10 Wednesdav. October 13, 1993 UNIVERSITY DAILY KANSAN Advertise in the Kansan! STUDENT TRAVEL 1-800-777-0112 THE WORLD'S LARGEST STUDENT & YOUTH TRAVEL ORGANIZATION STA TRAVEL Hair Experts Design Team $5 Off Hair Design Not valid with any other offer EXPIRES 10/15/93 40 Discover Our Difference Holiday Plaza • 25th & Iowa 841-6886 Talk puts focus on rape's impact $1.50 Pale Ale Schooners 1009 Massachusetts 843-9032 Coping with the effects of rape is neither easy nor predictable, said Dick Nelson, assistant director of counseling and psychological services at Watkins Memorial Health Center. By Carlos Tejada Kansan staff writer "Each and every case of rape, each and every case of incest, has its own individual set of dynamics and individual set of characteristics," he said. At last night's discussion at the Pine Room in the Kansas Union, titled "How Long Does Rape Live on After Rape?" members of the Emily Taylor Women's Resource Center and other groups talked about the long-term ramifications of rape. "The impact of rape can be and is profound from the very first moment of the attack and for many years afterward," Nelson said. Susan Hickman, graduate assistant at the center, said that although rape survivors need help and support, they should not be pushed into counseling for which they might not be ready. "It isn't the stage as much as when they're ready to do it," she said. "Sometimes it takes people months and years before they can process what happened." Barbara Ballard, associate dean of student life and the center's director, said survivors sometimes repressed the event to continue with their lives. "It's not healthy, it's helpful," Ballard said. "It's saying, 'right now I won't deal with it. I want to deal with it later.'" Lara Kaczmarski, Pittsburg, Pa., freshman, said the discussion would be helpful for both rape survivors and their loved ones. "It's a very uncomfortable situation to be a friend [of a rape victim] or to even know this person, because rape isn't something that's easy to talk about." Day-care homes must be owned by operators By Tracil Carl Kansan staff writer Hermann Lucke rents his home, and during the day Rosemary and Jorge Valverde operate one of their four day-care homes at the same address. care homes and decide if they qualify for an exception. Last night the City Commission decided to require day-care home operators to be residents of their daycare homes. But they also added a section that would allow the commission to review special situations and, if necessary, let nonresidents operate a day care in a home. Three of the four day-care homes, which are all rental properties, are next to each other on West 23rd Street Terrace. Keith Johnson, a resident of West 23rd Street Terrace, said the day-care homes' high concentration caused too much traffic for the small cul-de-sac. So the Valverdes will wait for the commission to review their four day- "I believe that the quality of care is exceptional, but I have two small children and one of my major concerns is their safety," he said. Michael Braa, another resident on West 23rd Street , said he thought the Valverdes' day-care homes were not homes at all. "This is a campus of three buildings," he said. "This is a big business." Wint Winter, an attorney representing the Valverdes, showed the commission a letter that Price Banks, director of city planning, sent the Valverdes in 1986. In the letter, Banks said a day-care home could operate without the owner living there, but that the home must be a residence first and a day-care home second. Lucey said the house at 2094 W. 23rd St. Terrace was his residence first. "I live there," he said. 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