please call me to age. Age not important. #4609 WANTED: SWF who is intelligent, introspective, cynical, well adjusted, active, uninhibited, & a bit morbid. If you're comfortable w/ parties, VCR all nighters, open minded conversation, be a kinky catwoman, and sprinting flights of stairs - should talk, & possibly share the pleasures of being vividly alive. Are you the one who will surprise me? #3676 WOMEN SEEKING MEN Closest romantic seeking knight in jeans SAF looking for a decent SWM who appreciates the art of sensuality. If you enjoy honesty, practically and an unchained imagination in a woman, then I'm a safe bet. Why take my word for it when you can discover me for vourself? #80116 Cynic, 21 w/ romantic tendencies. Seeks attractive, honest man, 21-32ish who enjoys jazz, theatre, art and Letterman. Long hair. Long hair is a plus. Im independent, creative, pretty (5") *bim*/brum, smoke a little, drink a little, and looking for something potentially serious. Box #40083 DCWF, non-smoker, senior, 30'. This is an adventure. Intelligent, capable, fit, woman with morals and goals seeking the same high standards in a SM that would enjoy sharing time and fun. Looking for a good man that likes to laugh and like his parents. 445809 Four SWF roomies, search for four decent, interesting, moralistic, sports orientated, non-smoking, sensitive males, to have fun and socialize with. 429078 Scorpion sensual voice seeks SWM for intimate realm with imaginative women try at #44000 SWF 19.5°, with light brown hair. Seeking single white male who likes to party but also has a serious side. Enjoy romantic evenings and knows how to treat a girl right. #43875 SWF interested in finding a laid back SWM. Likes to listen to Grateful Dead, Dueles Traveler, Sample, etc. and a plus If you’re looking for someone to tap kegs with call right now. How does that keg? #z2310 MEN SEEKING MEN Are you confused and troubled by your sexuality? Are you unable to share worries with someone that will be able to help you? Are they sure that with clean habits? Then call me for a sincere friendship and maybe something more. I am BM-1820, 443997. 443998. Clean cut prepypre clostermat type uses the same ages 18-30. Call box 44390 GW mature male. When our weather is changing, every day, we hope our Indian summer lasts a little longer to take long walks through the shade of the trees. If you're straight-acting, with great looks and a great bed, 18-28, then give me a call to meet the same. #42820 HERE'S HOW IT WORKS To place an ad (must be 18 yrs old) 1. Call or come into the Kansan at 119 Stauffer-Hint Hall, 864-4358. 2. You'll place an ad in the Jaytalk Network section of the Kansan (up to 6 lines) and call a free 800-number to record a voice message for people who respond to your ad. Your voice message will remain in the system for 21 days. 3. After your ad runs in the Mon., Tues., & Thurs. editions of the Kansan, you call a free 800-number (every 3rd day from the day that you initially place your voice message), to listen to the messages people leave for you. Any other day, you may call the 900-number to retrieve your messages at a cost of $1.95 per minute. The average call is 3 mins in length. 4. You choose the people you want to meet and call them to set up a time and place. To check out an ad 1. Choose the ads you want to 1. Choose the day you want to respond to and note the voice mail number in them. 2. Call 1-900-285-4560 (you need an off-campus, private residence, touch-tone phone), enter the mailbox number from the ad, and listen to the message. Or browse through all the voice messages in a category. You can interrupt to skip over messages that don't interest you. Voice prompts will lead you along the way. You'll be charged $1.95 per minute. ( 3. If you like what you hear, leave a message of your own. Include a 1 .