a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s t u v w x y z OP-ED UNIVERSITY DAILY KANSAM --- Wednesday, October 13, 1993 5 LETTERS TO THE EDITOR Lesbian mother case reveals new bigotry In last Friday's Kansan was a small news brief announcing the fact that the state has stolen another woman's child. An Oklahoma appeals court ruled that a woman's child could be taken away from her because it "might encounter future prejudice by a disapprovoking society." It seems that we have a rather selective definition of bigotry these days. It's no longer socially acceptable to persecute individuals because of things they can't help, like skin color or sex. Instead, we encourage people who "can't help what they are" to join groups and to "reaffirm their diversity." I may have misstated the case. It wasn't some woman's child that was taken, it was some lesbian's. There are any number of other children out there who face prejudice because of their parent's profession, religion or even skin color. Yet none of these groups are having their children taken away. As this polarization has become more pronounced, we have come to define individuals by physical characteristics and not by personal choices. In such a society, where one's place is defined by one's physical characteristics or birth, individuals who make choices are at a disadvantage. Whether or not being gay is a choice is beside the point. Society sees gays as choosing an alternative lifestyle. They are a diverse group not defined by something they "can't help," like skin color or sex, but instead by something they "can help"—their sexual preference. Legal protections only seem to apply if your membership in a group is "not your fault." Those who choose to be different aren't entitled to equal protection under the law. Yes, it's a backwards sort of bigotry, but it's bitvot nonetheless. Robert Keaton Chicago graduate student Abortion right granted; funds not guaranteed The issue: Thousands of American women are denied the right to an abortion because they cannot afford the procedure. The background... We hold these truths to be self-evident; that all men are created equal; that they are endowed by their Creator with inherent and inalienable rights; that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of happiness;... The opinion: If we are endowed these rights, I have the freedom to do as I please. In pursuit of my happiness, I choose to smoke (have an abortion), but I can't afford the price of cigarettes (the procedure). Do I ask the government to enact a law to help me pay for my happiness? "No,"you say. "Because you choose to smoke," you say. "Why?" Isay. "Don't most people choose to engage in sex?" I ask. Medicare funding is not necessary to make the right a reality. If you cannot afford the cigarettes, you don't smoke. If you cannot afford the abortion, find a preventative solution before you have sex. We have been given at the start of our lives the liberty to do as we please and to pursue our own happiness. Not everyone can indulge their liberties. Not everyone can afford to pursue their happiness. Not everyone can afford cigarettes. Not everyone can afford an abortion. That's life. The 1973 Supreme Court decision has been fulfilled. American women do have the right to an abortion. As Kirk Redmond wrote, correspondence with your legislators could be influential at this important juncture. Either way, please do so. Postscript: Funding might ensure equal access, but make condoms obsolete. Mike Cooper Kansas City senior Dogs, canes serve as tools of independence I was the subject of a story that appeared in *K-You* by April Gonzales. I was very impressed with April's concern about getting the story right, but unfortunately, a grave mistake has been made. I believe I was misquoted in the story when it read, "We can't be totally dependent on Seeing Eye dogs and canes if we can help it." I would never in a million years have said this. I had told April that often blind people are seen as dependents of their dogs whereas actually dogs are tools for the blind person. Often people address the dog before they address the person, or in stories, the service dog is portrayed as the primary point of focus and not the person. As far as the cane, I tried to explain that a cane is a tool with which to achieve independence. I have worked very hard myself to learn to effectively use one. I firmly believe that many people who could benefit from the use of a cane do not currently use one because they believe that they would be seen as dependent and not independent. Heather Kirkwood Wichita sophomore 53 Primetime Meet ( ) Healing Oalby Senior Citizen Animation Imprered Stereo SPEND A YEAR IN JAPAN! 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